Should a guy bother dating if he’s over 30 and still making minimum wage?

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minimum wage is around 7.25$ usd per hour but im going to spoon in 10$ per hour so 7.25-10.00 per hour you are likely not living in your own place with these wages.  A guy is pretty much screwed after 30 with these wages right? Girls be real here dig deep and answer truthfully

SueAnon84 · Accepted Answer

Yes... money isn't everything and it's better than nothing! I have seen MANY hispanic families be raised on BOTH the mom and the dad working in places like Arby's and Walmart! They still want to reproduce and what should really stop them! This question was like me a couple months ago when asking: "Why do poor people have children? ! " Well to answer that, it's because they CAN! They have Welfare that they can go to! ... This is what I have discovered... it may not be a popular vote for my old school parents who always worked desk jobs their whole life BUT had children in their 20s (my brother was born when my mom was 26 after one misscarriage before him!) and I when my mom was 31 and then she had another misscarriage after me! ... Oh and this is what I have discovered... Especially about having children... I think that you can have all your life to make money... BUT (and I mean this a great big BUT! !) you don't have all your life to have children! And that is why, even though I was scared in my 20's to have children, the hispanics weren't because they thought like this! Also, they usually have kids/children young! It's because they want to have the healthiest and be at their most fertile to ENSURE the continuation of their species... I doubt people can afford IVF (Invitro fertilization) and God knows hardly anyone wants to adopt because it's not their "blood" if you know what I mean!

Souce: Me singe, works a mimimum wage too! ... But I'm from CA so my mimimum was is like $12 dollars and up! Some companies go as high as $15 or $16 depending on the company! If I didn't leave my old company, I'd have been getting $17.75 per hour but it was an abusive environment so... I am in my 30's (in fact I am 35) and this is what I think! Plus, unfortunately, guys are so grossly shallow (MOST of them) that you tend to "disappear" when you turn close to 40! ... Unless it was just my getting immature guys and the shallow ones... I need help here guys! <-- Single and looking!! One bad relationship to another! But I hope not this time around!

MissDawn7961 · Accepted Answer

If a man as described above can afford to take a woman out for say a soft drink and a sandwich then do it ! first dates should be something simple and cheap for if she is not your type then you did not spend out much money on her finding out that she is not for you ! for me it is this way ! he picks me up at my house and we go to a near by restaurant for what I call a - Snack and Chat - of which he pays for ! then if after about an hour and we get along then we can set up a time and place for a longer date ! if we do not get a long then no more dating ! If a man is interested in a woman then he can try this but has never talked ! If he sees her and she sees him , then he should - wave and smile - at her and see how she responds back ! if she does the same thing back to him then he can go over to her and talk to her ! if she does not respond back to him then he should find another woman ! my mechanic shows an interest in me but he does not make minimum wage for he works for a woman who is the widow of his boss ! if a woman really likes you then money will not matter that much to her but your loving heart will

demonics · Accepted Answer

What kind of loser is still making minimum wage at 30? Dude better be a sex offender or an ex con or handicapped otherwise you're just pathetic. Literally what have you been doing the past 13 years of your life.

I answered a similar question in a Youtube comment thread. After much back and forth I came to the conclusion that this generation literally doesn't know how life works outside of their respective bubbles... the prospect of MOVING out of an economic deadzone was preposterous to them. Getting a second job, was preposterous, NOT fucking random people and getting pregnant with ZIP in the bank was preposterous. They didn't even know where to start "Its not that easy!" "B-b-b-b-b-but I have kids!" "I don't wanna leave my family!" "Save me communist government!"

Tore those idiots a new one, showed them HOW to move to a new city and get started and asked them some pretty pertinent questions about their life choices prior to their current predicament. Haven't gotten a response in a couple days. Either they're BIG MAD and pouting in the corner or they took my advice.

To your question, a 30 year old man, again, sans ex cons, handicapped, and sex offenders, should be ruthlessly mocked not just by women but by society as a whole. You have NOTHING to offer her, relationships are an exchange of resources for access to reproduction (fuck what your pastor or mommy says) if you have no resources/cannot acquire them or are incapable of reproducing you. are. useless (sorry not sorry Bolde/Thot Catalogue).

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

I had to start over from zero at nearly 40 due to my business partner stealing from me. I lost my house, car, and retirement savings, so I know too well that things can happen. BUT, until I got back on my feet, I didn't date. I focused all my energies into getting my life back on track, clawing my way out of a deep hole of debt. Only when I had significantly improved my situation did I start looking for a relationship.

