Dating Did you rehearse what to say before you ask your date out? (Page 2) ChikkyInfluencer Follow Yoda Age: 27 Follow FacebookTwitterWhatsApp 13 Did you rehearse what to say before you ask your date out? Post Opinion 60 Opinion Like Share Follow 4 likes
collie22 Follow Guru Age: 23 +1 y i've done that cause i need to hear it but not really in front of a mirror like that 1 0 Reply
blondfrog Follow Master Age: 32 +1 y 3.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. If you do that you are setting yourself up for failure. 1 0 Reply
WhiteWolf69 Follow Xper 5 Age: 37 +1 y No. I get nervous and intimidated by women anyway in that situation. I usually just ask them out while trying to hide my fear and nervous feelings. 1 0 Reply
SpaceGalaxy Follow Guru Age: 27 +1 y 862 opinions shared on Dating topic. I promised myself NOT to ask her for anal sex on our first date but i messed up and couldn't keep my freakin mouth shut! And NO, i did not get lucky 1 0 Reply
krin_m Follow Guru Age: 61 +1 y 722 opinions shared on Dating topic. I don't think there is anything to rehearse. I just plain ask, "Would you go out on a date with me?". 1 0 Reply
Pogi-Paddy-2 Follow Xper 7 Age: 56 +1 y No I don't rehearse anything before going on a date. 1 1 Reply Pogi-Paddy-2 +1 y The only reason I say this is if they can't handle the unrehearsed me then they are not the RIGHT one for me. Reply
Joshua0213 Follow Yoda Age: 22 +1 y 723 opinions shared on Dating topic. Nah if I mess it up either she doesn't care or it wasn't meant to be 1 0 Reply
shiril Follow Xper 5 Age: 27 +1 y No need to rehearse as it is going to be genuine, natural interaction/ expression, I think. 1 0 Reply
yupyupyuppers Follow Xper 1 Age: 31 +1 y Yes before but now I take away the date label so I can just relax and hang out with someone new 1 0 Reply
bagarBilla Follow Xper 1 Age: 36 +1 y No that will be scripted, what is someone dont ask / respond they way we expect? 1 0 Reply
Jmmmfi4 Follow Guru Age: 42 +1 y 2.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. Ph definitely. Happened to me just this morning. Kind of. 1 0 Reply
Anonymous (36-45) +1 y Why do I get the feeling that women will never start asking guys out in the masses or droves 1 3 Reply FlySwimmer +1 y They do tho lol, most of my friends in high school were actually asked out by the girl, wowwww🙄 bombers be like.. Reply Opinion Owner +1 y @FlySwimmer Interesting, a part of me doubts it will ever become mainstream or normalized Reply FlySwimmer +1 y For my generation it is, at least where I live, I have hope :) Reply
Avicenna Follow Master Age: 53 +1 y 15.3K opinions shared on Dating topic. No, I just decide what to say right in the spot 2 0 Reply
u boggboss Follow Master Age: 29 +1 y 10.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. Nope it leads to added pressure 2 0 Reply
WowwGirl Follow Guru Age: 35 +1 y 665 opinions shared on Dating topic. When I was like 12 I did 1 0 Reply
jasco Follow Guru Age: 21 +1 y 2.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. Nope it just sounds fake when you rehearse it 1 0 Reply
u Iron_Man Follow Master Age: 44 +1 y 17.8K opinions shared on Dating topic. No way my conversation comes from the heart 1 0 Reply
lovedejj_xo Follow Yoda Age: 27 +1 y 560 opinions shared on Dating topic. No because I’ve never asked a guy out 1 0 Reply
OddBeMe Follow Master Age: 40 +1 y 4K opinions shared on Dating topic. If not you should have. 1 0 Reply
Twalli Follow Master Age: 32 +1 y 3.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. A bit, but usually it's basic 1 0 Reply
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i've done that cause i need to hear it but not really in front of a mirror like that
If you do that you are setting yourself up for failure.
No. I get nervous and intimidated by women anyway in that situation. I usually just ask them out while trying to hide my fear and nervous feelings.
I promised myself NOT to ask her for anal sex on our first date but i messed up and couldn't keep my freakin mouth shut! And NO, i did not get lucky
I don't think there is anything to rehearse. I just plain ask, "Would you go out on a date with me?".
No I don't rehearse anything before going on a date.
The only reason I say this is if they can't handle the unrehearsed me then they are not the RIGHT one for me.
Nah if I mess it up either she doesn't care or it wasn't meant to be
No need to rehearse as it is going to be genuine, natural interaction/ expression, I think.
Yes before but now I take away the date label so I can just relax and hang out with someone new
No that will be scripted, what is someone dont ask / respond they way we expect?
Ph definitely. Happened to me just this morning. Kind of.
Why do I get the feeling that women will never start asking guys out in the masses or droves
They do tho lol, most of my friends in high school were actually asked out by the girl, wowwww🙄 bombers be like..
@FlySwimmer Interesting, a part of me doubts it will ever become mainstream or normalized
For my generation it is, at least where I live, I have hope :)
No, I just decide what to say right in the spot
Nope it leads to added pressure
When I was like 12 I did
Nope it just sounds fake when you rehearse it
No way my conversation comes from the heart
No because I’ve never asked a guy out
If not you should have.
A bit, but usually it's basic