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What are your "Non Negotiables" in dating, relationships and life? (Page 3)
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No sex before marriage (for me or her.)
That is really the only non-negotiable for me.
No smoking, not fat, high libido as me, active, communicative, not cold hearted, not radical on each political party, not religious, wants kids someday... If I will be enlightened by more, I will comment.
Walk with Jesus is my main one. Anyone I date must be strong in their walk with Jesus because all my morals are based on my faith. Most other things are case by case.
No smoking, little or no alcohol, must be kind to others, honest, caring. Needs a sense of humor and be reasonably intelligent.
Low body count, good spending habbits, not athletic but active, a job,
No cheating
No porn
No porn? good luck with that one.
It's visual cheating
Is porn vital?
No porn is not vital but I would assume 90% of men watch it. I don't agree it's visual cheating LOL If you all went to a movie together and saw people having sex then i guess you both be cheating? Makes no sense lol
I don't watch sex scenes in movies and skip them
Our parents and grandparents lived fine without porn!
Would you be ok with your wife staring at a stranger man masturbating in a park and her drooling over him from a distance and getting horny?
My wife would not be in a park starring at some man. Now if she wants to watch porn we can watch it and enjoy it together... just like toys or lingerie... spices up the bedroom.
See I don't see any difference between the 2 scenarios.
Except one is doing it in front of the camera.
@coachTanthony I wouldn't consider porn cheating, however you can google the many, many negative side effects of porn. I refuse to date a man who watches so much porn that he can't get turned on by ordinary, average looking women. I've spoken to guys in their early 20's that either can't climax or maintain an erection during sex without porn. Porn sick, limp dick. Porn even increases rates of infidelity, so @NorthAfrican isn't completely wrong.
@ilikefrogsalot I don't disagree or am I arguing any of your points.
she must believe what I believe
and must believe it my way
good luck finding a girl like that lol
1) Disrespectful and interruption while am talking.
2) Not giving blow job. ( No deal without it)
3) Bad hygiene
4) No chemistry (we got nothing in common )
5) at least isn't 7 or 8 in looks. Anything below that I don't even look at.
Religion or other counter factual beliefs, tobacco, lack of empathy, authoritarianism.
Bad breath. Aids vaginas. Bad breath and aids vaginas.
no liberals
no big girls, only really skinny ones actually
MUST swallow
no shopaholics
no women who complain about or avoid "taking care of business" if I am holding up my end of the bargain
If you are legitimately mentally ill, that’s a no go.
If you try to make me jealous after we are already dating, it’s over.
I don’t need crazy bitches or attention whores.
The big one would be religion. We must agree on raising kids (I do want kids, if she didn't probably not a good fit, at least be willing to adopt)
No smoking and no drugs to start with. I am inclined to say "no lying", but perhaps that's too idealistic.
I have a lot of non negotiables. Her and I have discussed and agreed upon our negotiables and non negotiables.
I need her to be a fellow Christian waiting until marriage before sex.
Any promiscuity in any shape or form is a no go.
We will have sex before marriage
Does not want to give birth
Non-smoker
Don't have a bitchy personality. If you do, external beauty won't get you very far with real men.
She has to be Human. She has to be living. There has to be chemistry.