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Well if you have to take advice from women you must not be doing too well on your own. So where do you think it is best to get advice from, another man who is also stumped about advice or straight from the horse's mouth? Feel free to bypass a woman's advice, but then don't go complaining because you don't know what women want and can't get a date.
I would SAY first let all womens know themselves, they are already quagmired in their own world of day dreaming of what they want in a guy until marriage and contiue if that is an arranged one. Untethered from reality. Although there are some basic essential features but only 1% of women even deserve that. When u go for looks u r name called of being objectifying but they blatantly shout tall tall what was that mofos.. so bot u better be urself and treat any women as per ur real behaviour and that is how u r among ur besties see if she is likes u then, go for her coz its effortless now.
A woman can tell you how to be the main character in a romantic comedy that is all about her. The goofy, spineless butt kisser who needs a woman to be in his sight 24/7 or he will die of loneliness.
A man can tell you how to be the screenwriter and director of whatever movie you want to create and the woman is in YOUR film.
That said, a few women give good advice. Just not the vast majority. On the flip side there's tons of guys with bad advice too so how do you tell which is which? The worst thing a young 20s person can do is listen to somebody their own age, I'd say.
If I say what I want, it’s what I want. It’s not for anyone else to tell me I don’t mean it. Nobody can speak for all women. We can only speak for ourselves
I think guys should also get dating advice from women; however, they need to take into account that it may be biased toward optimality. To give an example-, my stepmother gave good relationship advice, but she always told me my girlfriends that she met weren’t attractive enough for me and “I could do better”. It was bad advice because I care more about her personality, heart, and whether she’s fun to be around.
It makes no sense to get advice from anyone on how to pick up a gender.
Each person likes different things so how can 1 technique work when they're billions of people in that gender and they all have different interests.
This is why most advice given in regards to this matter is generally speaking, often left to the viewers discretion. Although everybody is different we also share a lot of similarities even down to how we think as we are human.
Because the men are naive and foolish.
The best dating advice is to not date.
Feminists have had laws made that made it dangerous to have any form of interaction with a female.
Do not even look at a female, because in some jurisdictions looking in the direction of a female is sexual harassment, perhaps even sexual assault.
Give women the wall of silence, for which Feminists fought so hard.
Guys take dating advice from women who don't know what they are talking about. Most women love the bad boys but when asked if Carl over here should start acting like a bad boy they will say no no we love that Carl is a sweet guy but they won't date Carl when asked. Be careful out there and who you listen too.
If you’re a straight guy and don’t take advice from literal women trying to help you than that’s weird. Since they’re a women they’ll help more cause those make pick up artists 100% definitely get no hoes
great answer
A little boy growing into a man doesn't first seek a pick up artist on how to get with girls. Those little kids tend to speak to their parents first or try learn how to through movies and TV shows.
Which essentially tells them just be nice to her and she will want you. When this kid implaments this and still doesn't have success but rather sees the "a**holes"getting with them. They seek to go be like the "a**holes" that are getting results, most of which so happen to be pick up artists.
Pick up artists pay for the women they have. If you’ve actually looked at pick up artists all they do is make women uncomfortable and scared.
Dude, your generalizing too much. Each girl is different and looks for different things. Of course everyone wants someone who is nice, but there are other qualities that most girls aren’t so quick to give out just because they aren’t the most important quality on their list.
Well, their moms are meant to be helping.
The rest, yeah - it takes a long time to realise they either want to date you or are not interested (with an exception here or there)
It isn't like you can ask guys for dating advice though - very few good role models out there
It all comes down to one key fact. Women "like" nice guys but they are not sexually attracted to them. It's the so called bad boys who make their panties wet. They don't like those guys, but they are happy to fuck them. When it comes time to settle down and marry a guy who will be stable and a good provider and father to her children, a woman will compromise and settle for the nice guy.
Glad you understand this young. It’s tempting to go right to the source for an answer. But for most women what they “say” they want is rarely the same as what they really want.
Just a FYI there is a point where you do have to take female feedback at face value and that happens when you are in a long term relationship with them. But prior to that you need to hold your own, respect yourself and be a challenge. See yourself as valuable.
We tell them things based off of our individual experiences, it varies from woman to woman.
That’s not true. I genuinely just want that kind of man but loyal men who adore you and respect you are hard to come by.
Have you considered the possibility that maybe the guys you turn down could be these guys at which you say you are looking for.
However due to other unstated factors you may not have given them a chance.
@micah2000 You speak as if you know I have turned down many men. I haven’t had the opportunity to turn down that many men loool I barely know any. I have only been in one long term relationship which lasted seven years so most of my life went towards making that work. Frankly I don’t know of any boys other than my boyfriend because I am from an orthodox community and we don’t go out much.
A clever person will take advice from anyone willing to give it, then use their own common sense to cherry pick the best bits.
You can't go off of what even the woman herself says. Just have to give it a shot to get what you want from her and read her signals. She maybe saying I dont want to fuck, but yet here she is yanking on your hand towards her pussy.
Because apparently no species on earth know women more than women, but even they have difficulty getting along at times.
Umm why why a women like your mom or sister have reason to be like that. You sound jaded. Same reason ladies ask a guy friend about their boyfriend. We have insight they do not.
I've gotten some good dating advice from women. You just can't ask them a straight general "what do women want?" kind of question or of course you get BS.