Should a girl who loves shorter guys feel ashamed or need to explain why she dates men way shorter?

[Petra150]

Why do everyone think when a supertall woman like me are in relationship with s guy not tall, that she do it because she can't find s tall guy or she feel sorry for her guy, because he's not tall. It seems strange to most

[Anonymous]

I think people's opinions on other people are very superficial. Some people treat others like they are less than them just because they have something about them that is different whether it is race, height, weath, a job, etc. Height has no real effect on anyone. It is just the length of your body. It doesn't affect anything about a person. It doesn't determine overall attractiveness (unless you're one of those people that associates height with status and you care a lot about your social status), personality, fitness, interests, etc. The types of people that think a guy is inferior because of his height are very shallow people who only care about social status and validation from the rest of society. They think anyone that looks different from the Hollywood standard of beauty is beneath them. They are the same people that will claim a women is unattractive simply because she has small boobs or is taller than the norm. I don't give those assholes the time of day. I had a former 'friend' try to convince me to dump my girlfriend because she is 5'11. Apparently he thinks tall girls are too aggressive and masculine and that I could do better. I told him to f*** off and that height doesn't determine the kind of person she is. My girlfriend is so beautiful she could be a supermodel, she is shy, and very girly. I told him that he shouldn't be so stuck up his a** and assume someone's personality based on their looks. Long story short, we are not friends anymore. And if anyone ever trys to put her down because she is different they will have to deal with me. I wouldn't let those superficial people get to you and ruin a relationship with a guy that could possibly end up being the one. My brother was dumped by a girl because her friends made fun of her for dating him because she was slightly taller. Two years later, she contacted him online and told him that she was sorry about dumping him. She said he was the best boyfriend she ever had and dumping him was the biggest mistake of her life. She still loved him and want to get back together. But by then he was already engaged to a women who loved him for himself and rejected his ex. The point is, I don't think you should let other people control who you date and affect your perception of him.

[Opinion Owner]

So to answer your question, no, you shouldn't feel embarrassed and have to explain why you are dating a short guy.

[Desire-for-Greatness]

You're 91 kilograms and wear size 48 shoes? How tall are you damn.

I'm only a few kilograms heavier. Lol are you above 6 ft in height?

I personally don't feel attracted to women who are taller than me but seeing you and your man being happy about your relationship I say screw the haters.

[Petra150]

204 cm I'm from a family of giants my mother is 188 cm and my little sister 199 cm tall my brother and dad are monsters, I don't se them as my mother divorced from my dad 25 years ago , and she found a real nice man , short ofcause , we all love her for that. I don't hate my height or size because I do mainly socialize with short and avarage height people , they never have any problem with my height, I'd hardly ever face then questions , most tall people cry about " normal people " ask us so I'd think it's way overdue that we tall get asked the " basketball and wether up there " questions, what I were asked a lot were if I tolerate shorter guysand I'm glad as I get a chance to say I'd ten Times rather date ( when I were dating) guy who love me for being me, rather than guys who fit into what stupid society norms dictate us. Sad to hear some guy still are afraid to be rejected by a girl for there height, but I do admit the fault is solely on our side as far to fucking women are blinded by height in a guy. And some might say I just have this option because being so incredibel tall, and thereby would have difficulty finding a guy taller , that's true too, but I really enjoy guys shorter than me , to se when I'd met my guy and he lighted up when he regonized I didn't mind him being so much shorter than me, but hell I too brightens up him admiring my long body, let's be honest it were love at first sight. We get many people tell us that they find us a very nice couple as live that we have the courage to stand out. I'd met a lot of women who told me that they wished they had the same courage, while they properly dumped there love if life for a few cm , while ending up with a tall guy instead. Sad sad

[Desire-for-Greatness]

Do you have Netflix? If not, get it.

Watch the 7 deadly sins anime. There's an option to change the audio to English.

The main character is a charismatic guy with a much taller girlfriend and the backstory behind the events is heartbreaking yet warm.

watch it with your man. You'll absolutely love it.

Have a good life.

[Petra150]

Hope I can get it on my Netflix in Germany, will there be a YouTube trailer too

[Desire-for-Greatness]

I'm sure you'll get it in Germany. You'll really love it.

