Do you think cooking for your date is an act of intimacy?

[Anonymous]

Do you consider cooking for your date an act of intimacy? Would you cook for a girl if you don't like her?

[M1k3y]

It can be if you put a lot of effort into making the meal and it's one of her favourite things.
It can also be a nice surprise for them to come home to if you live together.
You might cook for your date if you didn't like her to save money (Fuck Boy Inc).

[Floki-raven]

Yes because it Shows dedication to your date for example if you cook an hard to make meal even if it isn't perfect or you even failed it should Show to the other Person that you tried

[akihon]

I might but then if she wanted a second date if expect her to cook for me, if she isn't good enough then I'd walk out before even finishing what she cooked.

It would show me that for the rest of the relationship she would expect me to take the majority of house tasks while she gets to sit on her lazy arse whining about everything.

[Klife1]

At the beginning if you're dating, heck yes! Because that's wifey duty and boy needs to appreciate you're not making him take you to expensive restaurants all the time haha just dont do it for free all the time 😉

[Usernamesrdumb]

Cooked for many people i dont like. I was a cook. Lol i cook for my girlfriend the majority of the time. She is not good at it and hurts herself. Actually never dated a girl that is good at cooking. Last one knew how to make pbjs and rice. I find now adays, most women go out to eat, unless it’s owning a restaurant or a tv show fighting a male dominated space, they aren’t interested.

[Gunnar1978]

Never thought of that. It's surely a good starter for the conversation and it gives a good ambient (if done well). But I wouldn't consider it as intimacy.

[ChefPapiChulo]

girls have like 5 boyfriends at one time. who tf cares about showing intimacy in this day of age. Buy her some Mcdonalds, fuck her in the parking lot and call it a night.

[Rob19777]

Is keeping a roof over your head an act of intimacy? or putting clothes on your back? Or the need to drink water or the need to take a shit or piss an act of intimacy? It all boils down to survival skills which most people lack nowadays

[worldscolide]

I do.. I won't cook for someone I don't want to be with.. And anyone that asks my wife wi tell you that I am a fantastic cook.. Been doing it since I was 8

[helbigarthur]

Might just be me but the girl I'm seeing is a chef and she would be thrilled more then you think our favorite date was that night we first cooked together but I can't today cause she doesn't get off tell super late

[taurus10j]

I think it shows you care just like anything else you do for a person.

[MDollarBill]

yes! I'm not what you'd call a "foodie," but I love to cook, and I don't think there's anything you can do that's more personal and intimate than to make a nice dinner for your sweetie... Done well, it takes a lot of planning and fore-thought.

[DiscomfortZone]

Intimacy or not, it takes time and effort. I wouldn't waste any of these (nor food for that matter) on a girl I didn't like.

[NightOwl8801]

Yes it is , especially when you know that they put a lot of labor , love and sweat into the meal they cooked

[FavoriteColor]

Everything is not to be taken in a moment the act of cooking repeatedly for a loved one shows the hint of care and responsibility that would describe maturity.

[DakotaNorth]

It most certainly is. Cooking something special for your date is very intimate.

[donrengle]

It could be an act of intimacy but maybe just showing off cooking skills. Why would I cook for someone I don't like, female or male?

[Jmmmfi4]

The only reason I can picture myself cooking for a girl as if I was trying to get into her pants

[Gedaria]

Yes she will really love it...

[Furuok]

Yes no yes and no if you can't cook.

[Laozi]

Yup.

[Anonymous]

Yes I would cook for anyone but I like to cook