Is it a good idea to catfish my boyfriend? (Page 2)
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Typical high-school stupidity.. I wanna see if he is serious so i am going to deceive him..
Grow up. Dont lie to him. Dont play games with him. If thats your plan, break up with him so he can find someone better, because girls like you aren't worth anyone's attention.
Additionally if you have not met... Its not a real relationship to begin with.
Don't do it. You might hurt yourself. How can you be boyfriend/girlfriend with someone without ever meeting them?
I wouldn't.
If my boyfriend tried that shit with me I'd break up with him.
Don't go seeking answers to things you probably already know. If you feel within
he doesn't garnish your trust, to help with
the games and masquerading. End it.
> Haven't met in person yet
> "In love"
Ok
do not do it, you might find answers you do not want to find.
How are you sure that he isn’t catfishing you? Have you ever gone face to face contact online?
Catfishing is like looking at someone's phone without their permission or asking for all their passwords. Keep that in mind. Is he worth losing?
how can he love you if you never met, how can he be your boyfriend if you never met
That's what I would do. You don't want to waste your time on the wrong person. Besides, I don't think that I would believe somebody who says they loved me when they haven't even met me yet
You do realize that if you do this and if he ever finds out, he will end things with you, right? This is a complete violation of trust.
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You haven't even met; so you probably haven't had a discussion about exclusivity. So why do you expect him to be devoted only to you? Until you have the exclusive discussion you shouldn't test his loyalty.
Well I would strongly advise against it.
But if it works he could just say "well I guess I love you so much, I love you no matter who you're pretending to be".
You only chat over messenger, so calling him your "boyfriend" already is probably misguided.
Never do this... cat fishing is illegal. His not your real boyfriend if you haven’t met in person.
No because if you feel like you have to play mind games then what the hell is the point and what the hell is wrong with you?
This sounds like a shit test. No one wins if you do it.
NO. DON'T play mindgames. IF you did that to me, then you would be HISTORY.
Better to be direct, honest and communicate OPENLY your concerns!
No, you should be able to tell by evidence in your relationship. If not him have serious emotional attachment issues.
NOPE. A shit test will just show you are a childish female with no truth or self esteem and most guys will get rid of that shit.