I'm not even that into anime but I was bored so I watched it and it was awesome

[buddies]

If the girl is into short guys as a group, she needs to find out why. For herself. No one else deserves the explanation, but she owes it to herself to know why she prefers what she prefers. Maybe she likes to feel in control, and shorter guys give her that. But if it is a particular short guy, then I would say it doesn't need to be subjected to overthinking and criticism. The main thing is to make sure that she is happy regardless of the guy's height😊

[Petra150]

Well I'd think women who are into taller guys should think about that for sure , you know the ones who say " he got to be over 6''

[buddies]

I completely agree. Either way there is a reason for that preference and it's best to know why it is there.

[Petra150]

I'd think you lot completely miss my point as I think a woman shouldn't need any reason to datecs guy shorter than her, because there's two reason the guy is shorter , he doesn't need to be literally short , like in my case I'm incredibly tall and my hobby is avarage to tallish ( 181 cm) tall , but people presume he's short , and there are the reason the guy literally are short , but in bouth cases it doesn't need an explanation why people are in love, but as you get it I can't really date any guy's unless the end up looking short by my side. Still people comments on the height of my fiancee's height and look at him as he were a midget ( I don't have anything against men really short either, I'd actually date a guy only 150-155 cm tall for s long time in my youth)

[emmily2396]

People who makes assumption like that in front of your face are just very insecure. Your dating choices don't reflect anything about your quality as a person. I have seen some of the most beautiful women date men that aren't socially considered attractive. Just look at Antonia Iacobescu and Alex Velea

[meesegoMoo]

I think you have a bigger problem with this than anybody around you. When you stop caring, when you aren't bothered, you'll likely be more accepted.

[Petra150]

Being insane tall and live guys shorter than myself, it get comment a lot of times , but mostly my guy get the comments rather than myself. He avarage height close to 6 '

[meesegoMoo]

Then it's his issue and HE should be the one to deal with it. Is he broader than you at least? As in, muscular?

It's his issue of confidence.

[Petra150]

No my hobbit is rather dad shaped , 17 years older than me, I'd know he's about 3-4 kg less than me I weigh 91 kg , I'm very athletic as I do CrossFit exercise b5 times a week , run every day , bike a lot and ofcause play volleyball twice a week tioy, lift a lot of weight too. To my knowledge he'd never used an hour in a gym or done anykind of sport at all , his upper arms are so thin I can grab around them completely, and my thigh are 15-20 cm bigger than his and my upper arms are at least 5-10 cm bigger too, I could go on , I take size 47-48 in shoe , so I'm pretty strong too. We like to compete in many things and he usually say he let me win when we for fun do arm wrestling , funny he have a job reaching when we do. SIZE doesn't matter to us, but ofcause we joke about it, and I Never let him be humiliated , and no one should ever take him away from me, and I'd never let him down or cheat on him , though everytime I'm out with my girlfriend's and a very tall guy come along, as my girlfriend's still think I should try a really tall guy, I get so fucking annoyed, I prefer my lovely guy

[TienShenhan]

You sound hot

[leonidas69]

This is hard to read but I think I can still answer.

No the woman shouldn't feel ashamed or like she has to explain.

If people are asking stupid questions then answer them back with a stupid question. For example... if they say "couldn't you find a taller man?" You could reply "could you be a taller man?".

[wstt2]

I think it shows tremendous confidence when a tall woman dates a shorter guy. It would never cross my mind that it’s because she can’t get a tall guy, or she feels sorry for her guy.

[Petra150]

Thanks well it takes courage from bout me and my shorter guy I'd bet you, that teightwnd us even more together

[md170]

I low key wouldn't mind dating someone 1-2 inches taller just to see. It is a little odd but if she doesn't mind then that would be cool to see. Its all about our connection and I don't want that to be something that disqualifies something that could be great. Anyone can date a girl who is shorter, that's easy...

[TommyLee73]

I'm over 6' and I matched with a woman 6' 5" I am intrigued what that would be like. She pretty far away from me though.

[Gabrielkatz795]

I think it's not a problem at all, why should you explain it. I personally date a girl who is taller than me. I don't feel less or like she overpowers me. I love her and that's that. You should have a problem with being taller if anything you should be proud of yourself for finding a man who doesn't have problems with his own ego

[Gabrielkatz795]

*you shouldn't have a problem with being taller

[Anonymous]

I'm a short guy, most girls I've dated have been taller than myself and I've seen/experienced this. I think people only ask because it's unusual and they're just curious. Maybe some people do for whatever reason have some kind of problem with it or find it funny or whatever, but they're obviously idiots and that's their problem.

