Have you said no to a date and why? This man asked me out when I was in my early 20s, it was sort of a fix up but I stood there thinking how much his legs look like sausages, so I said no
What’s the worst reason you’ve had for saying no to a date?
This was back when i was like 20 or 21. I had met a half ghanian half sudanese woman (black). During my hanging out with her for 2 weeks, it was established that we like each other and find each other very attractive. By the end of the 2 weeks as she started uncovering more of herself and what she's done in life and her past. I realized that as pretty as i find her, she's NOT someone i can build a future with. But that doesn't mean i can't give it more time and enjoy what we may currently have.
2 things happened that changed my mind drastically and made me break it off. By the end of the 2 weeks she has been starting to hint about marriage in very near future. And... the thing that tipped the cow for me... one day she was wearing a cool Sleave-less jeans jacket, she had taken it off as we were sitting down. She excused me to go to the bathroom. As i was waiting i thought id wear her jacket and see how cool it looks on me and then when she comes il say i think i rock this better than you do. As i was putting it on, i noticed an extremely awful STRONG SMELL that killed me. As i tried to check where the smell is coming from i realized its from the ARM PIT AREA!!! I never smelled that bad even in my worst armpit after workout days. And i have fking HAIR! It was a huge turnoff for me. No matter how strong your odor is, you can take of yourself and there are products for you. This was not an excuse for me. The moment she came out of the bathroom i broke it off.
But what i told her was: sorry i cannot marry you. My parents are racist and i will have a huge family dispute over this.
I was on Match. com and was corresponding with a woman about 2-years older than me. We decided to meet. An elderly woman approached me and sat down at my table. I had no idea who she was. Well, it was my date! I told her she doesn't look anything like her picture and much older. She said that picture is her daughter. Can't I see the resemblance? In any case, she was a very nice lady and we had a great time together. She called for a second date and I told her no. I wish I was more mature.
I really liked this guy in college, he was one of those shy , skinny, artsy guys and his friend was a total dick and bullied my older sister because she didn't wanna hang out with him when he asked so that was kinda strike one but his friend was dick not him which isn't really fair then second strike was the fact his last name was Cooper and I didn't want to end up with the name Alice Cooper as I'd already been tormented for my last name all through school. It was more to do with his shitty friend but that helped
One guy asked me out. I met him years ago through a friend. I asked my friend about him and she said he is a cocaine addict so I said no to his request and then he complained to me how he can’t afford cigarettes. My friend said maybe he could afford them if he didn’t buy cocaine.
Guy was under 6ft. Guy lived at home with his parents. Guy was the same age as me. Guy wasn't athletic or muscular. I could go on and on. In very picky, but though I'm picky I still seem to get intrest from guys. So I guess I'm picky because I can afford to be as I can pick.
Having standards is fine as long as you hold yourself to those standards. Just a word of warning though, there a many women who mistakenly believe that they can coast through life just by being attractive or by being female. You might be getting a lot of attention now because you are young, but it won't last.
Dont let that "interest" from guys that is flocking to you make you think that you have a lot of options. Out of every 20 guys that show "interest" to you, only 1 of them is not a horndog and is genuinely interested in you.
I said no to a date once because I wanted to sleep in. We set up a day to go out on the date, but my chain of command told me at the last minute that I needed to stand duty. This was the day before our date. After a 24 hour watch I needed some rest. I tried to explain this to the girl I was going to date but she said I'd make it work if the date was important enough. I told her it was not important enough and to never call me again.
I've said no to two dates that I can remember. The first was in highschool when I was in grade 12 and a kid in grade nine asked me out. I said no because I was nearly 18 and he was only 14 or 15. The second date I said no to was with a guy I met on tinder. After talking to me for 5 minutes he invited me over to his place. I said no and he immediately unmatched me
I laughed at a girl once because she said she wanted to have sex with me. I thought she was kidding... I found out she was very not kidding. Needless to say, she never spoke to me again. If we were around each other, she kept her back turned to me. I really thought she was just joking. Oooops!
@AzzaBlue I knew her as a friend, she wasn't like that. I didn't k know she was crushing on me, which is why I thought she was joking. I screwed up, thats all.
"This man asked me out when I was in my early 20s, it was sort of a fix up but I stood there thinking how much his legs look like sausages, so I said no"
Have you ever thought that maybe that wasn't his leg and you made the biggest mistake of your life?
While in high school, this girl at my church had asked me to go to her senior prom. I personally don't like proms or social gatherings plus didn't find her attractive as she was overweight and I didn't like girls who were big. I declined the date and told her, I was interested in her friend.
Hahahaa... thats hilarious! I've said no to dates many times as I felt I didn't want to lead someone on. No attraction. I won't tolerate disrespect and bs. There can be many reasons. They don't equate to my taste.
@apimpnamedslickback I get that your triggered unless the woman is unable to get taller guys then the two are not connected, unless you have little to offer and especially if your unattractive. Then maybe they should have to settle for someone short. There are women who don’t care about height out there.
Actually I'm not triggered at all. I don't care what strangers do with their lives. However I'll call you shallow if you act that way. What you said was definitely shallow.
As soon as i saw her full body picture, she was actually over 400lbs. Thin and heathy face, but big body type, with all of her pictures making her look around 110- 130 lbs, scenario. It was dishonest and deceiving, I'm not into that shit