That's what I would advise you to do. I respect you for working, but you can't stop once you get a job - you have to work at improving yourself and raising your market value every day, and keep looking for a better job. Let everyone you know that you are looking, and get everyone you can to recommend you (ask them for a letter of recommendation or a testimonial). You could be making 2-3 times the amount in a year if you work hard at it.

Once you can pay all your bills, put money into your savings every week, and still have spending money left over, you can try dating again.

ManOnFire · Answer

Dude, I know plenty of guys working minimum wage who have girlfriends or wives - and some even have kids. I think the only women who reject guys like what you describe are privaleged or college educated types.

Apope16 · Answer

I am 32 and dont have a car. No girl wants a relationship with us man. Money does matter.
To answer your question. Yes. You SHOULD DATE. But only date for sex or friends with benefits. Dont expect love. But even if you are poor like me plenty of girls will have sex if you are charming. Market yourself as go with the flo or unsure of dating. Chics do fall in love after being a fuck buddy sometimes.

coachTanthony · Answer

Dude can't afford toilet paper. Dating should be the last thing on his mind!

flamiE · Answer

In all honesty, it depends. If he’s got the mentality that he’ll never earn more, live in his own house and doesn’t want to improve himself, then probably not.
I make my own money and don’t rely on my partner financially so the way he treats me, his energy and his character would play a bigger role in my decision if I should date him or not.
Also money is something temporary, you might have them all today but be homeless tomorrow. What kind of person you are and the way you see the world, your morals, your soul are wayyy more consistant.
If he wants to become better, then I would be more than happy to be by his side and support him towards his goals.
And before you say anything let me tell you that when I started dating my boyfriend who was 28 back then, he didn’t have a car, he wasn’t earning much and so on, but he worked hard and he’s doing a lot better now, we bought our first car together, he bought his own house and so on. And I truly enjoyed to be with him watching him not giving up.
Not being where you want to be is not a reason for someone not to date you. It’s like not to date someone because they’re fat. As long as they’re trying and not giving up, skipping gym and cheating their diet it’s all good. Determination and consistency are much more important than your current way of living.
Bottom line is it doesn’t matter what you do and how much you earn as long as you try hard every day to better yourself and your situation.

Anonymous · Answer

If a man is over 30 still making minimum wage. im going to question his life decision and priorities. I wouldn't date him. But I'm sure someone desperate for any man would.

If there was some reason like disabled/health/entreprenuer struggle years etc okay that part makes more sense I would accept that.

But -
Current American president signed a bill to expands more opportunities to people apprenticeship programs that aren't just labor intensive. (tech/wine making/ mechanic/etc) the digital age alone has brought in amazing opportunities to do more and make new if you have the drive.

Aka opportunities are abundant and out there that is more than minimum wage.

Cost of living is consistently going up. I'm not into struggle love & I'm not interested in carrying a man financially. That's cute for those that are into that.

There are women who love it. I'm just not one of them. I expect what I bring to the table. I'm financially secure. Ambition. I expect the same. I don't want struggle love. Or to be with someone with such low expectations of themselves.

rjroy3 · Answer

1. Find a place for $300-500 a month (yes they are around. Likely roommate situation which is more common these days)
2. Learn to cook so you save money on this. Doubles as a dating option aswell. Feeding her at your place.
3. Have alcohol on hand just incase.
(optional) 4. work on increasing your income in the meantime.

Do those things and don't be stupid with your money and you're good. Get a bottle of wine with two glasses from walmart and go for a romantic walk in the park. Sit on a bench, drink wine, talk and kiss. Lookup free wine tastings in your area. Lookup free events like festivals. Maybe they have drinks and you spend $14 - $20 for an entire night.

You're not screwed, you just have to do what you have to do. Definitely cut expenses and look to improve your income tho. Even at $10 hourly you can afford a place for $300-500 and take girls out on inexpensive dates/have them over your place. Dates really don't have to cost much or anything for that matter.

You can be poor/low income. But never be broke.

