He clearly can't handle his thoughts about your past right now. Part of him thinks you didn't change while the other part thinks you are not your past. He needs time to process these things and realize that unless he has evidence for the former, the second part of him is true.
You don't need to break up for this. He is taking a very immature way of dealing with his thoughts. My guess is that subconsciously seeing you beg and plead makes him feel like you really only love and want him and he wants that reassurance to ease his worries.
Thing is this cycle will never end. As soon as you two get back to normal all those thoughts he didn't know how to handle will surface because that begging and pleading ain't there to ease them. Then he will start a fight, break-up and come back again. The best thing you can do is let him leave for good so that he has the time to process the feelings he has.
It's not right to be judged like that for your past but I know that finding something distressing about someone's past can affect you, he just needs to handle it like an adult.
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Yeah he probably realised that he was wrong but hey you won't know for sure until you talk to him.
This is so toxic, and please don’t go back to him. Your past sound have no relevancy to your present, and for him to so shamelessly hold it against you is just wrong. How can you trust him with anything now that you’re seeing how he responds to your honesty? He’s destroyed the trust. I know breakups aren’t always as simple as just “being done”, but you should want more for yourself than allowing a guy like this to walk in and out of your life. It’s destructive as all hell.
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