Is it true that college educated women can't find good men? Why?

[aeon95]

Is this true and why?

[btbc92]

No, it's untrue and a myth. Most have college degrees. It's the fact that the level of intelligence are affecting the quality of men being produced into the world and with more women Turning to education to be their providers.

Men today no longer want to be providers and are highly sexually charged, but blame every woman who isn't having sex with him or is highly loose, promiscuous or even even goes as far to blame her being religious or a single mother. The truth is men have abandoned women in numbers, both for good logical reasons but often irrational reasons. So in truth, a few is dating outside the country to try to find men of similar values. The problem is there is a good amount of men who have no desire to change jobs, increase income or get an education. It's all about mentality. Because I just started going to college, never had a college degree and I got shamed for my intelligence and I never boast about it. Their very insecure. I try to encourage guys to do it they get posts. Excuse my French. So I don't blame a good amount of women for feeling like that. So many men say their not intimediated but I hear and see them mock such women all the time. A sign of a weak man. Because a strong men who doesn't have would improve himself for himself so he can attract equally quality women. Nobody should be held at fault for having a natural desire to move up the higher tier in their lives. Some people like myself are designed to do more. And these days you need a college education for that sadly. Otherwise, I believe the real issue is men can no longer have control over women anymore and their mad about it. And I don't mean the good kind of control.

[btbc92]

They get pissy*

[DonCachondo]

You think men are more sexually driven NOW? as opposed to when? Testosterone and sperm count have been dropping like flies for several decades, at least in the US. This also sounds rich coming from somebody who lives in an Anglophonic country where people are almost as sexually repressed as some Middle Eastern countries.

[bamesjond0069]

Its men like me. 3 degrees, higher income, never married, no kids, athletic. I don't date girls with degrees, i find them to be materialistic and morally lacking.

[akihon]

Not really sure what was going on here but it seemed to me that basic education was in dire need not the higher, maybe start back at kindergarten and work your way up.

[btbc92]

@DonCachondo

Stop assuming everybody is so called sexually repressed. The whole world is affected and nobody really wants to do it God's way anymore or serve the Lord anymore. This is the fall of man and all of the human race. Everybody is now overworked, strsssd, depressed and crime rates going up.

When a man is more concerned about sex than he is about forming proper healthy and satisfying relationships with girls and women with " get can I get your number?", "want to go out on a date?" And "How come you don't want to date me", and the friendzone, not waiting for marriage to have sex but wants no real friendships, there is a major problem. Men have become more sexually driven since the age of pornography and feminism taken root. It was bad before, he's, but worse now.

[btbc92]

@bamesjond0069

Now that's where your false consensus bias is proven to be very misguided and wrong. Materialistic women are just that. Materialistic women. You say their morally lacking, but let's look at you and your history. Are you a virgin still? You masturbate and watch pornography? Do you go by God's word? Do you treat every woman wot h reselcf regardless of who they are or what they have? We're talking about women period. Not some women. And men together are vain lacking respect for women and even theor own daughters. It's a problem.

[btbc92]

@akihon

Basic education is not the issue. The willingly to provide, self sacrifice, and die to self is the issue that men no longer wants to do. It's only buy few who do it and isn't rich, not exactly handsome, etc. But the arguing, fighting, toxic relationships is hurting an killing everyvody. A woman is not designed to do a man's work. But she may have to. It's the fact that men today are so focus on getting sex more tha theu are concerned about the welfare of the women in their lives and around them. We already know there are sluts, hoes, gold diggers, abusers, etc. But there is a fine line between those women and assuming every woman of certain status or wants is like that because of the basic necessities. There are good girls and women both Christian and non Christian who has a real desire to love and have a Philia/Agape love for men. But that is not the case for most men. Most men mainly want eros and expect it. Women give Eros, now she's asking for much for hilia and Agape. Agape the most. You don't see some children having these problems. Most children today mimic what they see around then and imitate so called adult life. And becomes poisoned with the mentality. Women needs active men mentality who will do like the days of old. Not lazy minded men always complaining about why we complain.

[bamesjond0069]

I don't need to respect skanks. Most women are skanks, therefore i don't need to respect most women. 😘

[btbc92]

@bamesjond0069

Who are you to call women skanks? You know why their like that? Because you men like it and tap it, then judge it. Your wrong. And yes you do need to resepct them. As people. Otherwise nobody, not even a Christain would even respect you.

[bamesjond0069]

Men would provide for and be responsible for a quality woman. These women don't exist. Never met one. I've met some ehh ok women but not ones id really consider that worthwhile. When a girl sleeps with a few men in high school BAM yeah she better get a degree and job because who the fuck wanna marry that? And this is the problem because thats the vast majority of women these days.

[btbc92]

Because if you can't even answer those questions I gave you, who are you to judge? I know plenty of good woman in my life. And even I know they wouldn't including myself would not want to get involved with a guy like you no matter how good you claim yourself to be. Just like no I'm not a good woman too many secular men and even some Christian men. But as long as God knows me to be a good woman, as he is the one who molds and shapes me and guide me throughout my life that's all that matters. As long as I'm held blameless of those sins, I worry not any longer about what a man thinks of me. Your words show that you Harbor a lot of resentment towards women Period. Just like most men don't want a woman that bad-mouths men, the same way a woman doesn't want a man that bad-mouths women. The same sex don't always have to agree, but if we are of the same gender, why would we want somebody who hates an entire gender?

[bamesjond0069]

I dont hate a whole gender. I hate sluts. Big difference. Sluts have no value and they fuck up mens lives. So if i dont hate them, i might accidentally enjoy one and keep her around and that will be my downfall.

And its Gods place to judge who is to go to heaven. Its my job to judge who i marry and have children with.

Im hot asf and rich and tons of girls hit on me all the time. Each is as trash as the next. They all are sluts. So its hard to be optimistic when girls are trying to fuck me everywhere i go. When all i want is a nice girl who doesn't sleep around. I go to church and even girls from church try to fuck me. Just makes me disgusted AT SLUTS. Not women.

[btbc92]

I'm sorry that is a load of B. S.

Women are now the problem because men have sadly been the problem. Laziness of thinking and personal responsibly. No you don't provide and be responsible for Quality women, you just don't want to do it.. Yes those women do exist and many of us do exist. You just don't want us involved in your life because your undeserving of us. Just like quality men are hiding because women who are just like you are undeserving of good men too. I have met Goodman just like I have met good women as I said before. But they're not going to come into your world because you have an attitude that deters us from wanting to be around you. Why would I want a man who calls a woman that? I don't care if she slept with a hundred people, that should not come out of your mouth. And I would not be pleased, nor would I be happy to be involved with someone like that. And I'm a virgin myself who doesn't even agree with it. I will be utterly embarrassed, I know I'll be getting questions of will I get that guy from? Why are you with somebody like that? I know plenty of people that loves me in my life will ask me if I'm being abused in some way? Because they know I'm not like that. The fact that you said you met them okay women but never really considered that worthwhile, says a lot about your mind. Because I don't treat guys like that what are they worth while I'm not. I treat every person that comes into my life as an opportunity to show who they are as people as I do for myself for their life. I don't treat them like commodities waiting to be used. But opportunities to build relationships with people, juts like networking. Not shallow aquintences. But mature authentic friendships. A girl does not have to sleep with a few men. She don't have to think she's better with a degree or job. But that men no longer desires to wait to have sex anymore. Now women don't either.

[btbc92]

See, no. You really got something wrong with your perception and I highly suggest you go out more and explore the world instead of where your at. Being surrounded by that, because you definitely have some type of mental illness and narcissism is one of them.

