Do women secretly check up on their exes years after a breakup?

[Anonymous]

Like let’s say the girl left from a short but serious relationship. Years later do they check up on him.

To see what’s he up to.

Yes they do

No they don’t

[Finchie40]

Most of them do , mainly because she is curious about what he has been up to or if he is with someone else or if he is single , girls’ usually hold on to their exes more than guys tend to , because she had an emotional connection with them , that she won’t ever forget , even if he was a complete asshole toward her , she will still hold on to the good memories they had together. If she is in a new relationship and she is still checking up on her ex , that sadly can be a red flag because it can mean she isn’t over her ex , and unsure about her relationship with her new partner. Some of my exes from my past have checked up on me even when she was already in a new relationship and reached out to me on social media , asking how I have been and what I been up to , without her partner knowing she was doing so , and some of them wanted to see me again behind her partners’ back , girls’ can be selfish that way , and guys’ can as well , but girls’ tend to do it way more than guys’ do because she holds onto the emotional connection she had with him and overlooks all the bad that caused them to break up in the first place , where guys’ don’t really give a shit about the emotional connection he had with her, especially if she broke his heart by betraying him by cheating on him etc.. Guys’ tend to move on faster than girls’ tend to when shit like that happens

[LC75LC71]

Women are constantly scanning and planning. The quote "Let's just be friends" is really I got you in my back pocket just in case..

[MissSunshine2]

Well, I don't. I heard through someone else that one of my exes, who wanted to use me as his mistress that I declined and blocked, is now engaged to the girlfriend that he tried to cheat on with me. He constantly writes posts about his love for her, with frequent photos. I realised then that those who talk the most have the biggest issues with their lives.

[DishLady]

No. He did enough damage that I don't want to talk to him ever again. That tomb is sealed.

I will wish happy bday or happy father's day to one or two guys who had tried to be in my life, but that's it. I don't go around stalking their posts.

[InStrictConfidence]

I guess many do.

Do men do?


I don't. I closed the chapter and look forward.

If you look back you cannot walk straight forward.

[confident666]

Yeah, sometimes I stalk their socials

[Nikki1989]

Nope