Why does my boyfriend get mad at me because I won't let him go down on me?

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He keeps begging me to let him, but im more into giving then receiving. And he gets mad when i tell him he can't go down on me.

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laPrincesitaRoxi | 178 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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He needs to respect what you want to do with your own body, remind him how he can’t just force you to do something sexual when you don’t want to. That would quite literally be rape and if he respects you enough he won’t do it again but if he does he’s probably a rapist or just a really selfish man

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Answer 2

psychoticanimallover

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Just put some marmite down there and a crushed up dishwasher tablet and he’ll soon get over this weird obsession he has with giving you sexual pleasure. God, it really makes one thankful for their own situation when you read about stuff like this...

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adriheart7

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Girl, i have anxiety, so im real nervous when it comes to him going down on me. I dont want him to not like it and then judge me about it. What if he doesn’t like it? I dont want to go through that thought process after the whole ordeal. He should be happy im giving him pleasure and he needs to understand how uncomfortable and nervous i am, because i dont want him to judge me.
Wiredone

1 y
Girl, you need to explain that to him. Let him know how you feel. 2 people in a relationship should be able to express their feelings to each other.
adriheart7

1 y
I've done that, sir. But he still insists
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Wiredone

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Unless you smell down there, he will like it. There will not be anything to judge you for. Maybe the both of you can work out some sort of compremise

Answer 3

adriheart7

Girl, i have anxiety, so im real nervous when it comes to him going down on me. I dont want him to not like it and then judge me about it. What if he doesn’t like it? I dont want to go through that thought process after the whole ordeal. He should be happy im giving him pleasure and he needs to understand how uncomfortable and nervous i am, because i dont want him to judge me.

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Wiredone

Girl, you need to explain that to him. Let him know how you feel. 2 people in a relationship should be able to express their feelings to each other.

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adriheart7

I've done that, sir. But he still insists

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Wiredone

Unless you smell down there, he will like it. There will not be anything to judge you for. Maybe the both of you can work out some sort of compremise

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Miristheiss | 1.9K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

Maybe you 2 are not compatible.
Many greatly desire to intimately touch/taste their girl orally. He needs a girls that wants it... maybe you would be best with a guy who doesn't like going down.
What is your beef?
Does it not feel good?
Are you self conscious?

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adriheart7

1 y
self conscious

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adriheart7

self conscious

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Anonymous

Well because head is awesome. Having someone go down on me is without a doubt the most fantastic feeling I’ve ever felt in my life. And I’m pretty sure lots of dudes are aroused by going down on women. It’s basically just a fun experience for everyone involved. Go at your own pace and only do what your comfortable with. He’s just going to have to deal with it or find someone else.

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Xavier16

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He shouldn't be getting mad cuz u denied him going down on you. You have a choice if u want him to or not and he should respect that.

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Xavier16

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He should be happy that ur the type to rather give then receive tf
adriheart7

1 y
thank you!!!

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Xavier16

He should be happy that ur the type to rather give then receive tf

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adriheart7

thank you!!!

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Barry88 | 136 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Explorer

For me, going down on a girl is the thing that makes me the most excited, and for me it's even more important than getting oral sex from her. I would be disappointed if a girl didn't allow me to go down on her as it's something I really enjoy to do.

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spartan55 | 2.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

Yeah, I'd dump you. Why are you so weird abouy that?

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Wiredone | 526 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

I have never met a woman who didn't enjoy a guy going down on her. If you don't like anyone going down on you , you need to explain that to him. Communication in a relationship is key.

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Unicrone

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He’s the man and feels like the men are in charge. He has an ego and feels like being on bottom means he’s weak and you control him

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MountAverage | 611 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

You're asking why he gets upset over not being allowed do something he sexually desires with his girlfriend? Are you just playing dumb?

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crmoore | 599 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

Not that I'm suggesting you let him, but probably for similar reasons that you like to go down on him.

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JesterRose

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While im not suggesting you take any action based on my reply, i would voice a word of caution in relationships. Its fine to have bounderies, but is you suffocate someone with your limits it is safe to assume the single life is ahead.

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Wise4myage | 4.6K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

Because he wants to give you the same pleasure you are giving him.

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OceanMelon | 171 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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Its because he want's something you won't give him.

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Dinosaursandanime65 | 1.5K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

Fighting the Ahoy isn’t easy to deal with. Anyone would want to kill them.

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Anonymous

Because it’s something he wants to try, let him try , he probably won’t want to afterwards

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adriheart7

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shut the hell up
Opinion Owner

1 y
Why say that? I’m just explaining why, he probably never did it, most women like it so he probably thinks he is missing out and you

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adriheart7

shut the hell up

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Opinion Owner

Why say that? I’m just explaining why, he probably never did it, most women like it so he probably thinks he is missing out and you

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Colosas

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well? I don't know why he's like that but maybe becouse he wanted to do it too so just let him?

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JosyJosy | 3.7K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

"because you won't let him go down on you"

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adriheart7

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girl, i shouldn't have to let him
JosyJosy

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I never said you should, I'm just answering the question ;)

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adriheart7

girl, i shouldn't have to let him

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JosyJosy

I never said you should, I'm just answering the question ;)

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Anzyhus321

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Bc he wants to bang u init

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Anonymous

Well cause you would get mad if he find someone else who will satisfy his sexual desires.

And why are you even in a relationship?

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Agape93 | 2.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

Because he doesn’t respect boundaries

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Iron_Man | 13.9K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

I wouldn’t want my wife denying me

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