Stop assuming women in general have to be sluts. If you have to say that, then you don't need to be around that. No they don't ruin men's lives, men ruin their own lives by chasing skirt. You may need to take responsibility just like women need to take responsibility for whom you choose to sleep with, she was to be attracted to, choose to lust after, and choose to be involved with. They do have value. But they don't have to be worthy of what you have to offer. And you don't have to offer them that. But you still should offer them some type of respect. Because a lot of those women are like that not so much because they don't have respect for themselves or others. But because they have not been shown or taught how a man should respect them and love them. Men a call to teach and to show women that. Because it's easy for a woman to show a man love but it's just as easy for a man to reject that love. It only appears that women can only so-called receive a man's love it unless he had sex with her. That's what women are equating it as. Because that's what we've been taught and told our tire lies. Not just by hearsay but by action. So if you choose to touch a woman, you're already in trouble. And there for God's going to look at you because you claim you know better and here you are playing hoe in your mind. How are you a virgin and you have this mindset and mentality? I can tell you I was a virgin myself you are most certainly aren't a virgin. Because of version isn't just somebody who never had sex physically. But somebody who has chastity and morality both in mind, body, and spirit. And you don't. You don't judge righteously.

[btbc92]

You say your hot supposedly, and that's subjective. Nobody with their right mind cares about that. You have tons of girls hitting on you, remember that there girl. They don't know any better. And many of them are not taught any better to not do that. We have all been taught to soak or admire the opposite sex, but we all know that nine of the 10 times it's lust. So they already doing that they have to be responsible for anyway. Many of them is that coming to you or desperate because they see you're attractive physically, have money, Etc. They have not been shown any better. And even if they have, you stand in the way of that. The same way you want to talk about how it's hard to be optimistic being around such women, you need to think about how some of us women feel regardless to who pined after us. Why men are called dogs. Either way it's not right to discriminate either sex. The more you have that kind of hatred, the more you going to take that same hatred out on a good woman and nobody wants that. And vice versa.

[bamesjond0069]

Thats weird. The only virgins i ever attracted were from me saying how much i dont like sluts. They i think could see i valued what they had to offer and dont pay any mind to bad women. VS mr nice to sluts who might not value a good girl and might be morally lacking enough to be buddy buddy with sluts like its ok.

If you want a husband that says "sally is my friend and its ok and how dare you say she's a slut, she's just as valid as me and you and its no reason for me not to hang out with her" then good on you. My wife will say "why dont you want to hang out with that girl sally?" And ill say "she told hookup stories and now i know what kind of woman she is and i dont want someone like that as a friend or invited into my home."

[btbc92]

Because it's not even about getting married to such women. It's about self sacrificing.. Because the moment you people and I don't care who you are, or what background you came from. Get into a marriage, more than half you can't handle a marriage. Kids come in, sex becomes less, mortgage is due, bills piles up, debt almost up the creek, are real things consider even if you are rich.

Uh, don't assume me buddy. I don't want anybody doing those things to be okay, but I don't go around calling people those things. If anything, I tell people to stop being so that they can get their life together in an order. But other than that I can't control people decisions in life choices. So don't go around telling me that I say it's okay for someone to do it because they are my friend. Sorry I don't have friends like that. And I stay away from such people as much as I possibly can. But I don't go around disrespecting people. That's the difference. I tell anybody, and any man no different don't be around that. But, you men have to make the decision to be around that or not. You men decide if you want to screw them or not. I know for a fact that if I see a man who has themselves involved with somebody like that, I would not want to be with them or around them. And no. You can fantasize about a woman being mad at you with that mentality or you want. But I think we all know that's not the kind of man you are.

[btbc92]

You want to make yourself like your real good man by doing it and you're not a good man. I can't even call you a Godly Man. What you have replied with is a fanasty that you stay you once. But yet you can't hide because you're not even attracting us to you. Good women are not stupid. Even my late mother who was such a woman and try to be that with my own father, would not even want to be married to somebody like you. Because my father thinks just like you and he's a biggest hypocrite of them all. You got an abusive streak to you. And again, good people whether it's a man or woman would not want to associate with you. From what I gather you put on a mask and for the other people. But you showing your true thoughts on here. Let everybody in your church hear you bodly speak that in public, and I can guarantee you, so many of them are not going to want to associate with you.

[btbc92]

No, you value their virginity because of your sexual wants and desires. It has nothing to do with a woman being a virgin. Because like I said it I'm a virgin myself and leave and I don't like it when a man speaks stuff like that. There's a difference between a man who value the woman's identity because she respects herself, versus a man who wants a virgin woman so that way he can get his sexual wants fulfilled. And you're the latter. Just because a woman says all of that, that doesn't mean that she actually believes what you believe. Or really knows what you're really about. And that kind of person can easily switch on you just as well. Words are just words but actions speak louder than words. And I have seen plenty of so-called virgin girls and women who had a whorish mentality. My God had said, a man is a man, and a woman is a woman. And if you don't learn to remove those biases based on those labels, you may God bit and up with a virgin girl you think it's pure and then she starts sleeping around with other men when she's not happy in the relationship or marriage. Or you God forbid do the same. Character is far more important to look at. Not just status of virginity or sexual status. You don't have to date such women or marry them. But the biggest mistake you can do is say such things about a person , and you lack the discernment even know.

[akihon]

So there's a few things wrong with what you're saying, first is this, you don't get to decide what a real man is, second you have equality, certainly within the west and as such women don't get to demand that men suffer for their interest anymore, having a vagina makes you no more valuable to society than having a penis, you are just as able to fail as men and so you should, that's the world you wanted and the one you demanded now you get to reap what you've sown.

Secondly, your issue like so many other women is that you base your education as a thing that makes you attractive to men, when the sad truth is that it makes you less so, there are good reasons why, first it makes the relationship a competitive experience for which most men have every day of their lives and don't want that in their relationship as well, second it makes you think that every time a conversation has to be had around any subject again it turns into a competitive experience, this in turn makes women more of an annoyance than a partner, hence why so many women having an education are currently hitting 25-35 and asking where have all the good men gone, well I can tell you, those good men saw what they have in front of them and decided that saving their money for a sex robot was cheaper, more enjoyable and more fulfilling than what women can offer.

Sadly for you and most women you tend to overthink everything, when in truth it's really not that hard or complex, you aren't worth it, you aren't worthy and men have started to wake up to these facts

[bamesjond0069]

So i speak rough. My actions and character is more important. I grew up an atheist literally being taught how to date by a pimp. And one of my first gfs was a stripper. No shit i speak straight up. Sugar coating things doesn't make someone Godly. That's just your culture. My culture taught me to be how i am. If a girl will allow a man to pimp her out thats all she's good for TO ME, its not a comment about how worthwhile she is to humanity and God and what she can do for her life and i hope she finds her path. But that doesn't change the fact that 1000 women like that and ill still be single. by the way I've gotten ghetto girls off hard drugs and turned atheists to God. And they dont need weak polite people. They need tough love and i mean TOUGH AS NAILS. That starts by calling them a slut. If they can't accept they are being something so nasty they will never be ready to change their ways. And thats why im proud to call a slut a slut. I literally took a heroine addict prostitute and got her clean and a job. I didn't do it by being polite. You sound just prim and proper instead of worrying about results.

[btbc92]

@akihon

I don't get go decide what a real man is? Oh now that's rich. Because I'm the one who makes those decisions for me is that Heavenly Father himself. So yes I can decide what a real man is because at least I read my Bible and can compare it with that of the people in this world. And so many of you don't need it. I don't give a rat's behind about so-called equality. God has given me the power and authority the be the kind of woman that I desire to be, and not to be the woman that he molds me to be. I already have equality due to the fact that I am of God's child. I am equal as a human being. I automatically have it just like you automatically have it. That did not change because of so-called feminism.

And first of all I would never make a man suffer. I believe in lifting a man up just like I believe in lifting everybody up. I pray for people, I give in charity, I volunteer, I help without much being asked in return because I have a generous and loving spirit. I am a giver at heart, I naturally give. Me having a vagina don't mean Jack Perry because even if I was a man I would have done the same thing for people. Because that's who I am as a person, that's what's in my spirit. That's what God put in me. That's how God raised me. You were not raised by God, you was raised by your father, satan. So don't put that on me with your woman-hating ways.

