The girl I’ve been talking to for three weeks admitted to me that she is talking to other guys as well. Is she not serious about me?

[Anonymous]

She’s always been upfront and honest, so I was taken aback when I asked her was I the only guy that she talked to and she said no.

Why does she feel the need to entertain other guys? What are her intentions with me? Do I need to cut things off?

[Anonymous]

Most girls nowadays are keeping their options open, have multiple guys on the go, and several backup plans. Their most common strategy is based around hypergamy and they will slot different guys to suit different needs.

Your problem is that you are taking her seriously, investing in her, and giving her time and attention... all a fruitful waste of your energy. I'd be more surprised if you were the only guy, not the other way around.

If you want to understand how most women date, see the below image.

[hatim_tai]

It's up to you how much you engage her with you. You don't need to cut other guys out... You just gotta claim more space with her...

[thegirlfromthething]

She’s not serious about you yet but she could be in the future. She’s interested in you but she’s interested in them too and probably wants to evaluate each of you before she commits to someone. Wait a while longer and if she still hasn’t stopped talking to them you should cut it off.

[taleets]

She needs to see who is the best fit for her! Now is time to prove yourself

[bartivo]

Do you think she likes you? If so, then its alright to have other guy friends right? Just like she let's you have other friend who are girls, right?

[Asker]

But these guys that she’s talking to, she’s exploring them on a romantic level. I’m not talking to other girls.

[bartivo]

Are you two "together"?

[Asker]

No. We’re in the taking stage.

[bartivo]

Are you jealous of this other guy?

[bartivo]

And if it's at that level she's probably not serious with you, at least not yet