Tips for getting over a coworker?

[Anonymous]

He has been on his phone a lot more recently. He doesn't really talk to me if our other partner is present, but will strike up conversation when he isn't. He speaks really soft to me, is always ready to try any ideas I have, but he doesn't tell me as much as he used to (before COVID).

Yesterday, he was on the phone with some girl and when he saw me, he told her "I'll call you later" then hung up. So, yeah...

Any tips on how to get over him FAST? I only work with him Saturday and Sunday, but 6 - 8 hours.

[In_Trance]

wdym "get over?" I don't see what there is to get over

[Asker]

I like him and I think he is seeing another girl

[In_Trance]

But he's not yours... your not his. What is there to get over?

[Asker]

I have feelings for him. How do I get rid of them?

[In_Trance]

How do you have feelings for someone who isn't yours? You don't even know him

[Asker]

He is my coworker/friend. I have known him since 2017.

[In_Trance]

This is gnarly... good luck with that

[Koda1]

You don't you just see them every day and die a little inside as you suffer back the tears