[btbc92]

And that's where you got so many things wrong about me. I don't think my education is a base for a man to be attracted to me. I expect a man to be attracted to who I am as a person and who God designed me to be. Always knew I was intelligent, different from others, always were self-aware since I was three years old. My education doesn't have to make me. But an education is what I want, and education is what I desire, a college degree is what I need an order for me to good paying job. Maybe you don't know what it's like to be told sorry we can't hire you because you don't have no cause to Bree. Sorry we can't hire you because you don't have relevant work experience. Sorry we can't hire you because you don't have relevant references to backup your resume. You don't know what it's like to be years without work. Struggling just to make ends meet. Sacrificing your health to take care of a sick parent. Being a caregiver for 3 years since 19 years old. Dealing with suffering of constant domestic abuse, bullying, assault, sexual harrassment, almost could have been raped. Dealing with non consensual sexual touches not 1 time, not twice. 3x! You don't know what it means to almost be homeless. You don't know what it means for people to judge you and say old shouldn't you be in school. You don't know what it means for people to look at your age and think you're trying to mooch off your parents.

[btbc92]

You don't know what it means to be a troubled child in school because your parents is always fighting, people are threatening to have you killed, adult teachers in New York City not really giving a damn about you, crazy kids stabbing, shooting, robbing people. You don't know what it means to have people say oh you're so smart, but Meanwhile your grades are practically mediocre. You don't know what it means when you're sick and you're constantly throwing up, having. Pain, having a cyst in your breast and all you've been called by your Doctor Who supposed to help you get well that you are a hypochondriac. Going to asthma, arthritis, all that at a young age and I still had a sacrifice. You don't know how many days in freezing weather sometimes I feel like committing suicide because my life was going downhill. I never smoked, I never drink, I never party, I never did drugs, I never mess with a man or another woman, I never had sex, I never even dated a guy. Never! All because you try to do the right thing. But here you are getting cold a doormat, a people-pleasing, a goody two-shoes, judgmental and a religious prude.

[btbc92]

You don't know what it's like to grow up in a household that always fighting on Hughes. You don't know what it's like to see your own father at three or four years old slapping your mother at 2 a. m. in the morning. You don't know what it's like to hear your own father telling your own mother that she's no good in bed but here she is sick with Ms in cancer for 23 years before her death and don't even know it that she was slowly dying. You don't know what it's like to be threatened to be told you're going to be in foster care of your behavior don't get in order. You don't know how many times cops had to be called to the house. You don't know what it's like to be threatened to be tossed out in the street. You don't know what it's like for your own father call you a b****. But here he is having 40-plus women on his stack plus my mother. But I have no man in my ranks. You don't know what it's like for a guy who's only but a child tell you how you can't tell him what to do or how to live his life, but here he is asking you out on a date. For you to tell him that you don't mind but that he have to ask your parents first because you're not allowed to date at 18. And that you will at least want to be a friend to them first to get to know them for a few years to grow closer, to really build with one another, so that we can have a solid foundation for when that time does come. No, he wanted to be a manwhore at 8. Arguing with my beliefs. Saying how he don't like my parents when they don't even know me or my parents. I don't even know this kid I don't even know his name.

[bamesjond0069]

That's why you should have been married at 18 and had a stable household and someone to take care of you instead of banging your head figuring out how to deal with all that trouble you could have avoided at all.

[JimmyQ]

@Btbc92 I look at your typing, grammar, basic sentence structure and I'd say you've got a lot of problems that go beyond basic education. And you're running off at the face about how bad men are makes me think you are a wanna-be gay girl.

I can certainly understand why you'd want to get an education, but college today is more about brainwashing than it is about education and if you are attending a liberal arts college, you are gonna come out of there worse off than you were before you went in. Don't believe me? Take a look at the statistics sometime.

There are very few women that I would call respectable. Most own their own businesses and have no interest in sleeping around. They find that one guy who will stand with them through thick and through thin and they make a family. Those guys are out there, but you're not going to find them in clubs or bars.

So, I would recommend you grow up, stop being weird, and get a head on your shoulders. You do that and the right guy is gonna just show up. Fact.

[btbc92]

He doesn't even know my name is Step will people speaking around. He doesn't even respect my God or my faith and have nerve to call me religious. You don't know what that same boy did to me that day. When he told me that no man is going to want me as a wife, a mother, or a girlfriend because I refuse sex before marriage. And that I wasn't worthy of any man's affection. I didn't get a girlfriend in less than 24 hours and dump her in my face while both of them off to me in a lunchroom. That was elementary school. So how dare you. How dare you had the audacity to speak such insolence arrogance about somebody you don't even know. I don't care about stupid competition. All I asked for before I chose a life of permanent celibacy was a man who was going to love and take care of me. Where I am allowed to be free and love him as I please. It doesn't make you competitive. Because I grew up in that household.

[btbc92]

Competitive people are competitive people. Unhealthy people are unhealthy people. Mentally ill or mentally ill. Depressive people will always be depressed. Unhappy people are just unhappy people. You having a college degree, or basic education, being rich, or being poor, being brought up right or not being brought up right doesn't mean anything! I lived through it all I have enough experience to talk about it in my young life! You are so ignorant! Talk about being privileged. I'm getting my education not on so I can get my Visa and live in another country because that's mandatory, I'm getting my education not only because I enjoy learning but to survive! Other than that I'm broke! No benefits, hardly a bank account, no job, no degree. I have NOTHING. But it's too much to ask for somebody who claim they want to be with me to provide these things? I don't have it. I have been a lot of my entire life and I never once asked for a man to do anything for me. I had to learn to stand up on my two feet and defend myself whether through my mouth or with my fists to do I have to do. I didn't mean no man for that. That's why I don't trust men on those levels Beyond a friendship now. Because just like you don't owe me a marriage or relationship, I owe you no sex, or a relationship. I don't even owe you the bear your own kids. I owe you nothing. God is my provider now as he always has been. Because whether feminism was around or not I know how to survive because I'm a Survivor and a fighter. I no longer going to have myself being a victim. I would rather be alone than to suffer a man to do the basics and complain about what he has to do.

[btbc92]

@bamesjond0069

Whoa, that's how I know you don't pay attention. I no. lonher desire marriage or a man! At that age I had priorities. And my priorities was moving out of the country, going to college, get work and taking care of my mother. I was not READY for that life. And many men did NOT want to get married young. I am not wasting my time. I told you before, they did NOT want it.

[btbc92]

@JimmyQ

My grammar have 0 to do with what I am writing or saying. I am voice typing, I'm getting myself ready for that so-called brainwashing education you want to talk about, and not worrying about this foolishness. And first of all I've always attracted good quality men area but many of them did not share my values all my standards. So I do have the right attitude. But many of you do not. I know where to look for and I know where to start. And I start learning to forming friendships with the right kind of men. But a good amount of them we're not attracted to me or had any real desire to be involved with me. It had nothing to do with who I am, they just weren't attracted because they had their physical standards. And have different belief systems. So no you need to grow up. Because I'm already mature and grown up. I have been mature since I was 9 years old. And before you want to say something so stupid, there you go assuming about me. I know better than to be looking at some man at some club or bar. I don't drink, I don't smoke, and I don't party.

[btbc92]

I never said I had problems getting or finding men. I said about me no longer having any interest in that anymore with a guy other than having a friendship. The last time I ever was interested was around 12 years old that's how long ago it stopped for me. That's how long ago I gave it up. So I don't want to hear that crap. I was not going to waste my you focusing on some man. Because most of you are just horny teenagers anyway.

[bamesjond0069]

Young immature men? Sure you're right. This is why most relationships the man is at least a few years older. And sure many men wouldn't want that but guess what? Now probably no men do. So its good you dont want a husband and family. And by the way miss holier than thou, God tells us to get married and have kids. So dont claim you are so perfect and im so terrible. Smh.

[btbc92]

I'm on a different level psychologically, spiritually, emotionally and mentally then a lot of you people. I'm what you consider an old soul so I will not relate to you young Souls basically. I cannot relate to you people of the world. I am spiritual minded I am not carnal minded. That's how I know you men are just talkin out of your ass. At least I can differentiate between a good man and a player or pimp in the street. At least I could differentiate between a guy who claims himself to be Christian and who's godly. I always let God be the deciding factor who to allow my life and who to take out. And if God says no, sorry Jack the answer is no.