Anonymous · Answer

The problem isn't so much money. It's the perception of the company you work for. I was making good money until I got laid off at 23 and the jobs in my profession in my area were drying up. I either had to up and move and find similar jobs or start over. I decided to start over. I've been working the same job now for the past 5 years and went from my first year bring home $14,000 a year to currently $30,000 a year. I still don't make as much as I used too but the company I work for now is far more secure than the previous jobs I've had. I've got a decent 401k with a good employee match. While my previous job didn't offer that. I also receive $750 a year in HSA from my company plus I contribute $50 a week to max my HSA contributions. I also live in an area where the cost of living is extremely low (main reason for not wanting to relocate and keep my old line of work) $30,000 where I live is equivalent to about $60,000 in most metro areas. Yet, because I'm working the same job as I was when I was making $14,000 some women will look at me and think I make minimum wage. I never tell women what I make because it is NONE OF THEIR BUSINESS! The only time a woman should even have an idea on my income is if we are getting married. Women will ask what kind of job do you have but that is a trick question to figure out how much you make. Again this is none of their damn business. Seriously, do men worry about how much a woman makes when he's trying to find a partner? No. So, if the woman is so worried about how much a man makes that means she's going to depend on you. If you make enough they will see that as them being able to quit their jobs. If you don't make enough but are on track then they see that as them being able to quit their jobs in the future. But once again, how much you make is none of their business. As long as you don't have to ask for handouts from the girl your dating she shouldn't have a clue as to how much you make and it won't matter if you choose wisely.

Anonymous · Answer

Much to my families and my own agony my well educated brother in law was unemployed for 2.5 years. My little sister who was the homecoming queen, has a good teaching job and no mental flaws/addictions. She’s 29, he’s now 30.

But he got a new job a year ago. It’s in retail but it pays better than minimum wage. But still he could be doing better. But it was an improvement.

My whole family including myself wanted her to divorce him. But she stayed with him. He must be the luckiest son of a bitch alive. He’s not even that good looking, not athletic. He’s got a friendly personality but that’s just about it.

Anyway women make emotional based irrational decisions all the time when it comes to dating and relationships. It depends on how a guy pushes her buttons. The only thing my bro in law has is his personality/charm AND I underutilized intelligence. I’ve been beat out by much more broke, lesser attractive guys who knew the right angles go play. I make six figures by the way.

Money definitely gives you leg up. It’s important. I respect anyone who WORKS. But most women (my sister was an exception) want money either legitimate reasons (start a family) or for selfish piece of shit reasons (worthless freeloaders, conceited gold diggers). BUT any guy has a angle to play. He shouldn’t give up.

I’ll end this by saying I actually want my brother in law to make it all the way and land a good career. He’s improved so far, I just hope it goes farther.

btbc92 · Answer

I would only suggest that this person THINKS about the future he wants and what is realistic and what makes a man able to get to KEEP a woman in his life. Most women for the most part probably would date him casually if he is a great person in general. But long term with a future in it, not so much.

hellionthesagereborn · Answer

Honestly (and I say this being not to much better off), women will never respect a man without money. They demand resources from the man (and biologically it makes sense but I think women are far less forgiving then men are when it comes to what they desire in a partner and taking into account the current societal structure (I. e. you don't need a lot of money to get by but that doesn't mean they don't expect you to have it, they want you to treat them like an equal but also be the bread winner etc.)), and if you have few resources that means you have fewer options. Now if you can show that its not going to be permanent, that it was an unfortunate event or what have you then you might have a chance but like I said, women are unforgiving and rather intolerant to those who don't make enough money (studies show that women by and large refuse to date "down"(economically speaking)).

Anonymous · Answer

I don't feel like I'm in a position to tell someone whether they should date or not (though in certain situations I'd recommend focusing on the situation at hand and getting things together before worrying about dating).

I think it very much depends on the situation, though. I think there's also a huge difference between someone doing their best to get back on their feet and taking what they can until they move up and someone who is content with not being able to support themselves and has no desire to do better.

yucychan · Answer

I don't want to be mean but the guy needs to understand that his chances are slim. Not that it's totally impossible for him to get a date, it's just gonna be more challenging for him.
You can blame women for being materialistic, unreasonable etc etc. for not choosing guys who are broke or are working minimum-wage jobs but the truth is almost everything needs money. Bills, food, baby diapers, milk powder, rent, clothes, detergent, school fees, etc all need money. Even if you want to pursue your life goals, chase after your dreams to be a famous artist, you still need money to buy brushes, paint, drawing materials.
So if being realistic is considered unreasonable, then so be it. Women are all unreasonable, money-grubbing bitches. Happy?

Felinegirl · Answer

I would not date that person, because he's too old for me. But I think a woman in a similar situation would be willing to date him. If you only go for career women with a good job, nice house etc, your chances are very low - because you have nothing in common and she will want someone to match her.

