If your crush asks for help during exams, would you?

[anon1903]

Help as in cheating.

Updates

+1 y

I sought help with board-exams cuz the guy in exam hall sitting across from me thought I was cute. Pretty neat eh?

[Sonorous]

Definitely not.

Because with major things (like tests or exams, etc), not staying true to the way the game is meant to be played would be putting all parties involved in the resistance at risk.

Someone may say, "it's not a big deal." But they don't even realize that certain small behaviors can be a major indicator of how a person would handle big & important life-altering decisions. And in this case, it would severely limit their competency regarding knowledge. Plus, if caught, the consequences probably wouldn't even be worse than a literal failure of the test would be.

So, in this case, I would really start to evaluate who I'm crushing on. Because I don't really like behavior like that when it comes to the stuff that really really matters in a person's life. I like it when people are true to themselves and those around them. If you suck at something, then suck at it! You likely won't get better otherwise. And don't do something if you're not going to really do it in a way that would benefit (ofc all trusted parties involved, but) yourself especially! Because you'd just be wasting time and effort. Generally speaking.

Now, if it was something small/unimportant like some homework, then I'd be more inclined to help. But even that would require certain factors like her reasons, intentions, how often she'd want it, whether or not she understands it in the first place, etc. I wouldn't blindly accept.

[Sonorous]

Update:

[anon1903]

😂😂😂😂

[Sonorous]

is it too late now to say

[anon1903]

When I saw bieber, I thought you'd say "sorry"

XD

[Sonorous]

I'm cold and robotic, I can't 🤖

[anon1903]

You sure have the voice of river running through cobbled stones

[anon1903]

Needless to say, I find it hard to believe

[Sonorous]

😂 it's hard to explain. I was in a good mood the day of that recording and I was alone so I felt I could be myself. But when I feel like I can't, I turn into a 🤖

[anon1903]

Just tuck it as a compliment

[Sonorous]

Im sorry who now

[OlderAndWiser]

If they ask you to cheat, they are asking you to jeopardize your own standing with the educational institution solely for the purpose of helping them. Anyone who truly cares about you would not make such a request.

[OlderAndWiser]

Response to update: did it work?

[anon1903]

I just said in update that I put my pretty privilege into use

[OlderAndWiser]

Yes, you said that, but you didn't say whether the guy responded and gave you the help you requested.

[anon1903]

He did

[OlderAndWiser]

So now you have established that you are a cheater. When your good looks begin to decline, what will you offer to the next man whose help you want?

[anon1903]

I'm clever too ;)

[anon1903]

I'm a firm believer in if I got away showing my cleavage — my self value is low. But if a man lets me do it, he isn't exactly the victim either. He and I are the same, more or less

[OlderAndWiser]

Yes, you and he are both cheaters. I would never want a woman like you to be the mother of my children.

[anon1903]

Okay

[AmandaYVR]

No. Cheaters may affect others' grades, if it's on a sliding scale.
Might depend a bit on the nature of the ask, but probably I'd say flat out no.

[Hangry22]

I have done that. Not as my "crush" but as a friend

[anon1903]

Me too. Haha

[call_me_scar]

Oh sure I know a few tricks on how to cheat on test 1 involves using the school IDs against them

[anon1903]

Really?

[call_me_scar]

Yeah just so long as u mean cheating on the test and not their not so loved one

[anon1903]

Can you tell me some?

[call_me_scar]

Sure normally on school IDs are made of a cheap plastic that can be written upon fairly lightly u can obviously use this to put a few answers on their I like this method in particular as if u are worried u can always wipe it off destroying the evidence, another one is the classic looking at the other person's quiz but their are some extra things to it 1 make sure it's the same test and if not then their answers are still useful as u can now figure out which answers not to use now yes this isn't isn't inherently bulletproof but it does lower the chances of it being used

[call_me_scar]

Also if u wear a school lantern with that plastic holder on it for IDs those can also be of use as u could put a dollar inside and write on the sides of it

[AnggieGirl]

I'd stay out of it. You studied hard right so..


Studying is our own journey. Unless he had trauma happen that was not his own ill doings.

[Ceasar97]

tbh, I never care if somebody cheats off my work. As long as they don't get me trouble

[ruoxuansung]

My crush is way more smarter than me, sooooo he will never do that.

[eminde]

Ofc I’ll help her out
I’ve done it couple of times but it didn’t got me a date so that’s totally on me ig

[JosyJosy]

O nope I would lose respect for the crush if I would even still call him that

[nodnol32]

If its multiple choice then its easier to cheat. Otherwise won't take the risk.

[CasaNorba]

depends, but she better not get me involved if she gets caught

[ColHathi]

I probably would, but I'm weak like that. If she did it without a good reason, knowing that I'd help her because I have a crush on her, then that's real scummy.

[Juxtapose]

No.

Exams exist for a reason. I would only be cheating them out of their education.

[Dchrls78104]

I hope not. No one who really liked you would have you jeopardise your future in this way.

[the_sinner]

If I'm also appearing the exam myself then I'll not help ofc otherwise I'd try to help with utmost caution.

[JPrez]

I would say no and probably be disappointed in them for asking.

[KrakenAttackin]

Fuck no. I never cheated she needs to study and work hard.

[call_me_S]

I help the people i HATE 🤣🤣🤣. Its a fight and everyone should help in this war 👏🏻👏🏻

[invalid1]

I guarantee you if that exam be a thermodynamics or math, I am not helping this Kristine Stewart.

[AlexanderAnttila]

Why even crush on such a guy. He clearly has no interest in putting in even minimal effort.

[Anonymous]

No. And if he cared about you, he wouldn't put you in an awkward position like that. If you get caught, you'll be the one who gets into trouble.

[tartaarsaus]

Nah. Cheating during exams could cost me a year of university, not risking that for a crush

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Don't know. I was going to think about it but I just kinda fell so no. (I didn't actually talk I just didn't feel like thinking)