WhY do I only attract incels and creeps?

[nelly83]

I seem to only attract guys that are unfit for dating: fat guys, weirdos, creeps, old men. 90% of the time, it is never anyone normal looking. I would say I'm an ordinary looking girl , sorta cute, chubby.

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It's public places

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Often the normal looking guys look at Me or check me out without saying anything. Twice, they start a small convo with me. But it rarely ever happens

It's always the creeps or old guys who directly flirt with Me or ask for my number.

[Jamie1865]

Ok, so your 25, I'm 40. I'm currently an 'incel' (I had to look that up!) and I've put on weight since COVID lockdown - the last two are NOT my fault, and I'm looking forward to busting my arse in the gym and getting muscle tone back. In other words, I'm the guy you're trying to avoid - minus 'weird' - I hope! The reason I answered, is because I have the same issue - but have 15 years on you, so I'm going to be following this thread!
Post a selfie - guys idea of cute doesn't always translate to what women think? And I have no idea where you live - nor am I asking and no, I'm not asking for bikini's, bra or any other type of selfie other than a face. Old? Yes - compared to you. Perv? Yes, in a healthy 'I love sex' way. Creepy? If I got off on looking at peoples faces, I'd be looking out the window, not at a screen!

[nelly83]

A perv is a sexual predator or someone who is abnormally obessesed wit sex. Maybe you're not an incel but most around our age aren't looking to marry 40 yr olds

[Jamie1865]

Who talked about getting married? Fuck no. I've been divorced once. Rod Stewart once said 'Next time, instead of getting married, I'm going to find someone I don't like, and buy them a house'.
Looking at your answers to the questions on the thread, there seems to be an inverse correlation between your sense of humour and your arrogance. I think we worked out why you're single. And no, 'chubby' is cute when it's a BIT of 'puppy fat' at 18/19 - you're 25, overweight, rude arrogant and a bit of a cunt. And I'm not sure I should have used the words 'bit of'. I can't understand why you're attracting weirdos and perverts... One of life's little mysteries... (that's sarcasm, in case you're stupid as well...)

[nelly83]

Being 25 and slightly overweight still doesn't mean I would want to marry a 40 yr old. And there are also tons of men who like thicker women.

[nelly83]

It's funny how old guys think 40 is the new 25. It isn't. 60 isn't the new 30 either

[Jamie1865]

You KEEP banging on about getting married? NO ONE (other than you) has mentioned it. No one is interested in it, that's why we're on here!! Are you a 'tard or something? If you are representative of 25 year olds, I'm fucking GLAD I'm 40, because you REALLY do seem to think you know everything, that everyone loves people who are 'thicc' (newsflash - us 'old' folks call it 'lazy/flabby/fat') because you spend the day sitting on your fat arse, you need to come up with a way to try to make it 'fashionable', so in your own little deluded head, you're telling yourself that 'all guys like it' then in the same breath saying 'Why can't' I get a boyfriend...' BECAUSE YOU'RE A FUCKING FAT, LAZY, ARROGANT CUNT! Next question...

[nelly83]

DuDE you need to accept the faCT that age does matter. Stick to women closer to your own age

[Jamie1865]

I started my answer saying 'age matters' and stating my age, you absolute HOVIS! I don't know if this is a parody account or you really can be as stupid as you sound, and still be able to breath? IDGAF about me being 'old' - Leo Di Caprio is 6 years older than me and has fucked his way through the entire Victorias Secret catalogue - it's not age that has anything to do with it, it's looks and cash (or the brains to know that you one or the other or both) I'd consider dating a 25 year old, if she was mature, but not a fat, rude childish one with a personality disorder. I'm gonna take a leap and say you're on anti depressants? I think you need to up your dose...

[nelly83]

I really don't know why old people always get so offended when young folks don't want them. What do you really expect? 25 yr olds to be marring 60 yr olds?

[Jamie1865]

Who's 60? I'm 40? The only thing round here that's 60 is the number of lbs heaver than me that your are. And yes, they do date older guys you ignorant bint - lots of them. Been to SE Asia? Been to Poland or Ukraine? What about France? Germany? Italy? How many places have you visited overseas to see the different cultures and 'dating games'? Or can you only go to wherever a USAF C5 Galaxy is flying to, to haul your fat arse there? :D Have you ever been out of your country?

