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This was back when i was like 20 or 21. I had met a half ghanian half sudanese woman (black). During my hanging out with her for 2 weeks, it was established that we like each other and find each other very attractive. By the end of the 2 weeks as she started uncovering more of herself and what she's done in life and her past. I realized that as pretty as i find her, she's NOT someone i can build a future with. But that doesn't mean i can't give it more time and enjoy what we may currently have.
2 things happened that changed my mind drastically and made me break it off. By the end of the 2 weeks she has been starting to hint about marriage in very near future. And... the thing that tipped the cow for me... one day she was wearing a cool Sleave-less jeans jacket, she had taken it off as we were sitting down. She excused me to go to the bathroom. As i was waiting i thought id wear her jacket and see how cool it looks on me and then when she comes il say i think i rock this better than you do. As i was putting it on, i noticed an extremely awful STRONG SMELL that killed me. As i tried to check where the smell is coming from i realized its from the ARM PIT AREA!!! I never smelled that bad even in my worst armpit after workout days. And i have fking HAIR! It was a huge turnoff for me. No matter how strong your odor is, you can take of yourself and there are products for you. This was not an excuse for me. The moment she came out of the bathroom i broke it off.
But what i told her was: sorry i cannot marry you. My parents are racist and i will have a huge family dispute over this.
I wasn't proud of not saying the truth.
I was on Match. com and was corresponding with a woman about 2-years older than me. We decided to meet. An elderly woman approached me and sat down at my table. I had no idea who she was. Well, it was my date! I told her she doesn't look anything like her picture and much older. She said that picture is her daughter. Can't I see the resemblance? In any case, she was a very nice lady and we had a great time together. She called for a second date and I told her no. I wish I was more mature.
I really liked this guy in college, he was one of those shy , skinny, artsy guys and his friend was a total dick and bullied my older sister because she didn't wanna hang out with him when he asked so that was kinda strike one but his friend was dick not him which isn't really fair then second strike was the fact his last name was Cooper and I didn't want to end up with the name Alice Cooper as I'd already been tormented for my last name all through school. It was more to do with his shitty friend but that helped
Women are weird
@HamesOluwasanmi men are weird why would you bully a girl just because she didn't want to hang out with you
His friend not him, then cos his last name is cooper.
You just gave yourself some flimsy reasons not to go out
@HamesOluwasanmi well that was the question
One guy asked me out. I met him years ago through a friend. I asked my friend about him and she said he is a cocaine addict so I said no to his request and then he complained to me how he can’t afford cigarettes. My friend said maybe he could afford them if he didn’t buy cocaine.
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I rejected a guy for over estimating my attraction to him which I found to be insulting and disrespectful.
Guy was under 6ft.
Guy lived at home with his parents.
Guy was the same age as me.
Guy wasn't athletic or muscular.
I could go on and on. In very picky, but though I'm picky I still seem to get intrest from guys. So I guess I'm picky because I can afford to be as I can pick.
Having standards is fine as long as you hold yourself to those standards. Just a word of warning though, there a many women who mistakenly believe that they can coast through life just by being attractive or by being female. You might be getting a lot of attention now because you are young, but it won't last.
I said no to a date once because I wanted to sleep in. We set up a day to go out on the date, but my chain of command told me at the last minute that I needed to stand duty. This was the day before our date. After a 24 hour watch I needed some rest. I tried to explain this to the girl I was going to date but she said I'd make it work if the date was important enough. I told her it was not important enough and to never call me again.
I've said no to two dates that I can remember. The first was in highschool when I was in grade 12 and a kid in grade nine asked me out. I said no because I was nearly 18 and he was only 14 or 15.
The second date I said no to was with a guy I met on tinder. After talking to me for 5 minutes he invited me over to his place. I said no and he immediately unmatched me
"no thanks, I don't really like people"
"no thanks, but you're dad is pretty hot"
"sorry I'm not available, is your older brother?"
"sorry it's not good time for me right now, my life is going to shit and I don't want to take any innocent bystanders with me"
I say it in a jokey way so they don't know I'm serious, then follow up with a way that is nicer and seems more normal.
"This man asked me out when I was in my early 20s, it was sort of a fix up but I stood there thinking how much his legs look like sausages, so I said no"
Have you ever thought that maybe that wasn't his leg and you made the biggest mistake of your life?
I laughed at a girl once because she said she wanted to have sex with me. I thought she was kidding... I found out she was very not kidding. Needless to say, she never spoke to me again. If we were around each other, she kept her back turned to me. I really thought she was just joking. Oooops!
@AzzaBlue I knew her as a friend, she wasn't like that. I didn't k know she was crushing on me, which is why I thought she was joking. I screwed up, thats all.
