I have been friends with my crush for a long time. I've known him since my first semester at college. He takes engineering, so I dont see him all the time. I am hot as hell and have lots of guys chasing after me. I have had sex too many times last year it got boring. The only guy I can't get is my crush. He always dates ugly girls. Like there is this one ugly Asian chick which he met in linear algebra (yes I stalked) that he is dating? I don't understand why. He is awesome and very handsome and deserves a hot girl, but only dates ugly ones. Why would he even date an Asian girl when we white girls are so much hotter? Why doesn't he realize that he deserves better, and that I want him?
I've flirt with him and touch him but he rejects all my advances? I dont know why ugly girls even think they have a chance with him. its disgusting tbh.
This is me This is her As you can tell, she isn't a match for an average white girl, let alone a looker like me. The whole idea that he's giving her more attention than me is so frustrating and anxiety-inducing. I want him to know that he should go for me instead. Is he just shy to talk to much prettier girls so he has to settle for trash-looking ones?
Oh okay. I ger your point and fortunately I know the answer. Prepare yourself for this: 1st. Very attractive men dont use to know how handsome they are, so they dont have this insecurity. That translates to: “he does not have any need to compensate a physical insecurity with a pretty girl” 2nd men can be superficial, and low self esteem, but when they are more mature, and look for a relationship, they don’t care if you are the hottest, they prefer a settled girl, and personality compatibility more than a hot girl that will make them “look good”. I won't judge you because I was as superficial as you are. But good men don’t care about superficial girls you know? Because when we as girls, put much attention to physical matters, we become easy to get, and empty head, also we can be too needy and chase after an unavailable men. She might not seem very attractive in your eyes, but she migh be a high value woman in his eyes, and that has nothing to do with physical appearance. It is about how much self respect you project, it depends on how you do the chasing, I mean, do you try to get his attention, or you allow him to work for yours? Because if you are the one who tries to get his attention, then it is too cheap for him and will never value you, good men prefer woman that allow them to chase them, that the provocative sexy girl. You are a hot chick, but a good men knows he deserves more than that, he deserves a woman that knows her worth even around more physically attractive girls. She might never feel intimidated by your beauty, and he must be a high value man.
Really? The one who looks trashier is you, that's why he is not interested. You don't match his personality and your attitude is off-putting. And you should not be taking other photos without their permission. That is illegal on top of that. She is very much pretty and looks way better. You better stop before he goes out of character and gets rid of you himself. You are no friend. You're a thorn to his life. Practically everybody here said the same thing. Plus your whoring around. You think that is attractive to him? NO! He knows you want him, but he doesn't want you. Plain and simple. He is not that type of guy. He is smart to avoid people like you.
You want him so bad you have to throw around guys for sex, but meanwhile, he is looking for relationships, while you just want to screw. I have no doubt you will run threw him to like ink to paper, if not control, and abuse him.
To be honest I didn't read the question all the way through because I seen pictures lol Mm Mm top girl is hot. Mm Mm the bottom girl is hot. Ok so let me read the whole question let me find out who is who as I'm reading it I get a flash of something I believe in and that no one is ugly in this world. On the out side. Ugly only comes from the in side and then ,, and anytime you have to put someone down to make yourself look better. [ meaning trying to talk someone in to something ] [meaning no confidence ]
I know why he's doing what he's doing. He's making the right choice Look I'm sure this isn't the first time this has happen and won't be the last but the way I see it is you need to change on the way you think because first of all your going to be and get used a lot,,, i mean you had me at why,,,, and you lost me when you called your self and another girl ugly. See even you know that's it's not cool to label anyone I kinda look at this question as it happened. You thought about it and you seen the reason why it happen that way and that's why u called yourself ugly to
Maybe she has a better personality, is less judgmental and has more in common with him than you do. Maybe she does not sleep around. You are immature if you think looks are everything. Beauty fades but the heart and brain remain. Guys cannot stand arrogant females, unless they just want a casual fling. The reason you do not stand a chance is your attitude and he probably senses it. You say he deserves a hot girl. Well, BOTH of you girls are very good looking, but maybe he feels he deserves women with more emphasis on their brains, heart and mutual attraction. Sorry if I sound harsh, but you need a wake up call.
Sorry to hear you guys broke up. Maybe there was other stuff going on he and you weren't getting along at too? Or maybe he just felt it wasn't the right relationship for you both to be in with each other even though there may be a great person out there for each of you that's better than you guys being with each other.
I'm not sure which one you are either, but personally I do find the Asian girl to be cuter (but I just have a thing for Asians in general, they're kind of like forbidden fruit in my mind because I'm from a town of white racists, hicks, bar drifters, and country bumpkins and there was only like 1-2 Asians in our town until I got to university in a different city and suddenly there were tons. May not have anything to do with you so don't worry. You'll find someone who makes you extremely wet and happy very soon. Keep your head up and know your worth.
maybe cos he is picking up on that attitude you have towards others and the resentment or it could just simply be that he's actually attracted to her... just cos you exist doesn't mean you have to slate others, tbh with the arrogance and attitude i'm picking up from your post, I would not want to date someone like you either tbh
and tbf the 2nd girl isn't ugly at all but your behaviour towards her and your privileged sense of being better and deserve more is
Sometimes personality wins out over looks. Who would you want to grow old with? A girl who has the personality to charm wallpaper off the wall or someone who may look like a million but who thinks she is 10 million?
You thinking you are prettier than other girls tells me you have an atrocious personality. And that's one hell of a reason to dump you for someone else.
