Either.
I have asked for sex with ugly women. With them I never ask to date.
I have asked for only sex with hot women I secretely like or would date. Why? Insecurity or being too poor to financially date.
I have asked for only sex with acttractive girls but then after a while started to fall in love. Usually its just im not ready for a relationship in the beginning. I would say if guys never ask you out on a date and 90% of the guys just want sex... then you might not be very attractive physically. But people can be ugly with a wonderful personality that makes a guy horny and want to date. For me its ugly women who are fat but can make me laugh. I've dated a fat woman for 2 years. She was funny, sexy. The sex was great.
It could be worse. If guys never want to have sex you could be very very ugky.
No, it just means you need to be more precise about what you're looking for. It sounds like you lack self-confidence, regardless of your looks that is exactly what I know is malleable enough to get for the night, to mold into what I want and get to do whatever I want.
It isn't against you, or even having to do with women. If you do not know what you want, what your values are, or what you feel strongly for, it's easy to make you want anything, value anything, or feel strongly for anything by default.
Think about it for a while, what do you want, how do you want it to work out. Be clear, precise, and don't take any shit.
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"found that almost every guy I talk to wants a hookup/nudes" No that doesn't mean you aren't attractive. I've heard woman after woman after woman have your experience. I have also heard of many women feeling pressure to sleep with guys early on to keep guys interest. The idea is that the "cost of sex" has plummeted so girls have to have sex to compete with other girls. This is modern dating.
Ugly? No.
Gorgeous? No.
Interesting person? No.
Easy? Maybe depends on your style.
Meeting worth it guys? Also No.
You have to keep the guy on his toes, you have to be cold as fuck and then hot as fuck.
If you stay all the time talking and talking and talking it would let the guy see you as easy, and so they would ask for hookup.
Be mysterious, be hard to explain, make him feel lost, make feel you're very attracted to him, and then make him feel he means nothing to you. In that way you will win his heart trust me I'm a guy and i know.
And if they ran away fastly that means they just want to hookup, but he stayed, that means you've got him interested!
Best of luck :)
No, you're taking it personally and he's only thinking about what he wants. That's all it is, what he wants. Nothing to do with you as a person or how you look. You can't take this personally AT ALL. Think of it this way, you want a specific item of food, lets say a muffin (just an example), does it mean you don't like other food or it's not good enough? No, it's just want YOU want at the time. Same thing here.
I just don't think that monogamy is all that popular anymore. Most girls and guys just want to fuck and move on.
I have no idea what you look like, so I can't speak to that. I do know, that if you make yourself available for hookups, then that is how the guys will see you, and treat you.
That’s what dating apps are for it is well known most dating apps are for hookups if you want real dating meet guys in real life
Oh so you're thinking they can't see you as long term but maybe you're worth a fling?
I don't know. Are all the guys that you decide to talk to out of your league?
We want only hookups because women anymore are little more than a steaming pile of shit. We still want a little pussy now and then but don't want to put up with your dumb shit.
Depends how you present yourself as. 9 times put of 10 you know how you are showing yourself as. So those who view it attack on that. Also depends where you are reaching from... please don't say tender...
Well if you do start doing hook ups, don't expect a good guy to want you later on for a relationship. So I'd advise against it.
it means you need to stay away from those type of jerkoffs if you want something serious and meaningful
Um... no, it means that he's a normal, healthy male.
Did you make it clear that you're not interested in hooking up?
It’s all they want from any woman
Says more about them than it does about you.
It means you have nothing to offer.
No guys just want ass
No never
Most likely yes.
Do u give it up?
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