More importantly though, I think you can be more than just your age and wage. Do you have hobbies? Life goals? Work out, do something good for the world, chase happiness?

Do something that makes you more interesting and be a person you'd want to know. You don't need money for that, a lot of good things are free. Have something to offer!

Tomblebee · Answer

I'm sure there are women over 30 on min wage still. Just try find others in your league?
There is always hope, and depending on why you are still on min wage, maybe lack of ambition, even women earning much higher incomes may still find you attractive for your personality.

It's a combination of factors, I doubt anyone is going to take you on if you are a financial liability- don't pull your weight and bludgeon off their hard earned cash. It really just depends.

It happends to women all the time I'm sure.

lightbulb27 · Answer

I think he'd have a chance if he demonstrated drive, passion, some kind of skill she admires. she has to be able to respect him and she has to feel like she is getting something she wants. Maybe she already has money but she admires music talent, or creativity, or high intelligence. But if the issue is low mitovation, lack of direction, confusion... that's just does not say "mate with me and lets make offspring". To be honest, in that scenario, the guy should not want a girl because she is going to make him suffer til he changes... so maybe in that sense it's good for him, but it will hurt.

Pamina · Answer

Think about it this way - are you seriously suggesting that all men in their 30s who still make only minimum wage are single? No, of course not. Some of have girlfriends, others don't. So apparently it's possible.

Kayla45 · Answer

To be completely honest relationships in this age are kinda hit-or-miss, some people either have trouble finding relationships, or too afraid to ask people out on dates so on and so forth. Definitely still try though, it's better to die trying than not try at all. I mean at the very least at least you gave it your best shot. I feel really bad for men because females are typically extremely picky, you have to meet an exact criteria before she deems you worthy. Some women aren't like that mind you, but I've seen so many women up on their social high horses it's ridiculous!

MusicMayhem · Answer

You know there's jobs that will pay a reasonable amount without the need for skills. Call centres for example have high turnover so as long as you can communicate well it's easy to get. Girls won't frown upon you for having something like that and you can work up to management fairly quickly and be respected.

But ultimately as long as you can pay your own bills it shouldn't matter. Some people on high wages are experts are wasting money and being broke. You may be able to prioritise your expenses better and save more by not buying expensive drinks while out, not indulging in snacks etc.

Anonymous · Answer

Most jobs I see advertised are minimum wage. The way I look at it... at least he's working. It's difficult to survive on minimum wage, but if a woman judges your potential by the wage you earn, she's clearly in a relationship for the wrong reasons , so her relationships won't succeed long-term.

Don't give up on finding a girlfriend just because you earn minimum wage.

Anonymous · Answer

To answer this question, you need to realize something. The vast majority of women are not interested in who you are as a person... they are only interested in what you are... what you can do for them, what you do... how you can entertain them, or how you can make them feel.

If you are a Burger flipper... but earn enough to pay all of your bills, and have a roof over your head... they will not want to know...

You even hear women talk down to plumbers, builders and sewage workers... but those are the first people she will call if she has a leak or a problem with her home.

The real question should be ''Why should any guy, at any age, doing any profession, earning any wage... whether minimum or maximum... bother dating?''

donnny2367764 · Answer

The guy in the pic working at mcdonalds still makes a lot more than a million other people who choose to live on the streets... at least he is holding his head up and dignity far beyond... can't tell yo the amount of young people who aren't handicapped on the street just making nothing g of their life... so it's always good to be employed and needed than to be useless and helpless to society... minimum wage is tough but it can still make the poorest of the poor happy... money does not buy you inner happiness and true love.

Juxtapose · Answer

Having a visibly low-income (or imitating such) is actually a fantastic litmus test to weed out the women who aren't worth your time!

You may be a bit depressed with how many women are completely worthless leeches, but that will just make finding the rare exception all the more satisfying.

If you ever actually get rich, make sure to carefully present yourself as being very low-income and only being able to pay for yourself 99% of the time. Any woman worth your time is going to be able to pay for her own shit and won't have a problem with your income as long as she doesn't have to pay you anything.

An adult relationship is about companionship, not prostitution.

Anonymous · Answer

Lmao i love this questions because it really shows women's true colors.
They shout "I'm not a gold digger" but then they set the bar "you need to make this much".
I don't make minimum wage. But i do make below the median income. But i started investing in my early 20's and 30's. Lived below my means, and now some years i make more from my investments than i do at my job (it's like making 2 incomes). Barring a market meltdown that lasts more than a decade i'll be a millionaire before i retire.
And i love telling dates what i do and how much i make. Because if they know any of my contancts it eventually gets back to rhem my what my net worth is. It's funny how many of them want to give it another go with me lmao. Too late honey you already showed me your true colors.
And it would never work out anyways. Because i'm still the cheap mofo that got me to this point. :)

Bananaman177 · Answer

When women chase after money, that's usually exactly what they get. Instead of what they really wanted.