[btbc92]

Immature men have nothing to do with age this is where a lot of you people both men and women are greatly mistaken. Even at your age you have tons of immaturity in you. So for you to think that I'm holier-than-thou that's how I know you got a lot of envy and jealousy issues. Because I don't claim I'm so perfect. I know I'm not perfect. But I strive to be perfect like Jesus and to do right in God's eyes. Jesus have said there are those who are called to marriage and there are others who are not. And there are those that have made themselves eunuchs for the sake of the Kingdom. No it's good that I don't want to hug you in the family not because it's so cool good, because many of you people in this world are undeserving of that Paris God has given me eyes to see, God had spoke to me more than enough times about this, and like he said he said is not my fault! So I honestly no offense don't give a damn what you have to say about me and your little assumptions. What the Lord thinks of me is far more important than what you think of me. Because of you were so good, then where's your wife at? Look at yourself in the mirror and check your hypocrisy. Because God can see me raw and naked and find me blameless.

Not everybody is meant to marry or have kids. And if you wanted to use that so cool line about getting married and having kids then you're not doing your duty. But I highly doubt you'll be able to survive marriage.

[JimmyQ]

Hip, hip, hooray. It's a shame you don't live in England. They'd make you their Queen.

[btbc92]

I've always stayed away from older men on those levels because y'all just very lustful. Have no real logical reasons.

[btbc92]

@JimmyQ

I want to be queen of anything. And I'm definitely not going to England. I rather be out of this world and I cannot wait until Jesus come. This world needs to go and the crazy people in it.

[bamesjond0069]

Im 33 and dating. And? Im plenty young enough to have many children and i can actually provide for them.

[btbc92]

@bamesjond0069

You dating and claiming you can provide have 0 to do it. God knows your heart, he knows what your really about and he is not stupid. He is in control. So if other women wants to be naive to date you because of material, they'll suffer spirutailky because there is no God in you. Your a counterfeit.

[btbc92]

I don't want to be queen of anything*

[JimmyQ]

Well, I can't fault you there. Try to take care of yourself.

[bamesjond0069]

Lmao just because im successful doesn't mean im not Godly. Be gone. You have Satan in your ear. God wants us to be successful, have spouses, have sex with our spouses and have children raised to worship him. Nothing you are doing is leading you towards that. Nothing you are saying is encouraging that behavior in others. In fact you are actively opposing it with what you're saying. You claim im not godly because i call a slut a slut. A thief is a theif and a murderer a murderer. Have you not read the bible? They call people such names as well. You have a warped view that is leading you to stray and i feel sorry for you. I hope you can find your path away from Satan and evil and towards God and goodness.

[btbc92]

Oh you want to say I have Satan in my air. You who speaks such audacity and disrespect not only your fellow peers, but women as a whole and claim you only disrespect some women claiming yourself to be Godly question mark I should ask you the same thing. Do you even read your body? Because last I checked God doesn't just Prosper anybody. He prospers those who are not only deserving but who shows they are bearing fruit. You're successful in the world's way. But I can see you're not successful in God's way. No I turn people to Godly things. And godly things does not mean what you have. Because I can sense in my spirit you don't have God in you. And the Holy Spirit is very active in me. How in the world can you be successful, have spouses, have sex with your spouse and have children raised to worship him, when you're showing your not that kind of man. No you need to be gone yourself. You need to be gone because you think you're of God in your not. No you're not godly not because you just called woman to s***, but that you have no real love for women who led that lifestyle. Because God's first commandment is to have love. And yes I read my Bible. I know what was called the word of God. I don't have a view. You have a view of Satan.

[btbc92]

God uses me everyday and he don't use me to be spewing that out my mouth. So if you think of you leading a Godly like you're not being a Godly life. Because I know that's not what my God wants me to do and how to treat men that way. You the one that has a carnal and whorish mentality. Your mind is so backward that you miss use the word of God out of context. You abused it to fit your fancy. God is using me right now to speak to you and let me tell you he is not pleased. He is not pleased at all. Can be a thief and a murderer can be a murderer early but he still says for us to have love. Because all you became is a judge.

[btbc92]

A real woman of God is not going to care how successful you are, order status you and God, all the money you have in your bank account, or the fancy cars and have lined up in the parking lot, he doesn't boast of what he have oh, and he doesn't shame others.

[bamesjond0069]

I have love for everyone including my enemies but that doesn't mean not to cut them down with the sword. When someone breaks into your home in the middle of the night nowhere does God say to bend over and let them molest you steal your property kill your children and walk off. God says it's fine it's good and it's moral to cut them down where they stand. That is love. You are one of those very soft no back bone christians who Let's satan run wild. If you've read the whole Bible front to back and you feel that's what you need to do that's between you and God. But I would highly recommend to read it all again at when you're done with that read it one more time

[btbc92]

I at least don't shame men who don't fit my standards. I always tell them that they're living in sin and they need to come out of it. I don't have to date them, but I don't have the shame them either, because they already shame themselves. You do the very opposite of what a godly man supposed to do. I'm not stupid. Maybe you can fool every other person, and every other woman around you. But you won't fool women like me. My own spirit is disgusted with yours.

[bamesjond0069]

They live in shame until they accept Jesus and stop living in their own filth. Sin is shameful until we confess and accept Jesus.

[btbc92]

Oh no you think you're cutting down somebody with a sword know you just know how to shame others. That's not love. I do. Backbone, and I don't let them run wild. So you need to stop. You really need to stop. I'm not soft. You just choose to be an a hole. And you think you have God and you do not.

[btbc92]

You don't see just how much your in sin, with what you have going on right now. You're in a reprobate State of Mind so you choose to believe that. It has nothing to do with between me and God, but what he bought me have for me to stay and speak to you. I am spiritually aware of the things and people around me. And I can definitely sense you are not who you say you are. You have the spirit of self-righteousness. And blindness.

[bamesjond0069]

You just called me an asshole! How is that any different from calling someone a slut? Take the plank out of your own eye you damned hypocritic

[btbc92]

So anything you want to say about me you could take it to the father, because the Lord my God that you claim you served at Taunton teach me. I can tell you've been taught by your own standards and not by the father. Because you twist scripture and you scripture to fit your mean. You don't speak from a godly perspective. Not even a so-called religious one. Everything you want to say about me it reflects on you. We are called to not fight against flesh and blood. But the principalities in the air, and strongholds. So you cutting down somebody with your words is going to come right back on you 10 times fold. From what I see you have what you have from Satan and not from God. You need to take the plank out of your eye and stop calling me a hypocrite. I called you one because it's the truth that's exactly who you are. What Godly person acts like how you act? As I said before, and I will say it again, anything you want to say about me, you need to look at yourself. Because at least I have no plank in my eye. But you certainly got a speck in yours!

[btbc92]

You have nerve to call those women slut. But your behavior is that of a man whore

[JimmyQ]

@bamesjond0069 Bro, this chick is loony tunes. Best to leave her be.

[btbc92]

You have an ugly attitude, you have an ugly view of women, and you have an ugly heart. It's all ugly and it's full of Darkness! God has shown me long ago with a Godly Man is, and I have encountered such men on here too. And they don't behave like you. I have no Godly men that are my personal friends also, and are married and about to be Father's themselves. You're not it. All the women may be too timid to say something oh, but I am not so timid I won't call you out for who you are.

[btbc92]

@JimmyQ

I ain't the one being Looney Tunes here. That's you people. You men decide to have your butt come on my comment feed because you don't like what I have to say. I honestly don't care if you don't like it. I'll say what I have to say. And if you don't like what I have to say, you all can leave. We need to keep on going through that cycle having poor relationships with women, don't come crying on the site driving directions of us sane people up the wall with your nonsense.

[btbc92]

Rather be a beggars wife than with somebody who's haughty and lofty.

