Should I give a girl a chance who had rejected me before for being overweight?

[Anonymous]

[OlderAndWiser]

She wasn't attracted to you because you were fat. That isn't a sign of a character flaw or moral weakness in her. You had a problem and, I assume, you corrected it. Are you still attracted to her? If you reject her now because of her past rejection of you, you "punish" her (probably not in a big way) and you deny yourself an opportunity. That doesn't sound like a good plan, unless you can't get past your hurt feelings from the past rejection.

[Asker]

I can't get over past feelings. No matter how hard i try to get over it, i can't get past that

[OlderAndWiser]

Then politely tell her that you are not interested. Reject her in the way that you think a person should be rejected and don't do it in a way that seeks to extract revenge

[SOPHIASMITH123]

No way... never

[In_Trance]

why would you?