I definitely understand. a lot of my friends are strong independent types. we are so different and im far more compromising. mostly because we submissive girls put our men first almost always. am i pleasing him and supporting his needs? am i making him proud and representing him well in public? the respect and honor a submissive girl can give is another level in my opinion. I'm so proud to be submissive and obedient tbh. I think Ill make a great wife soon. but you are right, criticizing him wouldn't be my forte. I am more likely to give suggestions and help him work through things together with me. I'll give honesty without criticizing too much if I can. I'm open about my opinions but his decision is the final word on most things. And I definitely let him know if something hurt my feelings. Thats the beauty of being feminine and submissive. If im being especially sensitive that day and need to break down and cry and share my feelings, I can and he's there for me. my friends who are too strong have too much pride to do that and dont want to seem weak or give him the upper hand or the guys have so much built up resentment that its hard to soften for her in the mmoments she might need it. for submissive girls, we are usually always super feminine and want him to know that we look to him as the authority and the person who protects and takes care of us. in my experience and observation, the guy is 1000 times more open to caring and apologizing and being there for you when you need him if you're not a super hardened chick. but still some guys like the strong girl so I don't know, just what I see
I agree with you. You also pointed out another thing that makes me prefer submissive girls: "because we submissive girls put our men first almost always..." That's what I'd like from my partner because if she does that I'll be able to put her first as well (which is what I want to do for my partner in a relationship). When I said "criticizing", I generally meant that I'd want her to express her opinions, hold me to promises I make, work with me on issues, and pretty much what you described.You seem like a lovely person. I envy the guy who wins your heart.
you're very sweet. thank you so much :)
definitely, we ladies have to wear two hats. one helps in career but I would never talk to my man that way. a lot of girls struggle with competing and bossing around their men. I might test him that way but a real man wouldn't accept that. And the flip side is her submission and obedience means nothing if she's doing it for everyone. The special guy in my life gets a unique position of authority over me, something no one else has not even my parents. I love it that way :)
I agree. I wouldn't accept being bossed around and if she tried to test me, then my attraction for her would dissipate and she'd be looking for another guy. I want a girl who's authentically submissive instead of one who's testing to see what she can get away with. And you're right, if you're submissive with every guy, it's not special and you're more likely to be used and manipulated by other guys. That's why when a girl is being submissive, you can't abuse her submissiveness. It's a balance; he protects her and she submits to him. Everyone's happy so long as both take care of their responsibilities towards each other.
A lot of men are staying away from submissive women because submissive women are helpless My fiancée is the dominant one and she knows how to fix stuff on her own and she fights her own battles
Your backwards religion taught you to be a slave towards men
Last time I checked, slaves weren’t covered head to toe, waiting until marriage to fornicate, have the right to divorce, have the right to keep their own money, or have custody over their children. Submissiveness is innate for women. You will find this among every culture. Just because you do not have the means to take care of a woman, financially or emotionally doesn’t it invalid.
*make it invalid*
Islam is an awful barbaric religion that should not exist Anyone who supports Islam is a SJW
I love when people have no knowledge of the religion, yet bash it 🙂. Furthermore using a characteristic of mine to undermine my opinion...
You’re a joke. Say you’re a submissive mamas boy and be gone.
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harsh but funny lolguys seem to like the strong girlsBut im glad so many like the submissive type as well :)What do you like about the submissive and obedient type?
I think we are probably the most loyal. We look up to our men and usually give ourselves completely. I like my man to be in charge. The level of respect and honor is too deep for most submissive, obedient women to cheat. just my opinion
Do you have a man or you are single too?If you are submissive girl you are serious relationship girl for me tbh
Dominant woman 100% i Will be at your service mistress
I agreeMy fiancée is an assertive aggressive woman hehe
Nice little poem!
you can have your life together and be submissive to him but to each his own, there's a match for all :)
If that's her fetish, I'll do it for her anyway. No problem at all.However my ideal would be having an equal partner.
lol I don't know but they are the focus these days
you dont know whether or not you like submissive and obedient or strong and independent?
I like women that are in between.
you probably tend to go for one over the other though. which is a bigger turn on?
I would say the strong independent woman
Which one do you want?
Which one am I? definitely more submissive and obedient. Im independent because I have to be but never when I'm in a relationship and I would never consider myself in the "strong independent" camp. I more or less like to serve my man and cater to his needs, very soft and feminine. I'm vocal but still obedient on most things. I'm definitely a traditional girl. I would never disrespect or back talk my man in front of other people and I dont like to chase men or be expected to tell him what he should do. I like being told what to do more than the opposite, future hubby will be the head of our home no question, etc. so I need a strong, dominant man to protect and guide and put me in my place if necessary. :)
We found a daddy girl lol
@NorthwestRider A what?
i love how much you guys seem to like us, I'm blushing lol :)never sure if guys generally prefer the strong independent type more. its easy for submissive and obedient to look weak but I dont think we are. our strength is just different. What do you like about submissive girls?
And read her Bible