My boyfriend has a secret kid. Should I leave him?

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I’ll try to make this as short as possible. I need advice. I’m 23 years old, a senior in college and dating a guy. He’s 27. Already graduated. Even though we’ve only been together for a short bit ( 3 months) I like him and from what I can tell it’s mutual. Things were going great until he told me he has a kid. ( 1 son - 5 years old ) Don’t get me wrong I love kids and it’s actually what I’m in school to pursue. Twice he’s told me he don’t have kids. ( said he wanted me to get to know him before he mentioned it because he wasn’t sure how i would react since I don’t have any and I’m not ready any time soon) I’ve never dated anyone with kids. My question is should I continue with him? I love the dates & spending time with him just being around him.. Not to sound mushy but he makes me feel something I thought I couldn’t anymore. Yes I know I’m young but I don’t know. When I always imagined myself having kids it will be with my husband after I finished university and live in my own house when we are both financially and mentally ready. He said that he wants me to meet the kid but I don’t know if I’m ready for all of this. I like him a lot and I know being with him means that I have to accept him having a kid. I don’t mean to sound immature or but I wanted my first child to be with my husband. He said that him and the child’s mother get along good and the relationship just didn’t work out. I don’t know how to exactly explain it but it’s a big responsibility and I have no clue what to do... ADVICE? guys and girls are welcome.
My boyfriend has a secret kid. Should I leave him?
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