Guys, What is the most annoying thing women do on dating apps? (Page 2)
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From the most annoying for me
- Treating you like air if she isn't interested or like a good in the shelf if she is: never approach first, just waiting for you to do you best to impress her without giving any hint (VERY few have decent bios) about how to do so. And if clowning yourself for her didn't work... You'll realise a few days later as she still hasn't replied back. If you're lucky she'll unmatch soon enough, maybe
-Not bothering to write a decent bio: in my experience only between 20 and 30% of females profile have a satisfying bio (one that is more then: I like Netflix and chill out with friends and dislike guys lower then me)
I think that's about it...
Now, sure we could dwelve into how that can be natural with women having too many matches and so on, but I don't think that's the point of the question ^^
Right, I forgot to add "misleading pictures" at the bottom of the list. As many others pointed out, there are often cases of this like group pictures or taking pictures with very specific and prearranged angles. I'm not saying that looking good in a picture is bad ofc, but when one does it to hide specific part of their body or phisionomy then it's misleading
Duck face pictures, perfect angle shots that hide their true size, no info on their bio, telling us "don't bother msging if..." (It is just a shitty thing to say, you are allowed to have preferences and deal breakers but to announce it in a shitty tone right on your profile? Bitch move.), wearing too much makeup. Those are the main things I guess, all of these are an automatic swipe left for me.
Also when I finally actually get a response and there is absolutely nothing to work with, like I have to do 100% of the conversation, but I understand this a bit since girls get like 500 messages a day, but just saying "yeah" or "lol" it's like ok, where do I even go from there now?
But I found my love years ago and it wasn't online, and overall online is just a bad idea I wouldn't go back.
I have not been on a dating app for 5 years. But what bothered me was, you find someone who matches in almost EVERY way, and you send them a message introducing yourself, and you never hear from them. Weird especially if you have all that in common. I would expect some kind of response.
most of the women on Dating App's/Sites mostly look the same, sure different names and features but overall the same style and look...
otherwise the most annoying thing is not wanting to get to know who they match with and complaining that after it not working out they are having to go back on to the app to find someone else
Post pictures with Snapchat filters on (or other heavy filters that distort appearance)
Post high angle photos to obscure their true body and face shape
Only link their Insta accounts in their "About me sections"
Have the conversational skill of wet potato chips
Multiple people in each picture all the same people making it impossible to determine who you are.
Every picture has filters on it I'd like to see the real you.
No description in your profile really you need to throw us a bone and help us start a conversation.
Pictures with groups (with no idea who you are)
Reading messages and not replying (not talking about the "Hi" messages, the ones we put effort into)
Carrying a conversation, then stopping all at once.
Expecting the guy to start everything...
Where do I begin not read all your text and ask you again what you just said take so damn long to respond not say bye or see ya ttyl nothing just vanish, taking to other dudes at same time as you and you know they are when they say something way of the wall like so when will you be home Frank and your name is Bill stuff like that and lying fake photos just asking you to pay their phone bill or internet bill stop it ok not responsible for that not getting you a gift card just meet your ass damn
Things I experienced where: not responding at all, offer you to buy pics and/or videos, telling that you are ugly.
All the three are annoying. I mean I use to be respectful and nice and just up for a chat. And you say hi and maybe refer to smth you habe in common due to the profile, but they all react rude. That's so annoying and enerving.
That's shitty dude
You say it^^
Lie about their appearance by posting old pictures or by posting deceptive photos. I met one woman and wanted to ask her "How old was that photograph? Looks like it was about 10 years and 100 pounds ago."
Another woman described herself as "a few extra pounds". She was 5'3" (160cm) and 250# (113kg).