[Petra150]

To be honest we women sometimes feel like a treasure to the guys and , perhaps bsone of you think if you land a tall girl in you bed , your a giftet hunter

[Opinion Owner]

Sorry, I'm not sure I understand what you mean by that exactly? For me at least, height just didn't come into it at all because it was just like if I liked them I liked them. You're a very tall girl so perhaps it's slightly different because the girls weren't super tall, I'm just really short. 5'4".

[nelly83]

No but it’s certainly odd, women have a natural desire to feel protected by their men. You cannot feel that way with a guy that’s almost a foot shorter. But there are odd balls in every population. There are women who are attracted to 60 yr old men too. Weirdos but you never know...

[Petra150]

Weirdos !!! I get the message, guess you didn't think it was wired that Hillery Clinton , or Margaret Thatcher were and wanted power. But still you think it's weird a woman can love a guy a head shorter. Is the personality of a man only 181 cm tall not good enough for you, do you think the most soldiers in the US army are tall as hell, would you feel safer if the NBA team stood out you door than a bunch of special troops 175 cm tall. I don't get the logic at all. But I know Hollywood have done there great job to ruin most men's pride in them selves, and hurt most men , them you find unworthy to protect you. Now take a guy 180 cm , I'd guess you will find him good enough to protect a girl 150 cm tall , but if he should protect me 204 cm tall you'll think he's not Abel to protect me. Where is the logic do a big tall woman need more protection?

[Petra150]

Odd balls what's wrong with having a natural desire for guys shorter than themselves, guys do have a natural desire for women taller than themselves. I couldn't imagine a guy taller than me to fuck with, it would be wired and I couldn't get wet if I'd tried, most tall women I know do love guy shorter , girls simply get attracted to guy shorter , you get more respect for them as the just look much more attractive. A guy isn't supposed to be tall at all, you naturally laugh if you se a tall guy

[nelly83]

Sorry I couldn’t understand what you were saying. Your writing can be wayy better

[Petra150]

Sorry I can't understand what you are meaning , you writing is good but your thoughts that short men can't protect tall women , but strangely can protect shor women is very strange. Or do you just think short men can't have any women as they can't protect any women. Could that be your opinion. Bye the way remember that all guys who litteraly aren't tall , seems to be considered short in this world , strange too. Or do you think a guy , let's say 180 cm tall is tall when he's dating a girl 150 cm tall, but the same guy 180 cm suddenly become short when he dates a girl my height ( I'm over 2 meter tall) . Do you understand this logic or lack of logic in my opinion?

[Petra150]

Do you think us tall girls are stupid or less intelligent, if a woman my height and strength Ned a bigger guy to protect me, rather than the tiny woman only half my size who obviously can feel protection from a wonderful guy only 155 cm tall, while my guy 181 cm tall can't provide me protection. Thats about the most stupid assumption I'd ever heard. Why can a tiny woman feel better protection than a super tall athletic woman as me

[nelly83]

Most women in general feel safer when the man is bigger than her. Who is more likely to win a fight? A tiny man or a huge man? This is why most women prefer bigger men

[Petra150]

do they. so why can a guy 160 cm protect a girl 150 cm, while stupid people think a girl my height need a tall unattractive guy, ofcause I can't feel attracted to a taller guy, or not even a guy close to my 204 cm. e simply can't feel somthing when a tall ugly guy come along ( most really tall guys seems awkward and less attactive , at least in most of y girlfriends and my own oppinion, and yes we are mainly over 185 cm tall, find guys shorter than 185 cm far more sexy) but perhaps if a guy litteraly were really gigantic tall he could be somthing special, and thins special always are interesting, but ofcause they couldn't change my preference

[nelly83]

I’m talking about most women in general here, not you. There are always odd people in every population. There are 16 yr old girls who are attracted to 58 yr old men. It is certainly odd but are most women like that? No. You like what you like, nobody cares

[Petra150]

