(Poll) What date are you expecting to have your first kiss?

[Anonymous]

1st date

2nd date

3rd date

4th date

5th date

Whenever we feel comfortable

[Cynicaldreamer]

Whenever it feels right. I don't set a "rule" on when to kiss a guy: if it happens, it happens. Usually if the chemistry is there, we both enjoyed each others company, it can happen on ANY date!

I've had it happen on the first; I've had it happen months later. It does not happen if there's any awkwardness or it feels forced. Basically, I try and read any signals he gives off and go from there- obviously if he leans in for a kiss, I'm going to kiss him back! Haha. But if he seems disinterested, distracted, or seems like he's rushing to leave (yes, I've had that happen), I take that as "Nope, not happening."

I've had instances before where I tried to kiss or make a move on a guy, and he'd pull away or make excuses not to sit next to me- yeah, that was my red flag that it wasn't happening.

[Anonymous]

Third. First date is too soon for me and second too. Even third date can be i'm a pretty slow dater as long as possible is good preferably become friends first.

[NoblesseObligeKK]

I fundamentally disagree with that type of thinking, kissing the girl should just seem right. If you two are feeling each other, just let one thing flow to the next. If you guys had a bad date and she's throwing up "take me home" vibes, dont try and kiss her just because its your first, second, third, date and so on.

Examples of "take me home" vibe:
- she spends more time on her phone than you
- spends more time looking at the walls / everything, but whats in relevant to the date
- she's a buzz kill

[Mynameisdom7]

I think you should really be close with the person you’re dating and know them well before a first kiss. I’ve been dating someone for almost 3 months and we haven’t kissed yet. I feel that we are close, but I’m not ready and I don’t think she is either yet.

[Anonymous]

Whenever comfortable is a bit of a cop out answer. I expect to kiss on the first date--after all, the whole POINT of dating is ultimately to lead to sex, so if we don't at least kiss, what have we done that we couldn't have both done with just friends? If the answer is nothing, that's not really a date.

Now, that doesn't mean it's the end of the world if it doesn't happen. BUT if I'm going to ask for a second date I have to at LEAST feel like she's interested in it. I'll ask for the second date but if we don't kiss by the end of that one, there's really no point of moving forward as a potential romantic partner.

Also worth mentioning in here that it DEFINITELY makes sense to continue to meet girls, chat them up, flirt, get their number, set up and go on OTHER dates until a committed relationship has been established. That also makes it MUCH easier not to get too invested into the outcome of any one date.

[Torari]

The kiss on the first date has a very important function.

It tells me whether or not you want a second date.

If she doesn't kiss me, I assume she's uninterested and let her go. If she does, I assume she is interested and if I am also, I will pursue.

[2twisted4you]

Just depends. Some times that moment comes on the first date. I kiss is meaningful and great but its just a kiss. When it feels right, go for it.

It helps when women drop us some clues too.

[slatyb]

First or second date is typical but I’m never in a rush. When she’s ready she’ll let me know one way or another.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

As for a first kiss when the time is right you’ll both know & when you do kiss magical it will be.

[ThirdEclipse]

I see no reason to pick a date to kiss.
It should happen naturally when both parties are ready.

[moonpie89]

Whenever I'm comfortable. No expectations. It will happen when it's supposed to happen

[Tomsta]

I'm in the minority here where i'd prefer to not kiss; I have intimacy issues. I prefer hugs and cuddles

[Jamie05rhs]

At the wedding?

Or maybe when we get engaged; I don't know.

[Minahh]

Whenever we both feel like it. It's not good to push anyone into anything.

[Agem123]

I don't go with "expectations"

Whenever we both feel like doing it.

[Fuentes]

Every date i went on bitches tryna fuck so am i im not trippin

[Dinosaursandanime65]

In another dimension. The other me/s must have very rigor bonds with their rigor fates.

[Liam_Hayden]

When I'm sure she doesn't have cooties.

[Iron_Man]

No dates no girlfriend

[msc545]

Whenever it seems right

[Gedaria]

First one if I play my cards right..

[imfreeze95]

I don’t think you schedule something like this

[SeaSprayBreeze]

Haha 😂

[JamesRandiDebates]

First date. Just before the BJ.

[Poppykate]

Definitely F