[AJC997]

@btbc92

No it’s not true we are all just immature, at least for me I want a genuine loving connection and affection

[btbc92]

Your a different story. I am not talking about guys like you. I read you post and hear and read what you write. Your not who I am referring to. I am referring to these knuckleheads up here who thinks they got it made and they don't.

[btbc92]

Your not that guy. So it doesn't apply to you. I am referring to men who I have listed. With lazy mind and don't want to serve or lead. They complain and give woman the pants but then whine to their "home boys" how bad she's treating him. Women who thinks the same are just as bad. Smart women and men avoid such people.

[btbc92]

Your one of the very few men who are mature on here. The ones who replied are NOT. They have a lot to learn and a LONG WAY to go. They're the types that are red flags all women should avoid and good men to not be influenced by. Their toxic. Stay away from peers like that, and you'll meet a genuine woman who will appreciate that your not like that.

I can tell your good people. The rest better double check themselves because that why they're always surrounded by So called bad women. They attract them because that's who they are. And their bitter a woman they can't get, told them the truth. The other one posted in his comment on here how he sees women with college degrees and I quote on quote "are liberal and sluts". That's bad. And it's biased. That is no Christian or even a godly man. That's ignorance. I have seen people and know of people who do that and their proclaiming Christian. And not all of them have college degrees or an education.

[AJC997]

@btbc92

Do you have any advice for me on getting my first girlfriend?

[RetroN]

@bamesjond0069 well Millionaire successful Kanye West wifed up Kim kardashian!!

[RetroN]

@bamesjond0069 successful? I doubt!! get out of your mothers basement and stop living in a fantasy world!! Maybe if you stopped trolling you’d find a decent woman !!

[AJC997]

@RetroN

Do you have any advice for a guy looking for his first girlfriend? Most girls are with someone

[bamesjond0069]

@RetroN as said. I have a stay at home girlfriend. We follow strict gender roles. Thanks for the concern.

[btbc92]

@AJC997

Date a female friend who you are very close to shares your values and equally desires the same. :) NO STRANGE WOMEN!

[bamesjond0069]

Dont date sluts either. No matter what. Trust me.

[FriedPickles1218]

You have a screw loose. Im sorry but I've been wanting to say that for a long time lol. Not just about this, but on several other topics I've seen you post and reply to as well. Men aren't getting college degrees because were more logical. You women are all going to college these days just to feel "empowered" lol. Thousands of dollars into debt just to feel empowered and maaaybe get a decent job. Thats if of course she didn't choose some useless liberal arts degree. You dont need a degree to get a good job and a lot of what you learn in school you can learn on your own. Yes, we need doctors, lawyers etc. But those are two of the very few college career paths that are actually worth it these days.

[AJC997]

@FriedPickles1218

Who has a screw loose?

[FriedPickles1218]

@AJC997 the OP

[DonCachondo]

oh so ou're a Bible thumper huh? Big surprise there LOL

[btbc92]

@FriedPiclles1218

Np, you people have a screw loose. Doesn't matter if you have a PH. D or or never even finished the 1st grade. All of you people mostly that I have seen have a screw loose. Because I can easily call "you men: you dogs. Practically every question on here, and the crazy women included is either sex, Why women want money why can't women do this, why can't men do that, Women are this, men are that. You all are CRAZY.

A lot of you people are disgusting. Nobody has to go in college just to feel empowered. That's how I know more than enough times you people have some real serious Cruz's yourself. I don't care what other women choose to do with their degree. I choose to get a degree because I'm looking to get what I have to get out of it so I can do what I got to do with my life and get out of this crazy country alone with you crazy ass people. Well sorry Charlie for the job that I need I do. And for me to get a working Visa I do. With no experience, or relevance it's an overall ticket to get things that you need. Benefits included. So unless you're willing to do everything for a woman don't be screaming about what a woman needs to do. All of you are hypocrites.

[btbc92]

@DonCachodo

Nobody is a bible thumper here. I choose to live my life Godly regardless if I'm a Christian or not. Can't even call myself Christian what I having to be associated with men who proclaimed themselves one and showing themselves not to be. Giving the title of bad name is not even the God we all claimed that we all serve a bad name. When is very clear that most of us serve different gods, that's not even of the Bible. So laugh all you want, I honestly do not care. It shows hypocrisy. I noticed a lot of you people, especially with the crazy men and women, you only want to throw that up and then when you know it's the truth about yourself. You can't live by the garlic standard so you want to shame and judge others who trying to live by God's standards as Bible Thumpers when they only trying to do what's right as we all called from beginning. Many people don't even need Bible or even know God personally just to have Godly stands because that's how it was back then. You people decided to throw away Traditional Values, now you want to complain about feminism and so-called liberal women? Sorry people. But others people so-called political, religious, and personal affiliations have nothing to do with me. I know that God called me to be a Godly woman, I am called to do certain things, I am called to our men, to submit myself to the right kind of people in my life. And I'm not going around accepting foolishness in my life because I seen it more than enough since the time of my birth. More than enough. And I'm sick of it.

[btbc92]

@DonCachondo: And what I wrote to most certainly applies to you and the others who wants to come on here with it.

@FriedPickles1218: if you got something to say you say it to a person's face, you don't sit there and took what what you want to say for a long time and act like a coward. You need to look at the post that you right before you want to try to just what somebody else is writing.

@bamesjond0069: and who are you to tell him what to do when you're the one here boasting as if you are a slut.

[btbc92]

By the godly standards*
Called to honor men*
Look at the post you write before you want to try to judge what somebody else is writing*

Keep all of your assumptions to yourselves. Your not the one that's broke. LITERALLY. And I am not taking out loans. You domt want a "golddigger", don't judge a woman trying to take care of herself. I am NOT going to risk being out in the street or dealing with a abuse AGAIN. So unless YOU MEN are willing to pay for my education to get out of here, don't TALK about what I'm in college for! I've been picking up books self educating myself long before I started. Jobs will NOT HIRE ME, without it. They'll hire YOU. BUT NOT ME. BE job less for 4-5 years with no other stable income, then come back and talk. Otherwise, keep your nasty opinions, "gentlemen" And that is about as nice as I am going to call you, to yourselves!

[1truekhaleesi]

"So dumb guys go for dumb girls and smart guys go for dumb girls. What do the smart girls get?" " Cats, mostly" - Phil Dunphy.

[aeon95]

I agree

[1truekhaleesi]

And I wouldn't have it any other way. I'm not dumbing myself down for anyone

[aeon95]

Good luck

[1truekhaleesi]

Lol. I'd rather be smart and alone than dependant on a man.

[aeon95]

Why is that a bad thing men like to take care of their woman.

[1truekhaleesi]

Relationships are supposed to be a partnership. I don't need a third parent.

[aeon95]

I think you're exaggerating been plenty of successful relationships with men taking care of their woman.

[1truekhaleesi]

Hmm. No. Like I said, I'm not dumbing myself down for anyone. I'm an independent person and I'm changing myself for anyone

[1truekhaleesi]

And if I have to ask my husband for money, that's too much. That already shows I'm dependant on him

[aeon95]

That's fine but why look down on a man for not having a high education?

[1truekhaleesi]

I never said I look down on a man without a higher education.

[aeon95]

Well then what's ur point

[1truekhaleesi]

Nevermind. I have better things to do.

[Satu16]

True words

[AynonOMouse]

That has nothing to do with it. The problem is when they wait until they are 30 + before trying to find a good guy because most of the good guys have lost interest in them by then.
It is common because if they spend years getting a degree, then years after that trying to get well established in a career they are often close to 30 by then. And if they spent all that time getting a degree and a good job they either don't want to leave it at all to have kids, or if they do leave it then they have lots of debt for a degree they won't even be using.

I think many of them would be happier long term if they found a good mate when young, had kids and went to school online so they would be finished with school by the time their kids are school age. Then they would get to have a good mate, kids, and start a job they like when the kids are school age. Seems like the best option in my opinion.

