Are women capable of loving person without being judgmental?

[Anonymous]

I realized that a lot women can't control how they feel about a person they're dating, they judge harshly if the guy didn't turn out to be like they thought he would.

My facial features are very masculine which always gives girls the impression that i'm dominant which i am but not in the same way they think.

I'm very opinionated, really brave, kind, careless about what other people think and i like to lead the relationship.

I get easily jealous when someone stares at my girl but the problem is when i'm dating i don't know how to be mean lol

When i'm dating i turn weak, i agree on everything, i turn into a simp and i just can't be mean and ignore her messages she used to send. I just don't know how to say No.

I'm a virgin (by my own choice) but once i was talking on the phone with my ex girlfriend and out of no where she got horny, half time into the sexy talk things got too steamy lol, the talk needed to be more rough which made me a little insecure and i couldn't act dominant which made her get the idea that i suck at this (maybe i do, i don't know honestly)

This destroyed my confidence to zero and also other things in the relationship made her think like that, so she lost interest and told me that i'm not what she thought i was, so she shot the bullet and broke up with me.

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This made me realize that this had happened to a lot of guys and that girls are extremely judgmental.

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Also, i'm not direct when i'm angry. I don't know how to express my angry.