Only desperate, lonely guys approach me. What am I doing wrong? (Page 2)

[lazermazer]

People attract their tribe, so I would put you in the same category.

[rockrewls]

a pic or this is hard to answer? maybe your standards are to high?

[jay1966]

I no that feeling with girls. I'm always have a joke. its called conference

[Tyler131]

What do you look like?

[outside_Toronto]

You're acting desperate and lonely

[Asker]

Maybe that is the vibe I give off to the men I am interested and in turn, put them off! Haha. I am not desperate, but frustrated at this point. Not sure what it is about me that can not find a decent guy that I get on well with. As this is not about looks on the guys side, I do not care about that.

[outside_Toronto]

Its rarely about looks. Its all about the vibe.

[Asker]

Yes, it is about the vibes and personalities getting on well.

[Snakeyes7]

How do you know they are sad and lonely?

[Asker]

They tell me that themselves.

[Snakeyes7]

Yep, they broke an unwritten rule. Never admit that especially that early on.

[skeetskeetskeet]

Depends what you look like

[Asker]

I wouldn't have asked this question on anon if I felt okay sharing my pic... haha. However, I have never been called ugly or unattractive, I look after myself and also well groomed, taking pride in my appearance.

[The_man_whol_aughs]

No your just shallow that's all

[Asker]

Hmm, I do not believe I am. I am quite intelligent and I try to be kind to others... It has nothing to do with looks, either. As I have been attracted to men deemed "unattractive" by mainstream beauty standards. I always go for personality and whether or not we are on the same level. I have found that most of the men I have encountered during dating and in my every day life, have had low self-esteem and are basically, man babies.

But then again, maybe I am shallow? Lol.

[The_man_whol_aughs]

Yes you are but that's alright I'm shallow as well

[debasisg]

Be charming and self-confident.

[MannMitAntworten]

Beats me?

[Anonymous]

Who do you seem to like?