[Astarlessnightsky]

"Unfit for dating", its more like you don't want to date them based on their outer appaerance, which is fine,

but if you constantly attract people you are not interested in, maybe you need to reflect on your behaviours and try to figure out why they are approaching you.

Because usually these types (based on how you described them) of people are shy and introverted and won't approach a girl in a thousand years.

[Anonymous]

You're leaving some bits out of your post. When such archetypes are encountered in public, do they make any efforts in advancing towards you? Are they just catching quick glances at you as you walk by? If it's the latter, then you're really worrying for nothing. If you don't want to date guys with the prescribed adjectives above, then what are you really worried about? Just don't date them. Simple. Move on. Next issue.

[slatyb]

Everyone attracts those guys. Your chubbiness May give them an idea that you would be more accepting. Just say no.

[nelly83]

I doubt it's the chubbiness. Many guys like thicker girls.

[Jamie1865]

Bullshit. How many Hollywood female superstars are fat or 'Thicc'? Answer? None. There's a reason for that, because they need to be attractive to as many men as possible to sustain their Careers. 25yo in fashion is considered the end of 'shelf life' - unless you are STUNNINGLY good looking, like Rosie Huntingdon Whitely, Kate Moss, Miranda Kerr, Candace Swanpool, Kia Gerber, Cindy Crawford, Odette Annable, Emma Roberts, Taisa Farmiga - are you spotting a pattern yet?

[nelly83]

@Jamie1865 so what? Models need to be 5’10” and underweight super skinny, no boobs or butt. No men ever finds them attractive. My ex wouldn’t want to bang them either. He said having sex with a skinny girl was like fucking a wall.

I am currently having an friends with benefits too with a guy who loves my body. You mad , bro? Haha

[Anonymous]

Why do i alway got to be the one to tell them there's no Easter Bunny?

In the words of Daniel Tosh, " My advice to you, have a twinkie, get real good at math, because life is going to be hard".

[Anonymous]

Maybe look like one of them?
I attract sluts like a piece of meat attracts flies and some people describe me as male slut, despite I'm loyal if I'm in relationship.
Imagination of others about you gives many hints about yourself.

[nelly83]

No I in no way look like a Creep

[Jamie1865]

Well it's hard to look like a creep with your face in the butter dish...

[nelly83]

@Jamie1865 I actually have a very cute face. Unlike your wrinkled old one , in need of a face lift.

[Jamie1865]

POST IT THEN!!! If you have a cute face, you have nothing to worry about. Why don't you have the balls to post your profile picture on here? READ EVERYONE ELSES COMMENTS!!! NO ONE LIKE YOU and we ALL think you're fat - just accept it! Show me that I need a face lift by posting a pic of this 'cute' face - and no catfishing for a skinny chick, we know you have to be rolled in flour to for drunk guys to find the wet bit :D :D :D
This is the most fun I've had on this site.

[nelly83]

@Jamie1865 it was actually posted on here a couple of times in this website. And I have received many glowing reviews. But I don’t know what an angry maniac hater like you would do with my photos.

[Abel9855]

Well where do these guys get to talk with you? Maybe the social media or place is not the right one

[Abel9855]

Well you should go to bars and places where such guys don't go

[nelly83]

Bars aRe only good for one night stands usually

[Abel9855]

We don't go to the same bars then lmao

[Jamie1865]

She needs to go to bars where the dudes are liquored up so the beer googles are on.
We've all done it, gone to bed with a fucking stunner and woken up next to a fat minger (sorry 'thicc' minger). It's called the ugly bus. You're sparko in bed, steaming drunk and and you think you just fucked a supermodel. About 4am, an electric/hybrid buss pulls up quietly outside your home and an absolute fucking swamp donkey gets off, and changes places with the hot chic you went to bed with, so you wake up with someone who looks like Grendel's mother and smells like an anchovies cunt.

[wouterv]

People with the same intrests and stuff atracced each other

[Anonymous]

That's the kind of man who's in your league, but with that attitude, I'd say they're too good for you.

[Anonymous]

“Chubby” is just a nice way of saying fat.
your standards are to high.

[nelly83]

Some guys like thicker women. I've beenever online dating for 3 years and have never met a guy who had a problem with my weight. You guys need to drop your stereotypical ideals.

[Opinion Owner]

yeah guys on dating sites are not known for being the most picky.

