Would you be okay with him Catfishing you? Or maybe her is, you don't even"really" know him... How can love someone you've never met... How can he? How do you call that "dating"... And if you can't communicate without games or tricks... That's a relationship that ain't going to last anyway... Need to learn to be upfront and ask the person you supposed to be dating... But if I may... Don't you think it'd be better to date someone you can have a real relationship with, verses internet relationship? Then you wouldn't have to be asking this question, you'd know first hand cuz you'd really know him... Love is more than words... Love is actions...
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wait.. he's your boyfriend and you haven't met yet? How do you know you're not getting catfished? You guys need to meet already face to face, that will change a lot and prove if your're compatible or not.
Wow how many red flags can you throw up?
"Never met yet" if you haven't met yet how have you got to that stage? You usually go on at least a few dates before the boyfriend/if thing.
"He tells me he loves me" same as above.
"Is it a good idea to catfish" no, never, the problem with shit tests is that when a guy passes it never actually makes you feel better.
"Set up by someone who hates me" What? Why would anyone do that kind of thing for someone they hate? I would wager that taking a picture and doing an image search on google would be enlightening.
If you do that you must be ready to accept that his trust in you might be irreparably broken if he finds out and that his trust in you isn't ever truly tested unless he finds out. As long as he doesn't know you did it, he trusts you based on his image of you, not who you actually are.
Are you willing to sacrifice his trust in you in order to find out if you can trust him?
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Try it, but if he's really serious he should break up with you afterwards.
I don't mean to sound nosy, but what made you decide to enter a relationship with him before even meeting him?
Anyway, I don't think catfishing anyone is a good idea.Depends on how long has it been since you two met. But a bad idea in my opinion.
Don't rush it from your side, the true relationship. If you feel like he's love bombing you too soon, then don't be in a relationship with and do it. A relationship is nothing without trust. Also, be prepared for the consequences if he learns about it.Not a good idea. If he passes and finds out it was you he may be hurt and upset. If you don't have trust whats the point of the relationship? I would not want to be with someone I can't trust and I wouldn't want to be with someone who can't trust me. If you have problems with trust, don't accuse without proof and don't set the relationship up for failure by setting up this mind game.
Woah woah woah... you haven't even met yet in person, and he is already saying "I love you"? This guy is moving faster than Joe Biden's mouth!!! He needs to slow it down.
Dont test him, I can say that I love someone, easy, but truly if you test that with someone better than you (sorry), they might move on from you and you just lost your match.
It's a dangerous thing to do, if they find out you setting up the catfish, that's not a good situation to be in anyway
Just dontLet me ask you this. How would you feel if he was testing you?
Second, if he was to somehow found out it was you, what would your defense be?
What if he were to stop talking to you if he found out. All these things are important to consider before you move aheadYes do it doubt I'd the foundation of relationship also send some of your friends to seduce him and see how loyal he is let one of your friends sleep with him and see how good he is in bed let's others do everything for you then you can trust him
Set him up with your friend then if he is doing good with her tell him the truth and he will come back to you and dump your friendIt's never a really a good idea guys normal feel betrayed by this. Tbf i wouldn't give a damn if a girl did this to me cause i am loyal and she wouldn't see me fall for it and i would probably never know it even happened.
What if he fails? Will you tell him it's you? If you feel the need to do this, it also proves you don't trust him. So maybe it would be wiser to just end it and move on.
sure.. i would test the relationship if you are worried...
see if he likes you for real or does he have other women he is interested in?
if you do, be ultra sexy and provocative to really see his resolve is real for you.The fact that you're not trust him will hurt him more than the actual catfishing. Also... Perhaps not call him boyfriend just yet if you haven't like met at least once, considering you doubt the status so much
Any form of deception is a poor basis for a relationship.
In this case, what do you expect?
You have chatted via messages, but never met.
That hardly initiates an exclusive relationship.
He would be a fool to turn down an eager woman until he has at least got as far as kissing you.
(FWIIW, I wouldn't consider going formally exclusive before having sex.)Someone who says they love you but hasn't even met you is either playing you or has no idea what love is.
You really aren't in a relationship with this person if you've not met in person, so I don't think it would be bad to test him... and it would probably be a pretty good idea.
Personally I think only a shitty person would.
If my girlfriend did it and I only suspected it, I would bump her immediately. Because it means that there is no trust. Without trust there is no relationship.I have done this so from personal experience I am going to tell you no. It's not a good idea. Either A ) He finds out you are catfishing him and leaves you or B ) You get hurt because you find out he isn't serious. But then again, if you are questioning his intentions than maybe you should. If he plays along with it than ditch his ass. Just be prepared to be hurt.
1. Why do you consider him your boyfriend if you have not met in oerson yet and on top of that only chat over messenger?
2. What if you do go throw with catfishing him and he starts asking you questions like:
Where did you find me?
What are you looking for?
3. What if he passes and finds out you were catfishing him?
4. What if he fails are you going to ghost him or tell him the truth that you catfished him?Hey I used to do that with my friends. I would have my friends try to pick her up at bars or where ever.
We called it, baiting for whores. If the girl goes with my buddy, we caught a whoreNo. One of the biggest parts of a relationship is trust, and if you can't trust him, I suggest you end the relationship and find someone you can trust. Either that or ask him, and take his words at face value.
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