Guys, Is pursuing someone worth it or is it better to let it happen naturally? (Page 2)

[Avicenna]

We do, but guys tend to back off if they don’t get enough positive feedback

[MannMitAntworten]

Both are adventitious and have their place. Get a feel for your person of interest and move forward accordingly.

[Jamie05rhs]

I think you should keep trying, but just keep your expectations low. Don't fully invest in it emotionally before you know that a guy likes you.

[Meldrum]

You don't need to pursue anyone. You're going after the wrong ones if they aren't responding positively. Change where you look for people.

[Wiredone]

Just let it happen naturally. Some guys might think you are "easy " or desperate if you keep trying to pursue them.

[Shy_Steve]

Don't be afraid to go after what you want, Every single straight Guy would love to get approached by a Girl.

[msc545]

It isn't worth it and it won't work anyway. Just let it happen naturally. If it doesn't happen naturally it shouldn't happen.

[Synikal]

I used to chase but as time went on, I've been chased. Rarely by the ones I'm interested in but still chased at some point by them.

[anudroid]

I used to do this for this girl back in college but it is not worth it.. I understood that when it has to happen it will happen!

[Twenty2]

If I am right, you are a virgin and doesn't want a fling. Am I right?

[Egirl28]

Yes that is true

[Twenty2]

Then why are you chasing guys?

[Egirl28]

I still want a relationship and i only chase guys who I think will be a match for me.

[Twenty2]

What are your requirements?