Did you think a tall girl need more protection than a little midget woman, as I'd guess you think a girl like me should be with a giant tall guy so we together could fight all them who accidently find it fun to attack me a fit athletic two meter girl, while I'd guess you think the tiny midget woman could manage to be protected by a tiny guy about 150 cm tall guy hell still be taller than her and together they will be pretty good at protecting them from any people who might attack them. And waue both couple look so normal togethe and everyone are fine shorter people get shorter kids and stay together , while tall people get taller and taller kids and ofcause don't breed with shorties as it will be wired. Do I understand you right , your definition of what's normal, and do you think that's a great thing !!! I'd think you know my answer

[nelly83]

I think you’re just offended that you are not similar to other women.
what you like is ok, nobody is telling you that you can’t like short men,

[Petra150]

No to be much more specific as most inhere simply close there eyes from the main issue. Why do so Manny think a woman need to be with a guy taller, and that follow her heart and the instinct of a woman she need to explain, while we all seems to have got lost somewhere and think it's natural to prefer men to be taller than there girl. And even further no one think of the guys standing back as great loosers , all the good men who most of us girls just loose , because we somewhere god fooled to believe tall men are more attractive. That's my point I simply can't by no way understand what's gone wrong with most women , and I'd guess you know my point if you se other post I'd made. Try my last this day

[Petra150]

Why am I odd , why is it odd to be human , and not be an evil asshole. I'm not an animal

[Petra150]

I'm not offended my self but if I were an attractive guy I'd be, just imagine that those really attractive guys , year after year are considered worthless while women blinded by some few cm , rather pick tall unattractive asshokes as boyfriend's , rather than choosing them wonderful guys avarage height, most women end dating anyway when they are grown up and sharpend there preference

[nelly83]

Depends on what you call “ average height “. If it is a man my height or shorter , I would not want to date him even if he is a wonderful man. I also do not fall in love with men because he is wonderful, I fall in love with him because he has humor and is a decent person. Kindness is not what everyone is looking for.

[nelly83]

Most men do not like taller women. Most women do not like shorter men. That’s why it’s so uncommon to see a woman dating a shorter man.

[MrCommodore]

This is not something I ever thought about, and I am friends with a few guys who have taller girlfriends/wives.

At 6ft 2", I'm probably slightly taller than average, but I never viewed this as an advantage with women. Height doesn't matter, it's only one of a number of factors which contribute to attractiveness.

[stronghotcoffee69]

the first reply on to it, the problem not the real problem. as the younger generation says haters are gonna hate. and as Buddha says those that hate will never be free of hate.

[JSmith925]

Make no apologies. You are to be commended for following your own mind instead of bowing to convention. I have dated women considerably taller than me and loved them. I can assure you, it was not because I could not find any shorter ones.
~JSmith

[ShadowofRegret]

Not at all! Some people are just too wrapped up in what they commonly see represented in the media, such as romance novels, movies and the like, they think that is what 'all' couples are supposed to look like.

There is nothing wrong with a taller woman going for a shorter man! The problem is with them, not you or your man!

[theCobbler]

Fuck... a bunch of
the " Them/They " Assholes. ... this is what I Hate, yes, ( he said Hate)
About Society; in one dimension They/Them hold the freaks and oddballs high on that proverbial pedestal and in other dimensions, scoff, laugh or talk about "US" !

Just look at
" Them/They " Assholes ... Smile a big Smile and just think "( Fuck You... Your just Jealous "

[Anonymous]

It's uncommon, but not strange. But you shouldn't feel ashamed or the need to explain anything with your personal life. It's nobody's business at all. You need to care less about what others think! It doesn't matter. Only matters what you think and that you're happy.

[Avicenna]

Of course she shouldn't. I dont see why it should be viewed as a de facto requirement thatthe guy be taller.

I've never actually dated a woman taller than me, but I would be happy to-do it and wouldn't think anything of it.

[cicchis0]

No, you don't have to explain your relationships. Love is inexplicable. You wouldn't have many friends if you went around pointing out things that don't appeal to you about other people's partners and asking them to justify their choices.

[halloweenkween]

You should never have to explain yourself to anyone, period.

[Otakumonogatari]

The girl shouldn't feel ashamed at all. There's nothing wrong with it as long as both parties are consensual in the relationship. People tend to find it easy to jest or poke fun at a relationship since it breaks the standard "gender roles" in a relationship. As a shorter guy myself I get this fairly often from more closed minded friends when I go on dates with women taller than me.

