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But if he didn’t have that quality about him would you find him just as attractive or less?
I’d like to think so. I’ve always found him to be physically attractive. I didn’t care much for his boxing fights until I actually saw him fight in person.
Does it also include physical protection from other people if they’re a threat?
Eh. Yeah that’s a plus, but I’m more concerned on how he makes me feel.
If someone came up to me and started harassing me, I wouldn’t want him to just stand there. However, I wouldn’t want him to kill the person either.
Have you ever been with a guy who had a bunch of other red flags but you overlooked them because he gives you this safe feeling?
Yes I have. I loved living on the edge but it isn't healthy. As all those red flags become bigger issues later on. I guess it's the thrill, the excitement & never being bored. You learn and you live if you are lucky.
is this a top desirable trait for you in a guy?
Safe as in protection from dangers?
yes from that kind of stuff
I know of women who overlook so many red flags but they stay just because of this reason