What are some signs that you're being treated like a doormat?

[Anonymous]

What are some red flags for you guys that your significant other - whether it's a guy or a girl - is walking all over you in your relationship?

[little_bird1]

- They text/call you only when they are bored or when they need something
- They ask to see you only when it's convenient for them, and it's always be on their terms (like time and place)
- They flirt with others in front of you or publicly like/comment hot people on social media
- They never apologize and they never say thank you
- They bail on plans that are important to you with some lame excuses
- They are hypocritical; they don't want you to do some stuff, but it's okay when they do it
- They discard your jokes and your opinions calling you ignorant
- They treat you like you are a ghost in public
- They objectify you
- They put you down if you shine more then them whether in looks or success
- They leave you on "seen"
- They ask you for favors
- They manipulate and always make victims of themselves
- They fuck you and then fall asleep immediately
- They are selfish in sex (they only care for their own pleasure)
- YOU FORGIVE EVERYTHING AND STAY WITH THEM

In conclusion, they are not treating you like a doormat, YOU are treating yourself that way.

[btbc92]

Your boundaries are nonexistent to people.

You have no boundaries. Your nice and too accomendating to everyone and you're doing all just has to get them to like you.

Every time you let them know that what they doing hurt your feelings, they laugh at it as if your feelings are irrelevant.

You have a long history of bullying and abuse. And it never changes.

You rely on other people to fight your battles for you instead of doing them yourself.

You may be a peacemaker, but you are so intimidated by others, you rather make peace instead of fighting for what you want.

Your parents, your friends, your teachers, your bosses, and others around you can't or refuse to help you.

They always lie or make up excuses for you.

[Finchie40]

If they treat you like a convenience, only come to you when they feel like it , when it comes down to you wanting to spend time with them or being intimate they are never in the mood and want to be left alone , they will come to you when it’s convenient to them. they expect you to include them in anything fun you are doing but the second they get an offer to do something fun they exclude you and don’t make you a priority. They will plan things without you be a priority to them , they will choose other people over you , that’s when you throw on the towel and tell them to go fuck themselves and find someone that wants you by their side as much as possible

[Finchie40]

Thanks for MHO

[BlazinFiresAshNthaB]

I would say how they treat in every aspect of your days and nights how you are spoke to how you are loved on how you are shown your worth to that person threw their actions and regards do they covet you or do they wipe their boots off on you You know how you feel they make you feel and if it is great Awesome if it isn't F that they make you feel bad roll out people can change but we can't change people that is up to the person point blank

[sdrawkcabosmi]

Usually someone laying you down in front of a door for people to use to wipe off their shoes is a pretty good sign.

[Asker]

Responses like that are the reason you’ve never been picked as the most helpful answer ;)

[sdrawkcabosmi]

Meh 😜

[David92506]

meh
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"Meh. I'm not impressed so far"

[BestUserName100]

If they don't respect how you feel. Take advantage of you and never return it. Don't have time for you, might put themselves first. Their happiness might be more important etc.

[taleets]

Ignore you, only talk about themselves, lying is a huge one, cheating is also one, seem disinterested when you talk

[Meropatrick]

Nothing you do is good enough. You are being mistreated and expected to be ok with it and shunned if you aren't. You are being denied all your rights. Just the right of being abused

[Anonymous]

She wants to blow my phone up daily and has zero self control when texting. Constantly complaining, checking in on me like I'm a child, and can never be bothered to listen if I have something I want to talk about

[Anonymous]

Ignoring calls/texts, not interested in your struggles/problem... but always talking about theirs, embarrassing you in front of your friends/in public, lying to you, physically/emotional abusive... cheating on you...

[Nikki1989]

When they only communicate when they want something.

[YHL6965]

I guess if you feel that you constantly have to do things to get their approval, that you always have to run after them, it's not a great sign.

[Slim57]

When they only message you when they need something

[David92506]

Everyone I know does this.

[OddBeMe]

Saying sorry more often than thanks.

[yourspraytan]

When you start sleeping by the doorstep

[jimmy2]

I be back later dear