How are there so many Single People, when there SO MANY single people? (Page 2)
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You have a great point, seems like people are very picky with unrealistic standards and are just staying single waiting for the right one. I’m always single for years at a time and I’m flexible with age range and race so it’s just bad luck and location
I think luck and location are pro snot list dominant
Probably seconded by Not taking yourself seriously or being realistic
I wish you luck 🍀🍀🍀
The other problem out there is there aren’t that many level headed women like you out there
Life seasons and compatibility. Is not the same to be "20 something" and to be working towards a goal that isn't related directly to having a partner or a family.
As well.. there might be people who understand that "period" yet are looking for someone whos' willing to make space for them (make space for love).
I'm not a robot I have feelings yet, in my case I've learned to accept each time has its rewards and while some people at early time find their "love" match and are working towards the dreams that isn't much the case for each person and that is ok as well.
I'd say location, self esteem and luck are the bigger factors. Most people who are attractive and nice are already paired up by age 22 and are incredibly quick to find another if that partner fails. For the rest of is it's about lack of choice based on location, a low self esteem from a bad history and being unlucky.
For me it doesn't seem to matter if being myself or adjusting my personality slightly to the person or environment. It doesn't matter my approach and it doesn't matter how confident I am. I am simply unlucky for some reason. Girls just don't like me. This gives me a low sense of self when it comes to deserving a companion.
I think its the result of telling people that its their fault for not being in a relationship. They fail once or twice and the internet loves to say "its your bad attitude" or "you're not entitled to a relationship maybe work on yourself first." But the thing is there's a million reasons as to why a relationship didn't work out. All the dickheads on the internet do is try and tell people they're wrong. So now you have people like me. I've been told I have a shitty attitude and negative mentality for so long that I eventually developed them. In fact I think I'd rather literally kill myself than be in a relationship with 99.8% of women, so congrats.
"we accept the love we think we deserve" - some people have very low self esteem or cynical towards the idea of dating.
Some people don't want to date due to trauma/not their priority in life/enjoying their single life/busy in the industrial world (their job)/are struggling socially/they don't want to and are happy.
The world has evolved to the point where you don't have to have courtship and (if couple decides) to have a child (biologically or not) to survive - mainly for industrial life style. Famine are more likely to try gain courtship (not always ethical ways...) to have companionship and children cause that's survival.
I don't know if there's more single people out there or more people in relationships.
You said famine. Was that a typo? Did you mean females?
@Jamie05rhs "A famine is a widespread scarcity of food, caused by several factors including war, inflation, crop failure, population imbalance, or government policies. This phenomenon is usually accompanied or followed by regional malnutrition, starvation, epidemic, and increased mortality. Wikipedia"
@Kinogo I know what a famine is. What would a famine be trying to gain courtship with? The Amazon rainforest?
@Jamie05rhs It would be asking why animals in the wild try to reproduce? I'm not an expert but u can search it up.
@Kinogo You're not making any sense at all.
@Jamie05rhs sorry. in short just saying that "Some people don't want to date due to trauma/not their priority in life/enjoying their single life/busy in the industrial world (their job)/are struggling socially/they don't want to and are happy." and that jobs opened a new priority in life for people other than courtship.
https://images.app.goo.gl/o1zspTSPt4nhSiaVA
Younger people are taught to go out there and "experiment" or "Try new things"
I think its a cultural shift. A lot of younger people dont know how to have a healthy relationship. But thats because their parents probably didn't set a good example and in my opinion its getting worse.
Even I am still figuring it out. But I think men and women need to respect each other more, so that they can be friends first. If you can be friends with a man or woman first, then you can develop romantic feelings later. I think thats the best way.
Well my reason has to do with the Atlantic ocean 😊
But in all seriousness. It takes a little more than being single to actually date someone. There are lots of things that need to click before people actually bother to put in the effort.
I think location is probably the list dominant obstacle.
Probably seconded by luck of meeting.
Third taking ones self seriously. Goes with effort.
Fourth Willingness to compromise
Timing I guess goes with luck
I don’t disagree 😊
It's due to the globalist UN agenda 2030 and feminist. Feminism aka communist Marxism has reached it's goal in the west to destroy children men and family and so went relationships for certain. Here in the US, the west, marriage cohabitation and dating are dead. Most men in here in the US the west have taken the red pill with a good majority either not admittedly or admittedly MGTOW. Me as of this August I'll be an official 34 year MGTOW Monk and I've met guys in the Manosphere that have been MGTOW Monk's longer than I have. It wasn't what I wanted out of life, it's just the irony in how the facts in life went.