[jgokgotit]

I would say yes, but this is more society's fault than anything. Many women are taught that a man must be college educated to be successful, especially if she is. However, our society forgets that there is more than one path to success. Other than college, there is trade school, military, peace corps or even just old school starting from the bottom of an underappreciated job and moving up the ladder. Also, society measures a man's success by his wallet, which leads to women expecting the same. On the man's end, he feels insecure if he makes less than a woman because society has taught him he must be the breadwinner, which can lead to rifts in a relationship. It is not that college educated women CAN'T find a successful man as much as it is that these women often have a narrow minded view of what a good and successful man is.

[jennifer_bloom]

A lot of the guys I know have this basic idea that a girl has to have some type of education or masters or PhD - I don't know if my degree affects my dating value but I think it might help me find a job - I have 3 fields I want to break into - when I finish my current job

[nathanp97]

It doesn't effect a women's dating value, but it effects their standards. Most women don't date down, so the more educated the women the smaller her dating pool is. while the more educated the man the bigger his dating pool is, because men are more willing to date down and being more educated let's men date girls with the higher standards.

If you don't have problem dating a man less educated or successful than it doesn't apply to you👍

[Primrose21]

@Nathanp67 I 100% agree to what u said.

[nathanp97]

It's 97, but thanks @jennifer_bloon lol

[Primrose21]

Oh... my bad. And I am not Jennifer_Bloon. Lol

[nathanp97]

Damit, I mest that up. *primrose 22 is what I ment to say

[Primrose21]

Now we are even. Lol

[Primrose21]

It's 21 not 22. 😂😂😂

[nathanp97]

Exactly my point. I don't hold grudges 😉

[DonCachondo]

hahaha what a wholesome exchange, you two

[sejla]

It isn't about if a man had a degree or not but does he self educate himself if he doesn't have a degree or if keeps an open mind and learns new things about the world.

[ManOnFire]

Only true for the college educated women who think they're too good or valuable for most men, yes. What they call having "high standards" but are superficial expectations rooted in self-importance.

[OlderAndWiser]

What is true is that many college educated women have unrealistic standards for their companions.

[Meropatrick]

Not all but i will tell you a story. Many educated women think they are amazing , proud of themselves verging on narcissism ( not all). I befriended a chinese girl. (Victim of tiger parenting) Very educated smart woman. I really enjoyed her companionship as she was , talented, into traveling, music, dancing.

But deep down she was very abusive controlling woman. Quite jealous of other people success. She was crying one day and told me she want to leave her job because one of her colleagues is being promoted because they are working harder than her And she wasn't!!!
Education gave some good women chance for making their lives better, but for certain type of women it made their dating life more difficult because they are already difficult people. and now they dont have any excuse to be selfless as they have money, prestige, and opportunity

[lifelearner011]

Im a college educated woman earning a doctoral degree and I find my case to be rare. All my colleagues have relationships or are either meeting someone. What isn’t helping me?
-I’m a bit conventional and won’t do an account in the web to find love. I respect people who do it, yet I just can’t.
-I don’t look my “sexual age”. Comparison is the thief of joy, yet I’m honest and my facial features are baby faced and my phrase is very slim. A lot of people think I’m 20years old.
-I’m a happy single person, and have learned that love in the romantic sense comes at different life stages and maybe mine won’t be in my 20’s.

[bamesjond0069]

Im just Smh

[Chase7777]

So you think that looking like 20 hinders you finding a man? Interesting

[lifelearner011]

It is

[bamesjond0069]

I think you're wrong and just having a hard time for some other reason.

[JimmyQ]

No, not that. There is definitely more to this story.

[Shamalien]

controversy scares people off. Not me, but people

[lifelearner011]

@Shamalien What do you mean?

[Shamalien]

Oh I thought you said controversial, not conventional XD my bad

I guess it was just projection XD I'm extremely controversial and no woman will dare go near me for fear of damaging her reputation. Not unless she's crazy... in which case I don't want her. Where the fellow crazy but sane folk at?

[Burtonfan]

Lol it's not the men. It's the women. Educated women want a man more educated. If she has a bachelor's she wants him to have a doctorate. Not just any doctorate but one in a more lucrative field then hers. There are more women college graduates then men so all these women are looking for 1% of the men that graduated who have lucrative careers. Thing is there are not enough for them. These guys aren't stupid the see the gold digging ways so unless she's equally financially or she puts a sparkler in her ass while giving blow jobs.
I'm in NYC. It's so funny to watch.

[bamesjond0069]

I moved from a place like that sold my overpriced house and moved to bumfuck and am dating a girl from a trailer. Perfect housewife material who is super appreciative of my low average nyc income as im well off here. Think kansas or alabama. I don't know why more men don't do this.

[Anonymous]

Depends on what you mean by "good men". A woman's standards change as her own status changes. She's always looking for a man who's superior to her. Strong women don't date weak men. Rich women don't date poor men. Fit women don't date fat men. Educated women don't date men with only a diploma.

That's just reality. As a woman, if you want a good-looking, successful man, you just have to be pretty. As a man, if you want a good-looking, successful woman, you better be damn-near perfect in every way.

[Anonymous]

Some college educated women talk a lot about the struggle of finding good men, but that's because their standards in 'good men' are MUCH higher than non-college educated women. Furthermore, some women seem to think men will value the things they look for in a man, and find it frustrating they have trouble finding men who have the qualities that match their own. Partly this is underlines by the fact more women go to college then men.

But this is mainly about standards and perception, because college educated women end up marrying at a higher rate than non college educated women, and divorce less frequently.

[smalls95]

I met my guy in college but I agree with what someone else said - we tend to stick in the same circles of people with the same level of education. Most of my friends are college educated. Having those kinds of circles makes dating easier. If you’re a woman looking for a guy that’s in the same educational bracket outside your social groups, it may be difficult. Having a college degree is way more common these days so I don’t think it makes you that much of an outlier.

[Chase7777]

I'm sorry but thinking of degrees as relevant for relationships speaks from immaturity and unintelligence.

[Dog20]

@Chase7777 lol this is why I cut myself off from folks because everyone thinks your dumb if you don't have a college degree

[djmzes]

Simple

If you want apples, you plant apple seed. Do not expect a banana seed to give an apple tree... Never going to happen tho.

[nelly83]

That's not true at all. In fact, predominately college educated men tend to marry other college educated women. Many folks meet their spouses in college. If you're college educated, 95% of your social circle will be college educated. If you're rich, most of your social circle will be rich. If you're a broke crackhead, most of your friends would also be broke. This is how things work.

[Passinggas]

I am not sure if it is true even with the articles out there, but 60% women to 40% men graduating will certainly leave some without chairs when the music stops if they will only date educated men. It appears that by sheer number of graduate imbalance some will have to date blue collar or share. I am an Ivy League post grad and I am living with a hs grad. So, if they do the same, they will find men, hypergamy notwithstanding.

[bamesjond0069]

I have 3 degrees and my girlfriend only a hs diploma. Cheers. These college girls hate us you know.

[Anonymous]

Most women these days are only going to college to feel "empowered". Thousands of dollars into debt for that. If your going to school for something like medicine, then okay, worth it. If women put too much emphasis on it then thats their fault. You do not need college to make a good living or be a good conversationalist. I also feel that many women need to get over it if their guy makes less many than them. Like, get over it. We dont care and you shouldn't either. Its 2020 ladies. there's plenty of quality guys out here. I just feel that many modern day women need to change their ideas of what makes "desirable" man so to speak.

[akihon]

Oh right so you get to d code because you've read the Bible, and therefore then I get to beat you, because the Bible allows for that, I also get to kill you with stones for wearing clothing of mixed fabric, the Bible is no more a set of doctrines that ultimately boil down to this,

Don't be a dick to others and take some damned responsibly for your own life and choices.

Get a fucking grip and stop with the preaching, if I wanted that I'd go to a church.

[Anonymous]

Lots of recent studies came out saying that the typical gender roles work the best and leave both parties the happiest. Some even say that people eventually default to them even though they say they want more egalitarian partnerships.

