also bring a friend, pepper spray, stun gun since this the first time you're meeting if turns out to me some old creep.
Thanks so much for the answer but it kinda made me paranoid 😭😭 he sent me his pics but now I can't help but think what if he's a fake , someone maybe who hates me set him up with me , should I tell him about this?
No. just ask him to do someone weird in a photo that no one else can do. Tell him to stand on one foot, sticking his tongue out, while holding something in his right hand etc. If he can't provide you a picture doing that or just doesn't want to... red alert.
What you’re looking for are spoon pics
@ChefPapiChulo I once asked a catfish for a spoon pic and he sent me one from the wide world web and I unmasked him. It was my family friend who has been madly in love with me for 10 years. 🙄
@Gisellecute aww do you like him or not?
I have no idea what she's even saying.
@BlueScorpio No I don’t! I’m happy with my boyfriend
@ChefPapiChulo Who tf are you? Irrelevant.
@ChefPapiChulo I think you got confused. She was responding to your spoon commit and just telling you about her experience i'm guessing.
@BlueScorpio Yes! I asked the person for a “spoon picture” and he sent me one from the internet.
@Gisellecute English must not be your first language.
@ChefPapiChulo Coming from “PapiChulo” 😂 You done cooking for people yet?
Ikr he tells me he loves too soon but I wonder what he wants from telling me this stupid lie , the funny thing is that I started to believe him 😞😞
Although that is a red flag it could be looked past.The primary concern I have is ironically what makes you think he's not catfishing you? You mentioned in a comment that the person that introduced you hates you, doesn't it make sense that this is a setup to upset you? Does he exist or is it just this person who hates you messing with you?I hope not but I really can't picture a scenario where you would do someone the favour of setting them up when you dislike them.
No I didn't say someone who hates me set me up , actually we came in contact by a girl who studies with me , he contacted me on messenger as he was in the same work team as me in a project. but just you know kinda have doubts if he came across someone who doesn't like me and they told him to play me. Im very confused , what would you do if it were you?
Thanks for the mho, I thought Id answered you already but must have just written it and not sent it.As for what I would do. I tend to compartmentalise things and deal with them one thing at a time. I would discuss with them what I was thinking and feeling, If he really means it when he say the L world then that discussion won't be a problem.
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I think I discovered something. Generally in order for someone to ask for passwords and spy on you or catfish, they have to actively decide it's worth losing you. So when they spy on you , then you know your value to them. Should be an instant breakup.
😂😂😂😂 I know right but the funny thing is that I started believing him
Honey, don't. Don't allow yourself those feelings until you can meet him in person and develop a more close relationship with him.
Additionally if you have not met... Its not a real relationship to begin with.
I couldn't have worded it better.
I agree with all of this (except the part in parentheses!!)
Ja genau richtig
One more thing how's that gonna help just ask to meet then you will see or video chat it's 2020 🤦🏻♂️
Lol I don't know you tell me 😂😂😂
Catfishing is acting like someone else. It's usually done by creeps that post pictures of hot models and claiming its them to get laid
Yeah, that's just lack trust if she does that.