What are qualities that are rare in women today and would make a girl dateable? (Page 2)

[FoxnEagle]

Self-humility without being a total defeatist.
My experience is women who think they are an exception to something, or bury themselves in the ground thinking they're not good enough for something.

I kinda get it, not many people want to be "average," but it is what it is, live with it.

[AlexanderAnttila]

Real submissiveness as in an aversion to rebellious attitudes. Which is balanced with a strong spirit and character so that she isn't just a plain-jane boring-dame.
Active desire for motherhood.
Non-quarrelsome, willing to drop things to move on.
Willing to admit fault and actually wanting to rectify mistakes.
Genuinely fun to be around. That might sound like scathing critique but few women I have met have been real fun just to hang out with.

[Torari]

I wouldn't say rare, but a lot of women suppress it because of social pressures to be "strong and independent". Which feminists seem to think is impossible if you're primarily a mother.

But i find it very attractive when a woman has strong maternal instincts. The kind of woman who puts kids before career.

[Kenpachi04]

Any quality of a girl is dateable depending upon the opposite persons preference ! There are many qualities and each person has his own set of likes and dislikes in each quality ! I personally prefer the ones who share their true thoughts and feelings to the best they can ! So that I will be able to understand them much clear to enable a smooth relationship.

[amaguqe]

Today, at least among my generation and bit younger than me, it would be so refreshing to stumble upon a girl that is not depressed. It is heartbreaking for me that this is the case, but it seems true.

Generally speaking, I think hook-up culture sucked the fun out of dating. It simply doesn't feel good to jump from one person to another. Also, sex is way better when you are with someone for a longer period of time, when you learn how to tick each other's boxes.

[SlavBoi]

Being self sufficient and actually willing to be on equal level, being a hustler
So that we both pay for lunch, mortgage, gifts, fun and all that.
If someone's gonna be spoiled in the relationship, it should be both of us.
If a woman can start a business and make the best out of life by herself (she probably wouldn't date me then), it's a 100% yes from my side

[Furuok]

Acceptance? Woman always say they like aggressive men. I'm so damn aggressive. I often get warning like " my boyfriend " or " your old enough to be my dad " to be so ugly can't have a normal conversation without having women think I just want them. Can I have a nice day where there's a beautiful lady and a conversation? Crap why do women make me feel like a creep when I know I already look like one.

[Anonymous]

It's rare for women to genuinely care about the guy. This may come as a shock to you but it's true. You can be a caring person and still not give a hoot about him and most women don't. What do I mean? I mean you can ask her does she like him and she'd say yes but she wouldn't be able to tell you why. In other words she would say " I like his biceps" but she would have no clue what his dreams and aspirations are. Because most women only care about a guy deep enough to how it affects them.

[HopelessRomantic273]

Your telling the sad unfortunate truth bro

[RawIronhide]

Humility, everyone is "pretty" and that makes them feel entitled for some reason. Every girl I've talked to sense graduation likes to brag that they were a model. Its not that impessive and is kinda shallow for you to think I'm impressed by that.

[JackSmy]

Things that have ALWAYS been true, and necessary: Integrity, Honesty, Compassion, Fidelity.
If she has all of those, I couldn't care less if she was a waitress, or Doctor! It is about those traits, and how we relate, and how we like one another.