Avicenna · Answer

I suspect you can find a woman to date you if you don't have debts, a criminal record or health problems. However, she is more likely to have psychological problems, financial problems, be obese, and have kids.

Have you thought about taking on a second job and possibly cutting expenses?

Robertcw · Answer

For the record, this is why we need $15/hour min. wage in the US.

Then any job is livable. Two fulltime $15/hour jobs is $50,000/year. Soo, not wealthy, but not poor in the US either. Depending on the state, but even in Ca it's doable.

I don't think there's anything wrong eith conplacency if and only if they have pursued other career options, recieved education and found those other paths yo be not for them. Personal happiness > $$$ to a limmited extent.

stardust101 · Answer

I voted A. If he’s complacent and ok working minimum wage I won’t date him, because how will he support a family one day? And if he doesn’t want a family? Ugh... not my kind of guy. However, if he is working a minimum wage job while pursuing a better paying career then he should still try.

BreadNbutter · Answer

I think each situation is unique. I personally wouldn’t date if I couldn’t afford to take someone out to eat... yes I’m saying this as a female. If I can’t afford to take him out I don’t think I deserve to date. That being said what if he’s in school? What if he’s working on his own business and works there for extra money/easy work? It depends

Izumiblu · Answer

Not for me tbh. I guess it somewhat depends on his future plans and his ability to live a self sustaining life style. But the way you put it, $10/hr, has to live with someone else suggests that he has no other source of income, no savings and no specific education or business or career plans... in which case, he'd need to find someone that's in a similar life position... and that isn't me.

Dinklex3 · Answer

There are plenty of men in their thirties making minimum wage that are in relationships.
If I like someone then that's not an issue because I have my own money to support us.
They of course have to have drive though.
Whether it's aiming for manager, furthering their education, or switching jobs to something that pays a little more. My best friend works as a stocker at Walmart and he gets more than minimum wage.

hahahmm · Answer

No. He should focus on improving his financial situation unless he wants to be a walmart greeter when he’s 60s.

He should focus on building resources because regardless of dating it makes life way less stressful later on.

As far as dating, in this day and age don’t spend more than like $5 on a ‘date’. Don’t support dinner whores.

Lynx122 · Answer

Minimum wage got my adrenaline caged. I'm full of venom and rage. Especially when I'm engaged and my daughter's down to her last diaper. It's got my ass hyper. I pray to god answers, maybe I'll ask nicer.

Em could get a girl on minimum wage and then become successful, maybe you can too. ;)
That pic really is sad.

talloak · Answer

He should be honest about his situation early on with women are are interested. First, you don't want them to find out after they are invested and second, by setting expectations, you can go on cheap but imaginative dates. Women who are turned off would not work out anyway. I lost my job just as I started dating a woman and told her early on. She decided that I was more honest than most and we grew closer (and we are now married).

KassandraVI · Answer

I don't think wage or age has anything to do with dating. There are plenty of people in the same situation, you just need to find the one that besides having things in common, wants to grow, and wants you to grow with her. It's not too late, if you have ambition :), don't give up

DrTruth · Answer

Women want the wealthiest guy she can attract and men want the hottest girl he can afford. - Tom Leykis

Also, when it comes to dating, a man's income is inversely proportional to a woman's weight. So, fat girls generally hook up with poor men.

This video sums it all up.

lifelearner011 · Answer

Of course he can try! I think every work is dignifying. Just be mindful what woman you wan to have as a partner. A lot of woman, (im one of those) think that our partner will be a compliment that represents ourselves when we are at our best moments a well in our crisis. So be mindful of what are your standards when you are interested in a woman, since if you are seeking to "specific" qualities, you either already have them or are actively working and pursuing them with your effort.

pervertedjester · Answer

I'm 40 and I deliver pizza for a living. I have no problems going on dates even after they know what I do for a living. I do it because it's a fun job full of smiles and with tips I make about 20 an hour. But I did pay off all my outstanding bills before going back to that job. Which I think is the key here. Most women seemed amazed that I could do that on my own.