Many men want to be and will happily take the role of the breadwinner. If the female partner in question makes more money than the male, then he will wonder why he is even there and would feel like he isn’t a valuable asset to her. This is exactly why the risk of divorce goes up if a married woman get a raise while the same isn’t true for the married man as well as why female CEOs divorce faster than male CEOs if they were considering one.

Ladies, I’m not saying don’t follow your dreams but when you do, don’t be surprised if it gets more and more difficult to find a partner the higher up you climb.

[DWornock]

There are plenty of good men that would marry college-educated women. Any difficulty lies in college women having unrealistic standards. They will not settle for men unless they are tall 6'-0" or taller), hot, and college-educated. And, the supply of such men is very limited. First, women think only 20% of men are average or better in looks; therefore, very few are hot. Second, only 20% of men are 6'-0" or taller, and third, currently, there are approximately 3 women for every 2 men in college.

[VintageND]

From what I've noticed it's not that an educated woman can't find good men it's just good men are rare and a most guys are raised with that 40s republican and that THEY work and the woman they stay at home and clean and cook but if a woman has her own mind her own bank account her own job and if she makes even a cent more than her man makes most guys get insecure and instantly go from being good guys to assholes just because of how they were raised

[bamesjond0069]

I actually wasn't raised that way but became that way because it makes more sense and feels right. And yeah i try to tell girls that... one girls asshole is another girls knight in shining armor. Its just a man reacting different to whats in front of him.

[JimmyQ]

@bamesjond0069 Agreed.

[VintageND]

My grandmother worked when most women didn't work so she had a place in the house other than housewife and this was how I was raised to respect all women's decision to work or educate themselves
But I really meant to say raised or learned it along the way its your idea of a perfect household and that's fine but an educated woman who wants to work won't see it like that

[bamesjond0069]

And thus they have a harder time finding husbands. Not my problem. And i don't care if she works, just not under a boss and family requirements come first. Ie she can't be off working and too busy to cook dinner.

[CubsterShura]

I think it depends on the place and their culture. It's actually easier to find a good man if you're a college educated woman where I live. But I heard that it's harder in the West and I was quite surprised when I heard that.

[bamesjond0069]

Yeah. Most women have degrees in america and most men dont. So its a numbers issue. On top of that, women dont usually want men who earn less so if some w degrees earn less they still aren't acceptable. But neither is a man who earns a lot but doesn't have a degree either. And then to make matters worse for them, many men with degrees dont want women with degrees. In america women with degrees and careers are low quality because they are almost exclusively liberal sluts. So quite a few men who meet these girls requirements dont even want them.

[JimmyQ]

@bamesjond0069 Agreed.

[ZeussLightningBolt]

College educated women typically want college educated men.
I read the more intelligent you are, the harder it is to find a potential mate, because your standards are much higher.

[Chase7777]

Unfortunately it doesn't take any intelligence to get a college degree. That should be obvious.

[ZeussLightningBolt]

@Chase7777 True. And you also don't have to have a degree to be smart

But you're right. There was a fucking ADD guy in my university, who basically passed by having others do the work for him.
And in some places, even the US apparently, you can bribe your way through college

[msc545]

@Chase7777 what is obvious is that you don't have a degree.

[Chase7777]

@msc545 because only people without degrees can make logic conclusions?

Only a really small part of the population is actually intelligent, getting a degree is average, I know people who might not even be in the average realm and study at a university.

If you seriously think that someone needs anything more than low average intelligence to get a random degree, than you simply have no idea what you are talking about.
Motivation is the main factor not intelligence.

[msc545]

@Chase7777 See my previous post. You don't have a degree.

[msc545]

@Chase7777 ALso, since you like to think you know what you are talking about, please define what you mean by "average", "intelligent", and "low average".

[Chase7777]

@msc545 IQ
by the way. You don't have a degree

[msc545]

@Chase7777 Actually, I do. Three to be exact, not including high school. That would be at least three more than you have.

[msc545]

You can definitely bribe your way in, and women can often fuck their way through to a large extent. Men will likely have trouble with this, but being able to throw a football helps.

[Chase7777]

@msc545 someone who think they are better because a fucking degree is so pathetic and a clear sign of unintelligence.

You're a obvious dumbfuck.

I am currently working on my medicine entrance exam, it would be impossible for me to have a degree at this point because of the mandatory civil service I had to do.
However I know from exchange students that the American highschool is laughably easy and makes everyone able to study something.
Not like it's too hard where I live but you could probably have had issues, judging from the ridiculous bullshit that you write.

What degrees do you have? Theoretical physics?
Probably some business administration studies or some shit able to be understood by simpletons.

[msc545]

@Chase7777 "medicine entrance exam" ? Lol

[Chase7777]

@msc545 medicine like with doctors you know, the ones that make illnesses go away.
You might have heard of those.

[Bananaman177]

Here's why:

https://www.youtube.com/embed/FfeBT0uuIrw

They will cheat on you, leave you, divorce you, take your money, your house, and your kids.

[msc545]

Exactly correct.

[HungMoose]

MOST college " Educated" people ( male or female) have no clue to real life situations, hence "Good" men don't want to bother with them College is a joke nowadays and no longer something held to a " higher" standard and certainly not a " better" one! You're all painted with the same brush. You want to impress someone, how about a bit of sacrificing for someone other than yourself. There ARE exceptions, but they ARE exceptions.

[msc545]

Written by someone who quit college, or never went, or tried but never got it. In other words, an uneducated person.

[HungMoose]

@msc545 Nope! Not going to brag, another quality you weak PRICKS DON'T have, but chances are I did more with my life before I hit 20 than you've done in your 32 years, college or not. Just the fact that my opinion bothers you and you think college " makes the man", and you're better than others proves my point. I get the feeling you're a sackless turd, that's only concerned for himself and thinks "lesser" people should do his dirty work. My whole point really was, college is a joke nowadays compared to when I went, because you all think alike and can't even tie your own shoes. You MAY be the exception, but your reply says otherwise. Sorry if I hurt your feelings.

[msc545]

In my lifetime, statistically speaking, I will make about 5 million more than you will. But you go right ahead and hang on to your ignorance.

[HungMoose]

@msc545 You are SOOOOOO making my point. Again, sorry for hurting your delicate feelings. I AM college educated but will NEVER measure myself by it. Compared to other " real" things I've accomplished and all the lives I've saved, I don't find " School" to be an accomplishment. That's something I did for MYSELF, not others. Have a good one, bud. I hope you sack up someday.

[msc545]

You didn't hurt my feelings. Sadly, you just demonstrated your ignorance, despite your alleged "college education". University of Phoenix?

[msc545]

anyway, I am blocking you - you are annoying.

[HungMoose]

@msc545 See ya' cupcake.

[Anonymous]

I know few of them, it takes ages to men or women to get to PhD, if they only concerned on that it will be very hard.

In my case I like women with brain, not usual...

Don't forget women after uni not really interested in stupid burger flipper, who pretend to be millionier, usually.

[noone89]

What is your purpose in asking this I’m curious? What was the thought process that made you ask yourself this?

[zagor]

He probably wrote it because there are a number of articles by women saying exactly this. There was one rather well-known article by a Princeton grad who urged young women at top universities to find their mate in college because it was so difficult to find someone up to their standards out in the real world.

Not saying I agree with any of that...

[BestUserName100]

Because he can't get any and is unable to sexually satisfy them how sad..

[aeon95]

U got a shrimp in the pants boy

[BestUserName100]

Oh my goshh how did you know that..

[BestUserName100]

It's actually smaller.

[BestUserName100]

Jealous ass bitch who can't get them off..

[BestUserName100]

Says the skinny bitch loser beta male.. Most Undeserving...

[BestUserName100]

What makes you think they'd want a skinny loser like you.

[aeon95]

Because my mom said I have a big penis

[Reaperbot666]

Some would rather not date guys who are not viewed as equal to them. When it comes to things like education or income.

But that is not always the case.

[JimmyQ]

No. The same good guys are out there, but after you slept your way through school and pumped you brain so full of crap that you can't even think straight, no decent guy wants you.

