How do I cope with the fact that I'm going to die alone?

[Anonymous]

I've never even been on a date and have only been stood up and friendzoned literally hundreds of times and I'm also very conservative, making women even more repelled by me. I'm average height and attractiveness, but I have a life threatening genetic disease that cuts my lifespan in half, and I got HSV-2 from someone, which digs me even further into the inescapable hole of dying alone. I have a few hobbies, but I have no friends as people always seem to be repelled by the way I talk because I'm incapable of moving my left lip due to damage from wisdom teeth removal. After many years of rapid evolving and dedicated effort leading to no results, I've concluded that it's time for me to give up as if it were possible for me to find someone, I would've found them many years ago. How do I cope with the fact that I will die alone?

[23anonuser]

Don't think of being alone as a bad thing. Embrace it. This is the only time you will have to put yourself first and not have to worry about someone else's needs or desires. If you end up spending the rest of your life alone, that just means you got to put yourself first your entire life.

I've spent most of my life alone and get to live where I want to live, spend my money how I want to spend it, and spend my time how I want to spend it. I have a nice apartment, cool car, and watch football all weekend.

When I was dating someone, I had to go to a poetry reading, restaurants I did not want to go to, and listen to complaints because my car wouldn't be good for a family.

If you meet someone, that will be great. But NEVER get into a relationship with someone just because you do not want to be alone. That will be worse than being alone.

[skeetskeetskeet]

Dude listen to your crying bitch ass. . in high school i had a friend. Who was ugly as fuck... but he fucked so many r
Top notch girls because he had personality for days and was funny as fuck... i currently have a friend whos paralyzed from the chest down and he has a fucking hot ass girl... getting pussy isn't so much your looks as 'it is what your like to be around... if all you do is sit around whining about everything and talking about how poor you got it so tough you'll guarantee to die alone

[MajesticTwelve]

I think Herpes is pretty common, so I wouldn't say that counts you out. I don't know what disease you have so I can't claim to know your expected life span.
Regardless, I don't think it guarantees you'll die alone. Your mindset won't help though.
Even if you do, die without a lover/wife etc... surely you must have friends or family, they're worth something.

[Asker]

I don't have any friends

[MajesticTwelve]

I don't have any friends anymore either. It's no big deal.

[Asker]

You wanna PM then? I think the fact that I said that gives it away on who I am...

[Etoirty]

May I ask what hobbies you have? Also, if you are at all creative I would try writing or drawing about how you feel. You are not alone in your struggles and perhaps the art you create from your pain will help you find others like you. I am currently writing my past pain into lyrics.

[JohnPrestwick]

Much of the dating advice out there will talk about how confidence is the most important way of attracting women, and how important it is to have a healthy life without a girlfriend first.

For short term ways to cope, I recommend using black humour and listening to Pink Floyd.

[newblinds]

Lean into your disadvantages, fly that flag high, express yourself if you feel you have something to say.

If you're going out alone then go out swinging as yourself into the darkness.

[crossdressingrihno]

Its actually simple... accept it truly take it in harness the idea and build it into your soul

[es20490446e]

You only need another uber-conservative girl with herpes like you.

[Asker]

Who will accept those other things and I like, so in other words it's impossible.

[es20490446e]

https://youtu.be/i82RdBNfubY

[Massageman]

Look for an HSV-2 support group, and hobby groups, in your area.
Accept Jesus as your Savior and you will never be alone.

[OddBeMe]

I’m hearing “people are repelled by me” a lot in this monologue. Maybe you should examine your personality. It’s fine to be politically conservative. But don’t let that define you.

[theCobbler]

Your gonna die dam Quick with that mentality? For christ sakes man. Boo hoo boohoo. Are you a man? Grow some balls? Sorry ! Slap slap. Tough love

[Anonymous]

Get out there and make the most of the time you have left. You can still have sex with the herp. Use proper protection and be straight with her.

[BoxySama]

Marry one of those have Asian girls, they want you for your citizenship but they are wonderful partners

[Usernamesrdumb]

Unless you are drinking the kool aid, we all die alone.

[Anonymous]

Try something spiritual and meditation.

[slmsshk]

Just die alone