[Cherokeehp]

You don’t need to explain yourself. Live your best life.

[willisg]

When a super tall girl dates a short guy and displays it, it's self explanatory.
People won't wonder they will leave it be because they have eyes.
I know personally.

[Anonymous]

Why, you just like what you like F**k what everyone else thinks...

The only thing you need to find men who likes taller women, I don't think that it is easy or I'm wrong?

For example I like women with smaller boobs and don't understand what is the fuss about huge ones...

[Unit1]

"Mind your own (fucking) business! Good day to you!"

This is exactly what you tell them. And give 'em this face:

[Christsdisciple15]

Why do people act like short guys are a different species, they’re literally just short (er).
You shouldn’t have to explain yourself

[Helpmeplease10106]

The only thing that matters is if that tall girl likes the short guy and are happy together and love eachother

[Petra150]

and we are a lot who do in generel

[Helpmeplease10106]

Nothing wrong with wanting to be happy

[Finchie40]

Not at all , usually a girl that likes shorter guys is a girl that likes to be dominate in bed , no need to explain lol

[Dongtai]

No. Rock it and do it proudly so all the closet short girl lovers are encouraged to do the same. Peer pressure is for kids. Do you.

[msc545]

Height is something that cannot be changed, and it doesn't matter in relationships. What other people think is of no consequence - ignore them.

[mattmanyah2]

No that's totally up to her. Who cares who other people date as long as they aren't miserable and you're not interested in them...

[ChrisWardJr]

No explanation needed... Just keep being an inspiration to the short guys that love y'all women and vice versa

[Petra150]

You bet I do too, and I've done since I were teenager, but I've faced a lot of haters too , as I can't really shot my big mouth when , somebody try to tell me why I don't keep away from shorties, and I'd tell them I don't care if the guy is short , I just hope they will like my height too, as none of us can change our heights, somthing shorter people need to know too that being tall is something whi is just as impossible bro change. Now I know tallness is presumed to be a positive characteristic still it's hard if the guy of you life , think he don't feel like dating a girl taller than himself, unfortunately it happens for a lot of girls too.

[ChrisWardJr]

Definitely does become difficult for people to navigate those experiences but there's always a way.

Building our emotional intelligence helps us with how we respond to people and situations that may be uncomfortable

[DiscomfortZone]

Well that depends. Should we apologize for liking tall/chubby girls? The answer is no, what we should do is beat the shit out of anyone who's got a problem with our choices and is stupid enough to make something of it.

[Dchrls78104]

No, why should you? I like tall, slim girls and as a grown man I owe no one any explanation as to why. Similarly, you're a grown woman and you don't have to explain your preferences to anyone.

[Petra150]

Your my kind of rock star I'm the giant 204 cm tall and my hobbit is 181 cm tall , and his height never been a problem to me, but I'd akway been afraid men found me too tall. My fiancee love me tallo noticed first time I'd met him he'd never asked my height or were intimidated at all by my height, and I'd even wear my highest heels too , so he looked right into my boobs me towering him a lot.

[Fromdusktilldawn]

Wow that is discriminating. If a girl feels ashamed of dating me because I'm shorter I would never want to see her again. And when she has friends who pick on her because of that she should leave these toxic "friends" behind

[ioogu]

Why there should be shame or explanations? Is it a law that a guy should always be taller? Says who? Does dating need a permission or approval from the others?

[Aakash_Hangargi]

It's only because it's tougher to pick up a women in your arms who is taller than you😉 and everything BS don't worry carry on this is too silly people will be judgmental always so don't worry have beautiful life and 6 ft is also more than average good height

[Aakash_Hangargi]

How tall are you by the way

[Petra150]

What do you think about my relationship , my fiancee is avarage to tallish about 181 cm tall 17 years older than me, I'm a passionate Volleyball player and ekstremly tall 204 cm tall !!! We have two girls and have been living together for soon 7-8 years , and should marrie after this Corona. We face many comments still , well not that many after we moved to Hamburg. Most fund my fiancee too short, he's 181 cm I don't think that's short at all, it hurt me he doesn't give a duck. He love me wearing high heels too, doing that I hit 215 cm or more. I love being tall and love him living me, and he really loves me for what I am. I'd never cared about a guy being too short, but I care about guy finding me too tall. my hobbit is mad about me being tall , he adore me and adore tall girls in general, so he don't just pretent he like taller women. I know because he'd been living with two other girls very tall, perhaps not as fucking tall as me but very tall. And I can tell as he didn't make a big deal about , when I stood up and we danced first time, he didn't ask my height at all, first time we talked about height were because I'd asked him, I needed he's size as I would by him a new pair of pants.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

My hobbit is mad what does that mean?

