Tf does it mean when a girl says u gotta earn sex?

[MLGbreezy]

Like earn it how if not a relationship. Or am I just wasting my time with females who feed dude's that crap? And whenever u ask um how u gotta earn it it's always "that's for u to figure out" like bruh.

[jgibsonian1986]

You have to satisfy and fulfill her emotional and mental state before she let's you satisfy her physical body. It's a goal to work for in a way, and as for how to earn it that is literally up to YOU.

You have to find out what you need to do to push your life forward, and when you find how to push forward through the tough shit and keep going she will be there to help you push.

Women want to be built, she wants you to improve her, give her things to oversee and improve. The Bible says give a good woman a field and she makes a harvest, and it's true af that women multiply what you give them, but if you plug a small number into a big multiplier it does shit for output.
She wants you to provide for her so that she can multiply what you provide, and she won't accept low effort.

She wants to submit herself to you, but she wants to submit all of herself to you without worry. That includes her heart, mind, and body. I'll tell you how to get started though, you must develop yourself, and your philosophy.

[mindNsoul]

Who are you? damn young man. Impressive 🌹👌

[Anonymous]

It's just girl nonsense. There's an old saying that a woman knows within 30 seconds of meeting you whether or not she'll f*** you. I'm not saying that's true, lol. But i do think the spirit of it is true. She can say you have to "earn" it. But i guarantee you if she meets the right guy tonight she'll sleep with him at the drop of a hat.
If sex is your ONLY goal here i would quit this girl but i'd definitely be tending easier gardens if ya get me. Just cause she wants to wait doesn't mean you have to. And later a lot of the time does mean NEVER i'm sorry to say. And no guy wants to be that chump.

[btbc92]

Either she's teasing or she is telling you that she is not a toy. Premarital sex is wrong and nobody is obligated to have sex. Marriage is a different story. She wants to know more and likely if you're there for sex or are you they to really know her and value her. Sex is earned. Dating is a time for courtship. Court the woman you say you wanted to be with, get to know her. Plain and simple. You being tested and judged every day. That's how dating works. You don't need sex to survive. She's right. It means show US who YOU ARE as a MAN. Because if we give you all the answers, you will try to fake your way to make it. Women don't want fakes. We want somebody real. And you won't be compatible with everybody. Once a woman has sex outside of marriage, that's it. It will screw us over for LIFE. She cannot afford it if your not the right man. And neither can you if she isn't either. If she gets pregnant, your screwed.

[MLGbreezy]

But I'm not interested in dating her I just want sex ice told her this and it's not like she's much of a prude Shea sent me nudes before and posts nudes of her and her friend togther on her private story and I don't mean that in the sense that she's a hoe she doesn't seem like the type more like she not afraid to show off her body

[MLGbreezy]

We sexy pretty often too

[MLGbreezy]

Sext*

[btbc92]

Then what do you expect? If she is being a hoe, tell it like it is. You being a whoremonger and she is who she is because that is what she wants. Either way, she still doesn't owe you sex. Being a prude is very rude to say. Prudeness has 0 to do with that. It's about respect. And she doesn't respect herself and neither do you. Point blink. Either she is fishing for a relationship, which sounds like it, or she enjoys screwing with your head because your mind at the moment is that of a dog. It's funny for women. This is why women call you men dogs. And your proving that right now why many hate sex and hate relationships and marriages because no longer are their men of honor, dignity, and stability. Very few now. If you aren't getting it, then do like so many of you do. Leave. You're not paying for her even though she is freely prostituting. Call it judgmental but it's the truth if what you saying is true. If you don't respect women, do not expect one to respect you. She doesn't. And won't. So don't look for it.

[nerdybutlazy]

Nowadays I think people think they just deserve sex after they buy you dinner, if you aren't in a relationship with that woman and she says earn it "it probably just means earn her trust", or prove to her you aren't the kind of guy who likes to fuck and leave. A lot of women still do that but they just won't say it a loud

[MLGbreezy]

Dinner fuck and leave ya asking for to much these days if that's what it takes I told her I wanted a friends with benefits from jump she wasn't interested but we like sexy and stuff and she's the type who is very comfortable with showing off her body naked as she does on her private story so I'm like lost 😂

[MLGbreezy]

I'm generally good at making friends but she really hasn't put in a position to earn her trust

[MLGbreezy]

And that can be some that takes a while to build which I'm not really looking for if you don't wanna be my friends with benefits but if that's what u are kinda looking for with this whole trust thing why would she just say that. It's sorta the whole post by if a FRIENDS with benefits.

[nerdybutlazy]

If it's friends with benefits, I guess I can't say never down that before

[bigCraneGuy]

This bothers me a little bit. I have two takes on this. in one hand yes she should value herself and not just jump into bed with you if she's not comfortable with that. but on the other hand, I've never seen a pussy made out of gold and I'm pretty sure every woman has one. some women need to be reminded of that. just like every guy has a dick but not all of us are dicks

[Anonymous]

It's a power move.
She's tryin to see what her pussy is worth to you.
It's the old "Why would he buy the cow when he can get the milk for free" philosophy.
What they forget is, maybe we don't want to buy a cow, maybe we just want milk.
Why is it okay to manipulate us?
Also maybe that cow has been giving out free milk to everyone else for years, why should I be the sucker to buy the cow?

[MLGbreezy]

Bruh females doing to much these days 🤣

[Anonymous]

They're probably used to guys only wanting sex from them. For this reason they've created this "standard" for themselves to prevent themselves being used.
Can't be certain myself because I don't view it that way, but I know some girls that do.

[laurieluvsit]

For the more practical male it means it will be cheaper go find a hooker... lol

[WindAtMyBack]

It's childish game playing.

Saying you got to earn it is game playing. Saying "that's for you to figure out" is even more game playing.

If she wants to play games and can't say what she means, then stay away.

[Pinky_what_why]

Here's what it means
She wants that u prove urself to her and not that you just want her for her body or whatever.

[mindNsoul]

haha it is a strange thing to say. I guess she doesn't want to quickly jump into sex but also have a hint of ego issues 😅

[menina]

I've never heard about this. Maybe she's telling you that you should try to get to know her and gain her trust before having sex.

[slatyb]

To me, it means goodbye. I'm not buying sex from my partner. If she's doesn't want it then I'm gone.

[padreflint]

A. She's playing you. (Possible)
B. She's not looking for a one night stand or friends with benefits. (Very possible)
C. She wants to know you are really interested and invested. (More than likely this one)

[Cherokeehp]

You’ve gotta earn her trust. Just be nice to her and treat her well.

[AddictedGirl]

U need to gain her trust and make her feel like sed with you will be worth it.. and not a regret.

[john23232323]

It means you need to dump her ass and find a girl that won't treat you like a slave that she will blackmail in order to give you something that should be done because of love.

[dudeinohio]

Dont tolerate those mind games. Just move on to someone else.

[Anonymous]

Means she is selling it and your bid is not high enough yet.

Gold digger s*it-testing stuff.

[JoyGirl]

Hang in there buddy.
*pat pat* 😌

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Don't be like everyone else.

[JaneDoe377]

Yes it's a waste.