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Do you view a girl differently if she approaches you first? (Page 2)
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It’s a huge turn on. I feel bad because of mainstream media and propaganda that modern day young men are bitches. They cry easily, they sit at home playing video games all day, don’t exercise and don’t even know what to do with their own dick.
Wrong, almost every woman I went with picked me up. That is the way it should be. It is stupid for the man to chase since women are the finicky ones while the man will basically jump anything that moves.
Yes but it doesn't change my taste in girls, so if wrong girl approaches it will lead to a rejection. However I would say that she got better odds approaching and giving it a chance then if she doesn't and wait for me to pick her and do the job.
He must be very self conscience or too masculine.
I have had no issues with this, I view it as a good thing as most guys, including me... are oblivious and may not even know someone is interested in us.
Generally positively. Could be negative.
The short version is that if you approached me and it was negative then the reasons that made that so meant that it probably wasn’t going to work anyway. So functionally it has no negative effect, but it does have the advantage of making things happen.
No, I would really like to see women approaching men and engaging in meaningful conversations become more mainstream. If we all out here fighting for sexual equality, then we should encourage women to take charge of the conversation!
But that could just be me! I try to keep an open mind at all times🙃
Yeah it's a good thing but now in the present climate between MeToo, how busy I am and all the faults I'm not subjecting anyone else to.
I just don a wedding band and drink my scotch alone at the bar
I think it's kind of the same for women. You probably like it if a guy that you are attracted to approaches you, but if it's a guy you are not attracted to it may be awkward.
Nope. Quite the opposite. Most of the girls I've been with, approached me.
Guys that are insecure, tend to have issues with people doing things for them, or approaching them.
Well I'm waiting for you to ask me how let's go why you standing there for with your mouth all open say something do something.
kiss kiss
Would depend on her body language & how she interacted with other guys after. I would be suspicious she may of been around a bit. I try not to judge but that's not for me. My Venus is in cancer.
You are around some very insecure moron guys if they feel emasculated by you approaching them... pussies.
Emasculates? No lol, I like to be the one who make the first move though. Honestly when a girl is approach its kinda scary because some women do it for just attention or play you which it did happen to me. But some guys love it
Some girls. If I approach I mean business..
Yeah some..
She's brave, knows what she wants, and I know she's interested.(and non of this does she actually have romantic intentions or just being nice shenanigans)
i doubt there will ever be a century or millenium in which it becomes more common for women to approach men, its apparently against a womans DNA to refuse to approach a guy, even if she is attracted to him
The one thing I would love, and probably expect, in my life. For a happily ever after I kind of find it compulsory (because I have a huge workload of politics, so a girl I need to do things for, not sure could cut it).
In general, it wouldn't have any major impact. Other factors would matter more.
The guys who you say felt emasculated, well you can't speak for every guy, but yeah I doubt this will ever become more common or mainstream
I want you to. date me
What do you mean by that?
I see you comment a lot and I want to get to know you, I think we would get along greeeaaat
Are you saying that you find me cute or attractive?
check your messages!
I have not received any PM's from you
check the box that says "other messages" its right beside inbox
Yeah, more positively for having the gumption to do it.
well there's no way in hell im ever gonna approach a girl, so if she wants anything to happen the girl will have to make the first move
Do you think that's because of you not wanting to be labeled a certain way or are you just shy?
@CrotchRot I've been rejected like 100000 times n it jus makes me sad every time i get rejected... not worth it anymore lol
You may want to adjust your approach. And don't give up. You can't succeed unless you fail.
@CrotchRot i jus be myself and act the way i want, changing my approach would mean being fake and being an actor... i dont want a girl to be in love with someone im not... so i will keep my approach.. its jus that no girls like who i am like the real me :(