I moved to a new country few weeks ago and started Tindering. Honestly, being new in town completely alone, my priority is meeting new people, gaining friends and casually dating. So I matched with this guy and we went out on a date (initiated by him). It felt really natural and I had a great time! Turned out we're neighbors and he was walking me through the hood and showing me what's what. Then we went for drinks which he payed for, and then he walked me home. We talked about relationships and dating, and he said that he's not actively looking to settle down because he's used to being on his own and he travels a lot for work, and that he just hasn't met a girl who's okay with his way of dating - that he doesn't like constant texting or committed dates, that he's schedule is pretty hectic and he doesn't know when he's free or not, or simply not always in the mood. He said that sometimes he can disappear for a month (even with friends and family) and that people usually complain to him about that. Well since my mindset was just casual it seemed perfect combo for me. Then when I got home, he texted me that I'm awfully sexy and that he had great time and wished me good night. And since was pretty much the only person I met there (my first friend) I naturally asked him about stuff around the city, and ever since day 1 he's been a life-saver for me. He's been helping me with moving, going out of his way with me to buy stuff, move furniture, help with documentation, etc. etc. you know all the necessary stuff I needed badly and don't know if I could do myself. And I didn't ask for any of it, he gladly offered.
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Then one thing led to another and we had sex. It was amazing. We even stayed in, cuddled, made pizza, talked, laughed. He asked for me to stay the night but I had to go home. And then almost 5 days went by without a word from him. I got a bit worried and called him to see what's up, and he said he was thinking about me and wanted to call. He also said he's super busy with his own moving and work. But then I asked him for a favor again and he was happy to jump in.
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He helped me with that too and we had sex again later. Then I mentioned hanging out next time and he said "absolutely, I'm down to it anytime, just call me whenever". Now days also went by without him initiating and I think he is really just waiting for me to do it all. And I'm pretty sure he'll follow if I call, he's been like that from the start. So, do you think I should just take the lead or is he not really into me?