[nelly83]

I've done tons of fwbs too. None of them ever said they had a problem with thick girls. They actually told me they hate skinny women. You mad?

[Opinion Owner]

Hahaha 😂 no.
You enjoy those 🐖 fuckers.
I like attractive women.

[nelly83]

Attractive is subjective. If not, I'll still be a virgin. You mad bro?

[Opinion Owner]

You keep asking if I am mad as if your petty shaming tactics will change the truth of what I am saying.
It doesn’t.

[nelly83]

I'm living proof of what you're saying is NOT true

[nelly83]

My ex said fucking a skinny girl was the worst sexual experience he ever had. He said it was like fucking a wall

[Jamie1865]

That's just because you're an easy lay. They're not gonna fuck you and say 'You fat bitch'.
WHY would being fat all of a sudden become 'attractive' when for hundreds of years AND evolution makes men want to bone healthy looking females? You think it's just a marketing thing that calling it 'Thicc' has given it a different spin? Fat chicks are like really smelly turds. Something we all do now and again, but we sure as fuck don't boast about it.

[nelly83]

@Jamie1865 haha accusing me of being a fat bitch wouldn’t make me want to date an old man. There are many more folks out there who are willing to date thick girls rather than some old man , not too far from the grave. No. We aren’t looking for grandpas.
At least I’m not some divorced bitter old asshole who regrets his own life.

[nelly83]

@Jamie1865 and yes believe it or not, I’ve had men hit on me. I’ve had boyfriends who have dated and loved me. I’m not a virgin either. For you to say that I’m not wanted by men, is a lie , to make yourself feel better about being old.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder , it sounds too painful for you to handle it.

[Jamie1865]

Your body has already hit it's peak and is starting to break down. The biological clock is ticking, and you're weight is damaging the eggs in your ovaries. In 5 years, your chances of conceiving will have dropped by 40%. This is what your weight is going to do to your child:
How could obesity affect my baby?
Having a high BMI during pregnancy has been linked to an increased risk of various health problems for a baby, including:

Birth defects
Being significantly larger than average (fetal macrosomia)
Impaired growth
Childhood asthma
Childhood obesity
www.mayoclinic.org/.../art-20044409
And you're going to have tits like spaniels ears, stretchmarks everywhere and you won't be able to see your own pubes. And this is going to happen in the next 10 years.
I've already paid off my mortgage own my car outright and can holiday when and where I like
"Chasing women will always cost you money, chasing money will never cost you women"
I don't care if they're with me for my money or my car or my house, but I get to fuck model hot chicks, not fat slags and I never have to worry about cellulite, saggy tits, kids - just which one I want to fuck next, because money buys me that power. What do you have? Fat?

[nelly83]

@Jamie1865 I am not obese and no, being a few pounds overweight is not gonna cause a miscarriage. At least I’m better than you, I can still manage to live long enough to raise my child.
You will be dead before your kid is grown up. You won’t be alive working to pay off your child’s college either. So my child is still better off than yours.

I can lose the weight , you cannot reduce your age.

[nelly83]

@Jamie1865 don’t talk about obesity if you’re an old man trying to get a girl pregnant with some fucked up old man sperm. Old man have some defective ass sperm which can cause kids to be born retarded

[Jamie1865]

'You'll be dead before your kid grows up...' Errm... Firstly you assumed that I wanted to get married (newsflash - once bitten, twice shy) and secondly you assume I WANT kids? I don't want the woman I'm sexually attracted to to have something the size of a bowling ball tear it's way through her pelvis and ruin her body, thanks. I've got nieces and nephews to leave my money to, and I'm happy with that. You need to read some philosophy, specifically that "Assumptions are the mother of all fuck ups". You can lose weight, but have you been to the doctors for a health check to find out your heart age? You just said "I'm a few lbs overweight" Errr... so you are fat, and you've already said you don't go to the gym, so your heart is already clogging up, and you use trans-fats and hydrogenated oils in your country, where as we live 8 years longer than you do (that's half you 'advantage' gone in one go!) so your arteries are full of fat, you don't exercise, you're going to put on an (average) weight of 4 stone 70ish lbs) when you get married to have a kid (assuming it's still possible) and then you'll be COVERED in stretchmarks and have saggy tits - then hit the menopause -BEFORE your kids gone to collage? And that's assuming your kid can survive having a cunt like you for a mother?
Wow. Wish I were you...