Teahappy · Answer

Personally, I wouldn't want to date a guy that isn't equal to me in education or career wise. I've dated a guy once and we both wasn't on the same level. It didn't work out. I would rather date someone whose a uni graduate with a career.

R_Cakes91 · Answer

What if he is a really amazing person and women are overlooking him because he doesn’t have much? There is a difference between someone who is money tight and trying to improve himself and someone who isn’t motivated.

megaman242 · Answer

This is not a problem in Norway. The minemum in Norway is 21$ or hour, but the longer you work at a place the more you will earn, so if you worked there 5 years you earn 3-4$ more. There is also the age, the older you are the more you earn, so the minemum for a 30 year old would be 26$ pr hour. Also you work max 8 hours a day, max 5 days a week. And you get paid vecations.

Redstang88 · Answer

Most girls are going of look for a guy with some degree of ambition and direction in life, even ignoring the economic aspect of it. To be fair, most guys have similar expectations for a partner.
There’s just really no excuse to still be making minimum wage at 30

Daniela1982 · Answer

There is not much chance of him getting any type of retirement benefits if he does not have a decent paying job by 30. I mean that is not even a living wage. So unless he wins the lottery his financial future is bleak.

scotty01 · Answer

Why is it all about money? If you like the person for who they are as a person that’s the important part. Very shallow.
I’m a single dad lost everything to a divorce two kids. My ex wife wanted nothing but money from me and destroy my life. Well that’s happened.
So now I’m saving again. That makes me a bad person does it?
Greed lady’s gets you no where.
It’s all about how you get treated by the person with flowers things in common like being together what makes a relationship work.

GhettoGirl · Answer

He should probably do a nosedive in front of the next city bus goes by.

ronaldo75 · Answer

No. He needs to stop chasing women and work on himself. THe average woman slows you down when you're trying to get ahead and are really pushing. There are women out there who lift a guy up and support him in his progress but most just create stress that in the end slows you down.

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

Why not? As long as he's not trying to impress some high maintenance woman that's clearly out of his league, he can make it work with an understanding woman with simple tastes.

BeHappy1985 · Answer

What he should bother to do is get his fucking shit together, I was making more than minimum wage at the age of 16, it only went up from there. This or just shoot yourself in the face you useless waste of air. At the very least never reproduce so you don't bring more garbage into this world.

supercutebutt · Answer

You didn't mention your penis size in the question, buttcrack. If you are hung, a girl might still wanna hook up with your poor ass.

John1972 · Answer

NEVER give up. When you see a person alone personally I believe somewhere in life they made the choice to settle on remaining single or alone. If you keep on going there is someone out there that would be pretty happy with them.

nerms123 · Answer

It depends because if he’s an artist or something that could be understandable. On the other hand if he’s a millionaire but he’s a tobacco executive or something I wouldn’t want to date him. It’s more important what he does than what he makes

Nafree · Answer

It depends , if a guy is dating a girl and she charges him hourly, and at the dating place there are some unknown signs like "1hr 100$ -2hrs 150$" ... for the first step, I strongly recommend to Google those signs and than decide...

Blair1994 · Answer

Just depends on the situation.  For example, if he had gone back to university and was on min wage because it was a student job then it might be ok but if that was a career then its not really good.

AuroraRoseat · Answer

Depends on a variety of factors. Is he educated but can't find a job in his chosen degree? I would accept that while he's looking for something else. But complacency or lack of ambition? No thanks.

Lauren-green · Answer

But I mean I wouldn't base if I would date someone or not, solely off their income? In fact it would be one of the last things I would think about sooo

COMMODOREII · Answer

What is sad is the fact how companies have setup their businesses without any career goals and force people of all ages to work more for less money. It is a 21st century slavery that makes people poorer and unable to make it our society.

cirno · Answer

It seems people here are really cruel to people who Don't have as much money as others have its kinda sad

Anonymous · Answer

Step ya game up cause a girl can find a sweet guy with success too.
And she can be broke all by herself. Fucked up, but girls are fucked up you can thank social media, fifty shades of grey, and overly high standards from their parents for that.

WhiteShoulder · Answer

He would have to be pretty amazing for me to date him

HeavenSentInstrument · Answer

You've got to get certain priorities straight first. Concentrate on your career at that point. Build yourself up, allow yourself to make more money, and the women will come by default.

SOARER_ · Answer

No he should work more hours, look for a better job, develop a skill, and become a better person.  Once he is 40 and has something to show, then he can pursue a worthy woman

Should a guy bother dating if he’s over 30 and still making minimum wage?

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