I seem to only attract men with girlfriends or men not ready for a relationship or wang friends with benefits?

[Anonymous]

It makes me depress seeing this pattern. I feel like I will never find someone and I’ll be 30 soon. I wants child I. The near future.

[Rocco7070]

Sometimes girls and their posts wire me up! Im 18 now, single and am constantly chased after because they all know Im a great big baby around girls. It can sound repetative maybe, because I was geown up like at an early and very inquizative, I've experienced several girls, one was 32. She told me simular things as your saying. Im no sex expert but i do always talk about sex with nost girls I go out with. I treat this subject with gloved hands cause its getting more and more special to me. I like girls opinions, not particulary about me, but about how it can complicate or enrich a relationship. I have a couple of friends with bebefits. Their both just that, and their benefits are nice, but only nice. Your 30? You need a good man. I dont know everything about thatt situation but an outside reccomendation, start letting that be known, with taste. Start thinking about various scenerious, dont feel defeated quite so fast. Try to explore maybe various sex techniquects, explore, dont take a man just because you need one, your young, just dont appear needy, let it be known in your own way but not something some guy can take your needs for easy pickings, your body, money or whatever. Take another couple in off your dress length but not too much. A 30 yr old woman can even find a boy my age who would wear himself out for a kittle older woman. But i dont reccomend that. But you do know some lean, fine. Young man would kill for different sorts of women, i dont mean my age, your young, just dont give up on men, but what woman your age could, he will come along!!! He will be there in his own time. I sure wish all thats good for you. Sorry but I dont know more, just dont give up, he's out there waiting on fate.

[WindAtMyBack]

You might be confusing who is attracted to you and who makes a move. Those are two different things.

Are you going after guys that you are attracted to? Or are you waiting for them to make the first move? If you wait for them to make the first move, it's going to be far more likely to be certain types of men. You will get a much higher percentage of womanizers who are more aggressive.

If you want a certain type of man who is not a womanizer, you can drastically increase your odds by going after the ones you want. You also have to be careful going after the same guys that all the other women are going after.

In other words you need to play an active role. You can't do anything about them. But you can do something about your own role.

[jmf909]

Same as all the girls I like are taken and the single ones are looking for the hot cool popular guy that oonly plays and one nights them all

[JimboGB]

Change the surroundings that you are meeting men in. The common factor is you, not the men. How you feel determines who shows up.

[SuccessfulHornDog]

Why do you think that this is happening? Do you think that this is unique to you?

[Asker]

Sometimes yes and sometimes no

[loveslongnails]

Post your photo. Maybe we can see something to help out.

[Anonymous]

Notice how in your mind the problem is always with him. Could be a clue.