[Aakash_Hangargi]

You say 17 years different how old were you when you fell k. Love with him

[Petra150]

I'm so fucking tall most think I lai , until I stand up , and no to mention when I wear heels , witch I do more often than good are as my gigantic feet hurt sometimes , I take size 47-48 hand made for a fortune , my fiancee don't reach my shoulder when I'm just in my bare feet. Usually girls don't tower 204 cm do they

[Petra150]

He live that I'm tall

[Petra150]

Excuse he love me being tall thaty what I meant

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Ok, you are not the only one with tall height and Guys with short height couples people say judge you shouldn't care, he doesn't care why are you so stressed? Chill as I see it's a win win for him when he hugs you he will hit your boobs what a better feeling than that 😂😂
And more to grab of you 😉 so stop overthinking and enjoy

[Petra150]

31-32 years and he were 48-49

[Petra150]

Oh I love even more every day and I'd never felt bad about the height of a guy, well must admit I'm not so attracted to taller guys

[Aakash_Hangargi]

It's okay Why are you taking other people's insecurities you do what you feel like doin

[1CentWorth]

NOPE! You'll make the taller guys jealous of your guy, though. And your guy will love that. hahaha

[Interstate]

A person's preference is just that. If that is what they like, then so be it.

[Anonymous]

I'm short. I once went out with a guy shorter than me , about one inch shorter. He use to make rude comments to me about me being tall...
Anyway. I've always liked having taller men. Even before the mean little guy I dated.

[Numbnuts89]

nope

women shouldn't ONLY date tall men. That would be wrong

[Laozi]

It's your relationship. So don't let anyone to tell you what you should do and don't.

[AdithyaR]

You can date whoever you want and you don't need to expalin yourself to people. Don't care about what people say.

[sluttyboy2000]

No.. why should you feel ashamed for what you like?

I love tall girls and couldn't care less what anyone thinks.

[Liam_Hayden]

You shouldn't have to explain your adult relationships to anyone whom you do not want to.

[blondfrog]

Because that is how most women think. i guess you are the exception to the rule and if you told me in real life I'd take your word for it.

[slicwhenwet]

You do not have to explain to anyone who you find attractive. Only choose what works for you. What others say about this doesn't have to have power over you. 😊

[ThatGuy133]

No, it's no one's business. They aren't dating them.

[Curiousgirl122101]

No! Short guys need love too!

[simplelikeme]

Absolutely not, don't worry about what everybody else thinks. Do what makes you happy not other people :-)

[zagor]

No. It sounds like you are being needlessly self-conscious.

[DDmggrl]

Of course not everyone has a right to their romantic type as long as it's legal

[_fabi000_]

Not at all. Everyone have preferences and it's not weird to date short men. Have a good day

[Anonymous]

A guys height shouldn’t be a factor since its something he can not change.
Shallow people who believe it makes his less worthy of love are garbage and their opinion doesn't matter.

[hwvzhssb]

I don't have to feel ashamed or explain any other Moron that I love a shorter girl.
than why have you feel or cornered that way?

[Shellyworld]

You don’t need to tell anybody why you date shorter men. It’s your preference.

[OddBeMe]

No one has to explain anything about their preferences.

[Twalli]

She shouldn't need to explain. She needs to because people don't understand

[bamesjond0069]

Usually it seems its because they like to dominate the man if they specifically prefer a short man.

[DevylasArsaukas76]

who gives a fuck what society thinks, they don't know everything,

[alance99]

Its her choice and she doesn't need to give any explanations for it

[Razal]

It's a personal preference. She should neither feel ashamed nor should explain why she does that.

[Iamanintrovert]

It's strange because it's not usually followed. Personally I don't mind it.

[BigD9xxx]

Yes they should. Because they all want the tall sexy man with a huge cock like me.