Distance! I find a lot that I really connect with, but they are thousands of miles away, or married, and quite a few, lesbians, in a relationship!!
Yes. I think location is likely one of the dominating factors/ obstacles.
😊😊
But it doesn't have to be!
@Jamie05rhs do tell? How do you think distance, geographically isn't a problem? Please?
@JackSmy It's called moving. (Or maybe we've had this conversation before. Lol)
@Jamie05rhs It's tough for some, established where they are, and then moving across the world, just having some online love.
@JackSmy I understand. For me, though, I haven't been established anywhere yet. And I don't intend to anytime in the near future. I just want to remain flexible and go where the opportunities take me until I meet the one I'm meant to be with.
@Jamie05rhs
Haha it’s very cool you guys have had deep discussion before 😊😊
@VIVANT Yeah; me and Jack go way back. :)
@Jamie05rhs awesome!!
That makes me happy 😃
🙂👍
Because even though they're awesome in their own individual ways, they may not be compatible to the other awesome single person.
I can understand them not clicking with some or many But not at all.. theses difficult to accept.
But I don’t disagree 😊
they aslo gotta be at the same place at the same time XD
Thats when I connect them :) I connected Jen and Josh because they both talk in circles.. both hopeless romantics
I did that a few times too 😀 🙌
I would say its all of the above plus with most dating happening online its much harder since its window shopping online and if you can't look good in a picture then your fucked
Yes. It needs an all of the above option
Very good point. But it seems like if people take themselves more seriously they won’t simply window shop.
I don’t disagree 😊
Combination of bad attitude and lack of effort, I think. They're too picky to like someone who is just average and too lazy to improve themselves to be more than average. Combine those two together and you get a bunch of people who aren't good enough for each other.
People just need to be real. Imagine it's the last day on earth, you're going to die tomorrow and you want to spend time with someone great. Love. Be yourself, tell someone your fears and weakness and what makes you unique. No one has time for arrogance and games.
You gotta send em eachothers way 🤣 but so many single people have diff values/morals and so many are into hookup culture while others want something serious. We keep runnin into the opposite of what we want 🤦♀️ Aside from looks, #OppositesDoNotAttract
#oppisitesattract XD
@LEADFOOTboi #NoTheyDont
@DizzyDesii not in core values but otherwards opppisitewise... #yestheydo
Because a lot of people are not good at the "game" of dating. Having qualities is good but if you don't know how to sell yourself well and know how to get what you want from people then it's tough. And many people don't wanna settle for what they can have either.
Hey Viv 🤩This photo is magnificent.
The photo, the different shades of green, the red leaves on the left, the sky, the blue that appears through the branches, all of them are fascinating.
I hope this fascinating harmony in nature is reflected in single hearts.
Yes; it is beautiful!
For me, I’m single because I don’t know who is single and available and who is interested in me. I want to meet a handsome guy who meets my standards but I’m not sure who is actually single. And honestly, most men are never 100% single so you always feel like your in competition with other whatever other women that man is interested in. Or, if he is completely single sometimes they are still in love with their ex. If I met a man who was all about me, I wouldn’t want to be single anymore. But often that’s not the case
Got that damn right they still stuck on that little kid shit back on to their little ' ex '
Women want men to act like women but yet not be a woman. Confusing as fuck. They also have found that in a lax society in regards to sex they can get laid via a quite chat in the internment with someone that is hot but that person can actually do better so they actually wouldn’t marry her. But this spoils her view of potential mates and she is disappointed in them when she should actually be disappointed in herself.
The guys aren’t aggressive and play video games and do less at growing their career. They have forgotten about the outside forgot about chasing women and have settled in to a quite indoor life.
god this is the most pretentious question i've seen today there are single people because people are too picky or judgmental
On average girls aim for people way above their level
On average guys are turned down by people on their level
On average guys/girls are scared of being cheated on again and being heart broken.
Jfc
I didn't think the question was pretentious, but I do agree with all of your points.
This is the only answer we need lol.
"It is a question meant to stimulate discussion.. Of which it has.
You are entitled to your opinion of course, yet I don’t see how the word “Pretentious” fits in any way at all, with my question.
Neither the content nor the incentive nor the intention. It was a very earnest question. Inspired by some conversations I was having with lonely friends, whom I hold in high esteem.
Care to elaborate?
( I would write this to you directly but as you know you blocked me before I could respond.)
@ VIVANT"
@Jamie05rhs jesus dude how much simp bucks you need? you female leg humper? what the fuck do you want? do you want her to come in like "Yes jamie my beloved you have saved me from this opinion and went off to tell them they are allowed to say what they want but its okay to be wrong"
Simps are sad sad creatures