While in high school, this girl at my church had asked me to go to her senior prom. I personally don't like proms or social gatherings plus didn't find her attractive as she was overweight and I didn't like girls who were big. I declined the date and told her, I was interested in her friend.
Hahahaa... thats hilarious!
I've said no to dates many times as I felt I didn't want to lead someone on. No attraction. I won't tolerate disrespect and bs. There can be many reasons. They don't equate to my taste.
I stopped talking to guy once because he uses too many emojis.
Most of the time it's the same thing. She's not attractive to me.
Worst reason was me just being too shy and afraid to say yes to her. Sad but true.
I heard horror stories of how many guys she slept with so I was disgusted and turned off
That sausage-legged gentlemen became a multimillionaire while you post goofy questions online. :(
@K-I-S-S Nothing. I also like sausage fingers.
I turned down a date with a cute guy once because he said we'd have a "hella" good time. I hate that word with a passion, so I told him no lol
That's a hella reason! 🤓
I don't know if a guy asking for my number and then to a dance is adate but yes. I just didn't want to date anyone as small as he was.
I unmatched him when I found out his height and blocked his number I felt bad bc it was obvious why but I did not want to waste my time
Dudes wouldn't you stop going for a girl if you found out she had more 50 lb then you thought?
what was his height?
@apimpnamedslickback I get that your triggered unless the woman is unable to get taller guys then the two are not connected, unless you have little to offer and especially if your unattractive. Then maybe they should have to settle for someone short.
There are women who don’t care about height out there.
@apimpnamedslickback and I have dated a 22 yr old who was only 5”9 if he is hot and smart then I will make a little bit of an exception
Actually I'm not triggered at all. I don't care what strangers do with their lives. However I'll call you shallow if you act that way. What you said was definitely shallow.
He had a bad reputation and too many one night stands and exes.. I didn't want the leftovers.
She road a skateboard to her college classes. I got it in my mind I didn’t like skater chics even though she was way cute.
I just said I was busy and was going to be busy for a while.
As soon as i saw her full body picture, she was actually over 400lbs. Thin and heathy face, but big body type, with all of her pictures making her look around 110- 130 lbs, scenario. It was dishonest and deceiving, I'm not into that shit
I have never said no, one time I had three dates in one night and kept them all, went to the same place one after the other, the staff looked at me a kinda funny
it was a female friend i didn't like, like that so i rejected her, i never saw her again after that year tho
She looked older and it wasn't what I wanted at the moment like 3 years ago
Ther is no reson to say no to a date. Alwase accept any date you or i have no mather what.
For a girl being fat.
"Alexander the Great dates Cleopatras, not Oompa Loompas!"
She was bankrupt and trying to date so I should pay for her stuff and also rude and not saying bye and one day he told we are brother and sister.
I said not once because I didn't like the way she dressed we work together and she always looks like a grandma she's in desperate need of a makeover
His looks obviously.
His habits and he didn't fit my standards.
I don't think my reasons i say no for a date are bad at all.
when she took picture of herself on toilet poopong not gonna lie i masturbated to that
I’ve actually never been on a traditional date before. I wasn’t born in that generation of going out on dates and holding doors open.
What do you do then?
I only turned down dates when I was really horny and just wanted to whack off and get high sounded way more fun then going on a date
I turned down a date because Im overweight and didn't trust his intentions.
She didn't offer me a beer.
What if she tried to reach her girlfriend bartender for free drinks all night?
@Thedivinechic I would have still refused. I didn't like her and any excuse was good to get away from her.
They had an intellectual disability that I would not allow for a relationship to take place from.
This girl had fucked up teeth. A big ass gap between her front teeth and all her teeth were crooked.
Just didn't like her..., by the way... I had done that a lot... hahahaha
If a woman does her mouth like that when talking do you she wants to wrap her lips around your sausage. 👄 🌭
Never been asked by anyone. I'm always doing the asking.
I usually reject guys because of physical preferences 😳
Guys do the same thing, don't worry
She was just to ugly for me. Her best friend i got to nail instead.
He wanted s”x after dinner
Because I don't vibe with them.
He had once threatened suicide if I blocked him.
He couldn’t beat me at Call of Duty.
They wore make-up and I can't stand make-up
"I don't date fat black chicks"
Just couldn't be bothered
They was rude to help staff.
He was too socially awkward
Cause she married I said no cause I don’t share.
There was always a VERY good reason.
I wasn't waxed lol
Smelt like a rubbish bin
He was a foreigner from the middle east perhaps
Racist as well as cruel
Said I love you , after just 1 hour talk 😅
He ate too much and I paid for it
Not being in a good mood lol
I didn't like how her feet looked
I've never been asked on a date
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