I’m a guy and if I would never tell a girl that I am in a relationship with or even just talking to her that I don’t have any kids. I also love kids and I wanted to take child development in college but I could never register for the class. Should you leave him? I’m not really sure
He lied, leave. Thats all there is to it; liars always have justifications but they will never stop. Its only been 3 months, leave before you develop any real feelings.
It's a packaged deal. If you can't handle or don't want it then end it sooner rather than later. Best that you don't meet his kid if you're not interested in playing mom.
Confront him about it but indirectly like 'do you have/had kids' if he lies completely give him a week if he doesn't Teel you leave him because that means that he'll hide other things from you too.
If he's said twice he didn't have a kid... And now says he does... I consider that lying and wouldn't accept it. I'd end the relationship. I want someone who is honest and won't make me question their honesty with what they tell me in the future.
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I’m a guy and if I would never tell a girl that I am in a relationship with or even just talking to her that I don’t have any kids. I also love kids and I wanted to take child development in college but I could never register for the class. Should you leave him? I’m not really sure
He lied, leave. Thats all there is to it; liars always have justifications but they will never stop. Its only been 3 months, leave before you develop any real feelings.
It's a packaged deal. If you can't handle or don't want it then end it sooner rather than later. Best that you don't meet his kid if you're not interested in playing mom.
He was dishonest with you, and pretty much everything OlderAndWiser said was spot on.
Depends if He is supporting His son or not. If He's not paying child support then He's a bum and You should expect the same treatment down the road.
No justification for lying, if he has that interest in the truth right now, how about if he gets bored with you?
Trash man! He lied!!! I wouldn’t date him anymore because that shows manipulating behavior. I don’t need trash.
Depends on the guy and conditions. If you can/could accept lying I guess...
Leave cause he lied about it technically... He said he didn't have any kids.. now he does.. yeah.. 😒
He lied to you about this twice! It’s a major thing to lie about something like this. Yes, leave.
That pretty old to hiding a kid. And he lied to you twice. Dump him. If he just omitted it at first, that’s common. But he’s a liar.
Dump him and date me instead. I don't have any kids!
Confront him about it but indirectly like 'do you have/had kids' if he lies completely give him a week if he doesn't Teel you leave him because that means that he'll hide other things from you too.
It's a complicated one, he shoudnt of lied but maybe he did for the right reasoning.
If you want him then the kid comes with the package.
If that’s a deal breaker to you... I guess some people won’t care but most would. Just depends on how you feel about it
I’d get out if he lies about that what won’t he lie about?
If he's said twice he didn't have a kid... And now says he does... I consider that lying and wouldn't accept it. I'd end the relationship. I want someone who is honest and won't make me question their honesty with what they tell me in the future.
Is he a full time dad or just get his kid on the weekend kind of dad
If he's a good father he won't be serious with you until he knows you are good with his kid.