Is 25 rejections in a row normal?

[DavidDong]

I can't say I'm the ugliest guy in the world, I have a sense of humour, I have friends and dress well for any occasion.
My personality is scarred by constant family troubles but I try to be open to all and not hide myself away.
And yet when I try to find some comfort, some live in my life. Rejections. Its wearing me down to none.

[Truthatanycost]

Stop wasting your time, energy and life force chasing women... chase your life purpose instead. At your age, if you focus on yourself, your potential, your health, fitness, mind, becoming who you are meant to be, and finding your place and purpose in life, then you will be much better off.

You are focusing on the wrong area and it will only drain you, and leave you with more cost, than benefit. Learn to seek that validation from within, what you accomplish and who you want to become, rather than fickle females.

[Gavilar1]

If your getting rejected when asking them out maybe you haven't built a solid foundation of communication and trust before asking them out

[DavidDong]

I dont enjoy a friend zone, I want to ask and then that's the start, I dont think that's selfish

[Gavilar1]

No one enjoys the freindzone, make it clear by flirting and possibly suggestive jokes for the mood. I get maybe a good week of talking before I ask

[Elsa143]

Being rejected is totally fine but asking 25 people is not normal. Just love yourself.

[DavidDong]

I do but I'm lonely, and this is number is over years

[Elsa143]

I am single but trust me it's better than being in a wrong relationship.

[gaygod_19]

Tbh most of the time it all comes down to how you choose to flirt with them.

[Shamalien]

women are generally pickier than men, just the way of things. What's your strategy? Shit I don't think I've even asked a woman on a date or anything 25 times in my life, honestly kudos to you for having the bravery to put yourself out there time and time again like that. At this rate, you'll definitely find one before too long.

[Shiome223]

I wouldn't say its normal, but you might just have some super bad luck. Or you are doing something wrong. Try to do some research on what works and what doesn't, and see if you can improve a bit. Good luck :)

[Kaneki05]

Probably trying to hard? Guys can come off way to strong sometimes i think i do myself tbh. Gotta take it slow but i cannot really speak currently but normally i try even tho i crush fast.

[bodukem]

Maybe you are trying to get the wrong kinds of women or the way you ask them isn't right 🤷‍♂️ unfortunately there are far too many variables to properly answer this

[Liam_Hayden]

Cold pickup attempt? I don't think I've had that many in a row, but I know I've had more than 15 so yeah, that can happen.

Women you know and have some connection with? Yeah, that seems like a lot in a row.

[Reaperbot666]

girls can sense your loneliness and/or desperation. instead of trying to flirt with them. just chat to them casually.

[Avicenna]

More normal than lots of people realize. Make some adjustments or try something different. Experiment.

[drearyknight187]

That's bad luck man. I hope you can find someone soon.

[eschneider]

Concentrate on yourself, your job, success in life. Surround yourself with buddies and activities.
In ten years or less, you will be happy to be alone and no baggage.

[Stevecs24]

How are you approaching girls? Maybe your coming on too strong, or the opposite?

[DavidDong]

I just say hey want to hang out sometime, I know a nice cafe or something.
I guess it's just a weak approach

[Stevecs24]

Are these girls you know on some level? If you are just randomly walking over to girls and asking them out before any prior conversations, I can see why that may not be working. You should first have some casual conversations and build some familiarity.

[msc545]

Women, particularly American women, will do this to many men.

[TeddyGotT]

No but that certainly could mean that your type isn't going to work out for you

[In_Trance]

I mean... at some point you need to listen to your coach and make a change to the game plan.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Rejection of what exactly?

[DavidDong]

Asking a girl out

[Aakash_Hangargi]

So the pointers to you.

1. You should define your value what type of person you are be it online or offline why would someone be interested in you.

2. What's the purpose of your chat.

3. intentions are very important bc gals will judging you when you chat even though what you Seek is just friendship.

4. They will be doubtful, not trusting it's because they have lot of options and also like hell lot of people sending unsolicited pics and they donot trust words anymore.

5. You need to break the ice like when you chat it should flow not be forced.

6. The topic should be interesting like you have to either explain the point the point more better than the her or expand what she said and if you don't agree with the point or have different view donot accept her point show what do you think in life this will come many times si be yourself.

7. Before one chats with you they will scan your profile so keep it clean.

8. Now a girl responding to you is like law of averages out of 10 at least 4 will reply and even you have to see what's the common factor that you both like and choose a topic.

9. Never show up as needy or thirsty, if she doesn't reply just say what you need to say and forget it untill you get back a response.

10. Don't get too attached just be casual don't get too involved in there life know that it should not be onsided

11. If they are not respecting you just shut it may be they will comeback if not next.

12. The one quality girls like is that they want you to be predictible so that they can gauze you, but sometimes you need to be mysterious like they should feel that they have more to discover of you it's very important.

13. Be clear that you have romantic interest in her if she says friend tell her no you want more but you need to build that friendship kinda thing first like acquitances so if anything more you have to be detail you can DM if you wish or seek more

[Samanthalythe]

No offence but 25 rejections in a row? Yikes.

[Shamalien]

you should be a fking therapist LOL come on girl that's not helpful

[Samanthalythe]

@Shamalien I know

[legalboxers]

you will be fine!!! (I had the same at your age)

[Anonymous]

Try the rope instead.

[DavidDong]

Funny

[Opinion Owner]

You're an insult to the very image of manhood, an epitome of failure.
Pathetic. Asked 25 women and got rejected?
I can't help but laugh how much of a failure you are.
Go join the incel forums now

[DavidDong]

The fact I still try and do other things in my life, going to university and that, making a business shows that I am more of man than you, anyday

[DavidDong]

You are an insult to being a man for being so inconsiderate, arrogance is not manly

[Opinion Owner]

No you're not. I am a blessed asexual. I don't have to chase women or sex because I don't need it.

And FYI i go to university and do the same things as you, if not better things

[DavidDong]

I am so very sure you do, you sad individual who kknows nothing of what I have achieved

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not sad though.

[StickStickity13]

depends on you..