[nelly83]

@Jamie1865 dude I have a whole bright future ahead of me. I’m not no bitter old man who regrets about ever getting married, someone who is half way to the grave, someone whose sex performance in Will break down into incompetence within a few years down the road.

We young women are looking for a handsome young man to build a family with and spend the rest of our lives with. Someone who actually wants to build a family and get married. Not some bitter piece of shit who hates women cus he’s divorced

[Maximus75]

Well you're in for a lot of disappointment in your life. You're thick as shit, you're spelling and grammar are atrocious, you can barely string a sentence together, you'll hit the menopause AT THE LATEST at 50, so your life is halfway over, and your collagen and evidently fuck ugly, as you won't show your profile picture. You've got 8 years to find someone, get married and ruin your cunt by having a baby (unless you have twins, that's all you're gonna get - like I said, stretchmarks, saggy tits and cellulite, your husband's gonna need to buy my 'old man sperm' cuz he won't be able to get it up, or touch the sides of your wizards sleeve) :D You came on here for advice on how to find them - you can't work out that guys dont wanna bang fat chicks and be seen with them in public. I came on here for fun :D The only thing that's 'bright' about your future will be the fire in the crematorium when all that lard goes up in smoke. And if I ever do need blue pills for my cock, they make them. Where are the pills that make you good looking, slim and get rid of excess skin and saggy tits? If you're not already, you should start sleeping wearing a bra and compression stockings. They'll help your clogged arteries and the blocked valves in your heart get some of the oil round your system. The bra's just there to stop the coroner barfing on your saggy maggies when they try to get the crane under your fat arse and out onto the low loader truck. Pizza again tonight?

[Maximus75]

Newsflash: We don't, but we'll tell you anything if it gets your panties off.

[nelly83]

@Maximus75 I have no Problem with hitting menopause by 50. I take pride in my life unlike some bitter ugly old man who hates the fact that he’s 56 and no 22 yr old girl wants him. Then he calls all women shit cus he can’t get a 20 year old.

[Maximus75]

I've read the whole thread, he's 40, not 56! You started all that nonsense by saying 'Why do I only attract weirdos', said you were 'thick' or 'a few lbs overweight' etc and everything any guy on here has said, you've had an answer for everything and refuse to take any sort of criticism that the problem might be with u.

[Maximus75]

Guys will say anything to get in your pants and make sure they stay there as long as they want. "Of course I love it when you don't shave your legs/pussy/armpits babe, you're gorgeous' and 'You're not fat... you're just... thicc (fat) and I'd much rather shag you than one of those skinny ugly models with no boobs like Emily Ratajkowski... shit, no... I mean Kate Upton... shit no... I mean... Selena Gomez... dammit" There are guys out there that like fat chicks, but it's a very few and it's a fetish. We like tits on a stick, and anyone who tells you otherwise (including yourself) are trying to make you feel better or are deluded. I'm not saying your fat, OR ugly, I dunno what you look like, but I dunno why you were having a go at that dude, he never asked you out or anything then you said 25 year old's don't want to marry 40 year old's when he's been divorced? From all my mates, the LAST thing he's gonna want to do is get married and the last thing he's gonna want is to have kids, as women use that like a pension to get money out of men! He's got it made. Owns house, owns car so any work he does is pure profit (less bastard tax, but we all have to pay that!). The most offensive comment on here to you is the one from 'opinion owner' who says "yeah guys on dating sites are not known for being the most picky" in reply to your message about having been on dating sites for 3 years and no one has said no... Sounds like you've been used a lot by dudes that just wanted to get laid, and have just listened to what you wanted to hear. No point getting all offended when people give you their honest opinion when you ask for it - just get down the gym and then u can make sure that the 'thick' that is on you is toned, not fatty skin (which gets cellulite all over it) and is NOT nice to look at! You're young enough (just) that you might get away with it...

[nelly83]

@Maximus75 what makes you think a 25 yr old would go for a 40 yr old? 40 and 56 is the same thing. And no , you don't need to constantly ridicule fat people to make yourself feel better about being an old man. At least I can lose weight , age is something that can never be reduced

[nelly83]

@Maximus75 dude this motherfucker started harassing me first for being a chub girl. He couldn't take the fact that I wouldn't date someone as old as him. Now he's harassing me all over this page. Who wouldn't get enraged?