[aly34]

They do find guys but they dont find the guy they are looking for. it can be said they set their standards high and are not ready to compromise. i guess

[steven7890789]

Bingo. Most would only want to date the 6ft tall or taller man

[taleswapper]

No. Many, many female college grads get married to perfectly acceptable husbands. It IS however true that SOME college educated women can't find what they THINK are "good men". Because education is not wisdom, and hypergamy is a thing.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't say that we can't find a good men but it's definitely more difficult for high educated women. But I rather be smart and alone than to make myself more stupid than I really am. I don't want to make someone feel bad, stupid or small next to me but I won't deny who I am.
I worked too hard to be where I am today to deny my success now.

[Bratsondanielle]

That's so distruethfully I know lot of girls who are smart and stuff and they totally got a guy

[BCA6010]

I seriously doubt that there's any actual merit to that claim.

[Anonymous]

She wants someone who educationally matches or betters her
He wants someone hot and dumb enough to sign a bad pre-nup agreement
There are exceptions of course but that is the basic rule in the Metoo and supposed divorcerape era

[msc545]

A prenup won't help a man at all. Judges now routinely invalidate them no matter how well they are written.

[Opinion Owner]

Judge only invalidate them when you aren't part of the Freemasons but other routes exist to hide assets from corporations to transfered ownership or if it comes down to it... worse case scenario there's always the princess Di route

[msc545]

This makes no sense whatever. What the hell do the Freemasons have to do with it?

[Opinion Owner]

Judges are Freemasons and Freemasons help each other... I'm saying too much

[bamesjond0069]

No need to get married anymore. Just live with the girl. Give her a ring if you want.

[msc545]

You also apparently believe in unproven conspiracy theories

[JimmyQ]

@msc545 Now this is interesting. In Montgomery County, Maryland, the most liberal county in the USA, legislators have passed a law that anything signed but a woman and not counter signed by her attorney is invalid. That mean the courts have recognized woman as not being intelligent enough to sign documents.

On another note, California has passed a law that no woman can be prosecuted for falsifying criminal charges against a man. The law goes further to give women immunity from civil lawsuit and claims for damages.

And they wonder why no intellectually astute male wants anything to do with them. I date exclusively out of the USA and plan to raise my new family away from this sewer hole.

[Opinion Owner]

I know people in the lodge and let's just say they have avoided more tickets in the last year or 2 than I've ever had
Thank God I'm not American... this country still has a few boltholes that are great from both divorce perspectives and tax ones

[msc545]

@JimmyQ Can you please provide citations and links for those laws? They seem to be so one-sided that I don't believe they exist.

[JimmyQ]

@msc545 As you may know, I work in law enforcement and was a witness in a trial where the woman's attorney invoked the quash rule on evidence against her that was signed without her attorney present. The judge threw the evidence out of court and when the states attorney had nothing else, the case was dismissed. It was later explained to me that any document signed by a woman and not counter signed by her attorney is void. I have searched for the law, but have never seen it, but I was told that only Montgomery County, Maryland has this law.

On another note Montgomery County was the first county ever to pass a law that one a woman has lived in your house for 14 consecutive days, she has the right to have you removed. I personally know of a family who took a woman in and she now owns their house because she claimed that the man raped her. This is real stuff that is really happening.

The California law is still pretty new. I believe this is one of the revisions to the rape shield law.

www.shouselaw.com/ca/defense/penal-code/261

[msc545]

@JimmyQ Anecdotes are what they are. If you can't cite actual law, they are worthless. The California law you cite (written by a law firm and not the actual black letter law) simply define rape and nothing more.

[JimmyQ]

@msc545 I never claimed to be a lawyer, but I do know that these things exist. Don't be caught with your pants down and try to act like your weren't warned.

[msc545]

@JimmyQ I'm not worried.

[msc545]

I'm going to block you. I am tired of your ignorant bullshit.

[Opinion Owner]

Me or Jimmy... I talk from my experinces with divorcees

[lovedejj_xo]

No but I find it hard in general. I’ve had a few guys that seemed intimidated by it I don't know why because even though I have a higher degree they were making more without having to even go to grad school like me. Everyone has their own standards.

[msc545]

Because they define "good men" as men who are good looking, wealthy (or have wealthy families), and risk taking. In the age of #metoo, only a real risk-taker comes anywhere near a college age or college educated woman. It's like swimming with sharks.

[Apple1996]

I assume cuz they think they are too good for men or some bullshit like that

[Shamalien]

(its cause they took too many cocks and the men who they think they deserve don't want em)

[Apple1996]

@Shamalien yeah I could see that too. Guys like good virgin girls

[Shamalien]

to marry, yeah, but for the most part a man will fuck anything, which gives a lot of college girls the wrong idea. Once they start looking for serious instead of casual, the whole playing field shifts

[Apple1996]

@Shamalien yeah I have no idea about any of this considering I got married to the only person I've ever fucked. And me and my husband both never went to college

[Shamalien]

Props to that strategy honestly, except the part where he joined the military ofc >:O

[Apple1996]

@Shamalien well he's wanted to join since he was 4 years old so he is living his dream

[Shamalien]

'his dream'

just whose thoughts do you think are buzzing around in your head right now anyway? It starts young...

[bamesjond0069]

@Shamalien this. Only desperate dummies wife sluts

[Mindwipe]

The more education you have the smaller pool of men she'll date gets, because he has to match or exceed your level of education.

[Chase7777]

Yeah if she's a dumbfuck

[Rangers]

College is not the place to find good or smart people. Yes, you heard me right

[Shamalien]

cause they spent too much time riding the cock carousel to deserve em

[tjharrell14]

It shrinks the pool of men they would consider. Would they date someone without a 4 year college degree? If not, that eliminates 2/3 of the population. Men have no qualms about dating "down" but women often do.

[wankiam]

i can't see what possible link there would be to support this notion

[Powderpuff97]

True. Maybe some guys are intimidated by it. Not sure

[slatyb]

Not true but there are more women graduating college than men. It’s a good time to be a college man.

[bamesjond0069]

Yes because the best men would prefer a young virgin and not a liberal educated slut.

[lifelearner011]

What an offensive and generalized reductionist view.

[bamesjond0069]

@lifelearner011 well i was trying to offer a generalized answer, reduce it down to the basics and i don't particularly care if i was being offensive. Doesn't change the fact its true.

[BestUserName100]

Probably they mean they can't find the ones they like.

[zagor]

Probably because they hang out with their girlfriends who quickly point out the faults of every guy in the place, wherever they happen to be.

[Silence00]

60% of the population are old or children mentally or physically, in other 40%, there are 10% married or engaged or not interested man, 10% are objects lover and 20% woman. Probably that's why.

[Anonymous]

Women who post this kind of crap all over the internet are over-educated but low value single 30-something "women" who have no clue what good men want in a woman.

[PetrovaFire92]

I guess they are looking for a guy who went to college too I guess.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Not true. Women who are annoying and in general bad people will attract another rotten apple of a man as themselves.

[Anonymous]

Not true at all. College educated and have the best man in the world.

[Opinion Owner]

@gguuss87 already have a man. Sorry

[Iron_Man]

Because they want rich husbands and demand way to much

[Unit1]

Bull. Like somebody already said, i doubt there's any merit to such a claim.

[Dchrls78104]

Such educated women have more options and may be more selective.

[poneglyphs]

Because their's a lot more people without education.

[outside_Toronto]

not sure what a college education has to do with this

[Avenoma]

Well said. A college education doesn't mean the same thing today that it has in the past.

[Obdntboytoy]

You probably came from a dad that dumbed himself down and had you

[Gamillions]

When you set your standards... high... you put yourself on a cloud that many men can't reach.

[Manuel2]

Because they over value themselves, but some hire cock or go for rough one night stands

[Usernamesrdumb]

Hypergamy.
there is like a thousand articles on this. Just google “men become un marriageable”

[Twalli]

I don't think it's true. Most people are college educated nowadays