Should I date the woman who rejected me, now she's attracted to me cause I weightlift?

[Samos-69]

This woman I know and liked was never really attracted to me and would always avoid me when i talked to her and just never had much time for me, that is until i have been weightlifting. I caught her gazing at my bicep and then she quickly looked away. Since then she's been really nice and taking much more interest in me.

[Summeroflove]

Maybe a date…. If you don’t think anything will materialize or you feel she’s after you for the wrong reasons. Let her go…

I mean honestly if you’ve directly made a move before. The balls in hee court but if it’s been a while you could try again.

It’s also possible you’re a backup…. She kept you in mind if nothing worked. So…. Be aware of that. Not saying she is. But.


Also…. Superficial attraction isn’t real attraction. Remember that.

Though, some people do chnage. They get to know someone better or attraction can come in. So. You never know.

[Zack-Bann]

Oh no my stake is too juicy and my lobster is too buttery….


It’s your body mate.
If she likes your biceps she’s admiring all the work you put in


There’s no need to take a higher ground here:
If you like her or are at least curious just go for it


If you’re not pleased with the experience you can just leave
No harm no foul


Life is uncomplicated if you allow it to be

[ShellyB]

Is it possible you are acting different toward her in other ways also for example that you are more confident? Anyway if she has never done anything openly rude toward you and if you like her, why not try? JMO!

[DishLady]

I don’t trust folks who are too obsessed with looks. Looks fade.

[MJVillarama]

If she wasn’t into you before and is only interested now because you lift, that’s kinda telling. Attraction changing is normal, but make sure she likes the whole you, not just the muscles. One thing I learned from Jared Lawrence podcast: don’t go where you weren’t wanted the first time, especially if nothing else changed but your looks.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't, but up to you man. You don't know her motivations. I have a rule. I can be had pretty easily with women. But once they reject, the burden is now on them if they want to date me. I don't GIVE second chances. She wants it? She going to have to earn it. And that doesn't just mean asking ME out. She may have to convince me.

[live2dance25]

It’s up to you. I wouldn’t particularly date someone that’s now interested just because of your looks, but if there is other chemistry there. Sure, why not?

[Truthatanycost]

Your level of self respect will determine the answer...

[exitseven]

Yuo got into fitness to partly to be more attractive looking. Take the win.

[Anonymous]

lol, as if that has anything to do with it.

[Mike_Hum]

Nope. There's better looking women than her out there.

[Zionne]

no, he just wants your body