Why do I never get hit on? (Page 2)

Question

I’m 33 years old 5 foot 115 pounds I have my associates degree, a career, I own my own home and car and have a 12 year old son. I feel like I have a lot going for me but have never been pursued much. I never get hit on or even DM’d. It makes me a tad insecure that o always have to pursue like there is something wrong with me.

slatyb · Answer

When you were younger with a young son, childless single men were looking for a childless woman. Now many of the men your age are married. Have you tried online dating? It worked well for me after I divorced around your age.

serious · Answer

You look nice. I think it might be just a matter of luck.

Anonymous · Answer

Doesn’t sound like you have a lot going on for you. The things you list here give away the problems with your thinking and this is a very classic problem: women come here asking why they can’t get a guy and the most common things they list along with looks are career, education, and property. That’s the tip off that they’ve paid attention to all the wrong things.

Soremain · Answer

Do you ever smile or give other signals? Because what I figured out long time ago was to only approach girls who give you some kind of signal. Otherwise it's mostly waste of time.

Pexah · Answer

Honestly, I'm 21 and I'll probably end up single for a while cause I don't try to get a girlfriend/speak to random girls it's not one of my priorities. I'm just one guy so I can't speak for others. Also It seems like you are accomplishing a lot and are happy with yourself so keep focusing on yourself, I wouldn't say go hunting cause you may not come back with what you want but speed dating might be good if you are ready.

monkeynutts · Answer

Your cute, just need more confidence, but truth be known, you don’t want guys around you that hit onto women, and being shy can attract the wrong kinds of guys, happy hunting.

Makeushiver · Answer

I certainly can't answer that question because, if that's your pic you are remarkably beautiful and I wouldn't stop hitting on you until I had my face buried between your thighs

TerrestrialSon · Answer

You are not entitled to being pursued. If you can fit everything worthy about you in one paragraph, maybe you just aren't that interesting, and it has nothing to do with your appearance? I don't know, have you tried being a more open-minded person?

Vviiccttoorr · Answer

Personal preference with people or maybe they’re nervous

Anonymous · Answer

A 33year old single working mom? And you're wondering why you don't get hit on? Literaly every part of that is a reason.

You're definitely one of those girls who chased after fuckboys in their late teens and 20s. How the turn tables!

plzmee · Answer

Not a clue only thing I'd guess is that sexy office/librarian look you have going on intimidates those you're around

msc545 · Answer

I think you are very attractive, but you might need to smile a bit more. You look sort of stern in your photos. Also, maybe new glasses or just new frames?

InferiorElegy · Answer

You look like you give off a unapproachable, I don't need a man vibes and that's probably why guys don't approach you.  If you like a guy approach him.

normalice · Answer

No idea. My best guess is perhaps you seem unavailible.

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Probably guys think have a husband or boyfriend I guess

tattoed_soldier · Answer

I have no idea why that would be your beautiful you have your shit togetherand you are independent I could go on you so much you said but those trees around are definitely sexy and sough after

AxiDent75 · Answer

Yes, I agree with one of the other opinions, smiling makes you much more approachable. You are a beautiful woman, let us see you shine with a smile on your face.

BMWE46M3 · Answer

Ur cute, seems like u have a good body. But u do have. A serious face try relaxing a bit

Alpha4U · Answer

33 Single Mom Career Woman High value men are not interested.

Unit1 · Answer

With all due respect - single mothers aren't desirable unless it's single fathers.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Women hit on men for their social status. But men hit on women for their aesthetic appearance

Shivraj12s · Answer

Well i must date you (online)  But you will never hit on me 😂😂😂

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Why your asking? I'm not going to answer cause my answer might hurt your feelings...

Ironic_Method · Answer

I mean... I can hit on you if itll make you feel better.

Smegskull · Answer

You said it yourself, you're 33 years old and have a 12 year old son. You may have a lot going for you but you aren't wanting to date you, you want to date someone else.

RHK36 · Answer

You have a small case of rbf. Outside of that dunno, maybe you give off don't bother me vibes.

CreamySeed · Answer

I think girls getting hit on is a red flag she is about to get raped so be glad strangers dont slide into your DM

Joshua0213 · Answer

Personally I wouldn't have any issues with dating you but I know a lot of guys don't like ladies with kids. Could do with smiling more too

Anonymous · Answer

mnaybe becuz you look a lot older than 33. do you have that thing where your teeth are smaller than normal, that can cause the same thing

Anonymous · Answer

1. Getting old✔ 2. Small butt✔ 3. Little to no boobs✔ 4. Posting pictures of youself online✔ 5. A mixture of ego and insecurity ✔ 6. Glasses ✔ Now you know.

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