Let me put it like this. A Ferrari is a beautiful car. It's gorgeous. It's also expensive as hell. Since it is a sports car requires a lot of maintenance and can't be driven everywhere. A Toyota SUV is cheaper, uglier, nothing to be showing off... But it's more comfortable, more useful and, in the end, more pleasurable to ride. Men wish the Ferrari, we might love it for a weekend if we can drive it, but in the end, we stay with the Toyota
a lot of guys are rude here, understandeably, but i won't be. I'm indian and a v. pretty white european girl just like you in my friendship circle was sleeping around even stripping and i knew all about that, i still treated her kindly. After a year she crushed on me because i was the one she couldnt get. She probably felt what you're feeling. I rejected her advances more than once. Just like you she thought she's better and that looks mean everything.. well they dont, he finds her more attractive, but you just revealed yourself not to be.
"I don't know why ugly girls even think they have a chance with him"
Well, he's dating an 'uglier' girl, according to you and 'always does', so they obviously do have a chance with it, you said it yourself.
'Us white girls are so much hotter'
Yeah, we can all agree with that and are too stupid to accept the fact that people have their own tastes (!)
Maybe your racist attitude and the fact that you've had sex 'too many times, it got boring', is the reason why he doesn't want you.
Sounds like an older, troll question I've seen before on here, comparing a white girl to an Asian girl, only different girls and a slightly different scenario.
I'm not sure if I'm supposed to take this seriously but beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Neither one of you is unattractive. Maybe she has a great personality. Since you guys dont really see each other often he can't really get to know you, and they could be in the same class so it's easier for them to get to know each other. He could also see you as easy since you like to touch and flirt with him. He probably knows that you've had sex with a lot of guys and some guys find that unattractive. You're also racist which is beyond unattractive. There are a lot of possible reasons why he would pick you over her. You need to move on.
Wow.. just wow. This post is very mean I won’t lie to you. Ask yourself what she has that you don’t, if you feel it’s not the looks.. people are not only that, we’ve got personalities, interests and there’s a bunch of other things that can influence how one feels towards another individual. He most definitely sees something in her, even if you think you’re superior to her in any way, and from what I’ve read I’m just gonna take a wild guess and say it’s her personality. And she’s really not ugly.. I’ll have to give you all the credit for your confidence though..
Did you consider maybe he's not into cumbumps? (No offense) But who knows if he's a friend and has been for a while then he knows you're getting too much sex that's a turn off for many guys. Raised the potential for STDs not to mention performance anxiety from having to outperform an army of dudes. And the fact that he might thing you're only into sex for the sport of it and prefers a stable relationship.
Don't get me wrong you're more my type than that other girl but not all people think alike.
There's more to a relationship than just looks Hon'. And your clearly just after him because he ain't after you like the other guys. He must be happy with his girlfriend so leave him alone. He clearly isn't interested.
Also, that is very racist. You can have your opinions just don't be pushing them like this.
And you're clearly jealous. Get a life and stop looking for a man. Or a one night stand. You aren't crushing on him fully, just his body. And honestly that relationship wouldn't stand.
I admire your confidence in yourself but it all comes down to personality and type. This guy most likely isn't attracted to your personality because that's what matters most, another reason is that you aren't his type. I would advise you to check on your personality because you are acting like such the stereotypical "nice girl". If you want the guy, don't insult his current girl. That's stooping low. When I like someone's personality, they automatically become much more attractive to me, when I dislike someone's personality, I find it impossible to find them attractive. Doesn't matter if you think you're hot. You gotta act pretty to be pretty.
Honestly? If you're making a post such as this it shows you're relatively shallow, thinking looks matter over personality and other such traits. She likely has a good personality, some wise words that are rather common that you should take to heart, "The beauty of a rose shall always wither with time". So not only are you shallow in this instance, you also seem to have a rotten personality. Which is shown by you trying to steal another's lover.
You have one of the ugliest personality I have ever seen and your crush is probably smart enough to see that. There are so many awful things about everything you said that really make you not even close to girlfriend material. No wonder you had a lot of sex because your body is probably the only redeeming quality you seem to have...
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You’re both pretty, he probably just likes the other girl more. I dunno, maybe their personalities are more compatible. That’s not a knock on you or anything, just let him date who he wants and find someone else. I’m sure there are plenty of guys who would love to date you.
Probably cause: You're a ho You have nothing to offer except your body Your ego is obnoxious You're superficial and you don't seem very bright Plus you keep asking the same question
It is not about being hotter. You slept with guys like it is no big deal. Personally I would like you more if you didn't sleep around. I like white girls same as Asian girls may be even more but I don't think you get it right. For men a women sleeping around with others is more threatening and for women man talking to other women is more jealousy provoking. Main thing I can say is you are are but your actions are stupid. No hate intended but yiu brought this upon yourself. Who makes faces like a child?
She on the other hand gives a more conservative feel. A marriage material. She is not trash. See that is your problem. You think any girl who gets something you want is a trash.
For your own good I beg you to please stop this downgrading others. You will be miserable if you get uncomfortable with other girls
Oh this is rich. I was ready to come in here talking about how she probably sucks his dick good. But looking at the details and the pics she is hotter than you. You've definitely got the uglier exterior to go with your ugly interior 😂
Yeah I'm not even saying the 1st girl is actually ugly, just that the 2nd girl is hotter to me. First girl just looks like a random Instagram girl that you see a dime a dozen of
90% sure this is just someone trolling though. Or at least I hope it is
You are completely delusional, self conceit, arrogant and egotistical, you need to look in the mirror and fucking Grow Up. Thankfully this guy obviously sees right through you for what you really are, and hopefully will never come within a fucking barge pole length of you.
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