If I know he likes me and I like him - then he knows I like him and he will ask me out. If I really like him then maybe I step up my flirting, maybe add some appropriate touching. But in the end I prefer a man to be strong, confident and assertive so if he does not ask then it was not meant to be.
sadly no, this still normally doesn't happen and will more than likely never become more common, its easy to sometimes resent women due to always expecting guys to ask them out first or make the first move on them
nope never and never will! asking and pursing is a masculine man behavior, men who likes to be chased are more feminine and I don't like that at all, turn off
I am just a nice , married man. But right after I got married I had two girls ask me out. Then about ten years ago I had another one do it. If I wasn't married I definitely would have taken them up on the offer.
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Literally only once. And that was the woman I was almost going to marry. And we had known each other for a while during that time.
In my lifetime i've been asked out by four women , I've asked seven out. The only long term relationships I've had is with women who asked me out.
Yeah, absolutely. The first time it happened to me as an adult, I thought some co-workers had put her up to doing it as a prank so I turned her down.
I've been ask out many times and i rejected countless of guys becuz I only pick the best
And I ask a guy out I genuinely really really like 😻
nope, I flirt but never asked a guy out. If he is interested he will ask.
okay, but what if he is really shy and you really like him and you just know he likes you too but cannot make the first move?
If I know he likes me and I like him - then he knows I like him and he will ask me out. If I really like him then maybe I step up my flirting, maybe add some appropriate touching. But in the end I prefer a man to be strong, confident and assertive so if he does not ask then it was not meant to be.
okay- thanks for that.
sadly no, this still normally doesn't happen and will more than likely never become more common, its easy to sometimes resent women due to always expecting guys to ask them out first or make the first move on them
nope I take the initiative to start conversations and maybe flirt a bit but I’ve never actually asked a guy out
Yea I have , that turned into a 6 year relationship
Yes and I rejected them all because they were not worthy.
I'm sure this will always be extremely rare sadly, I highly doubt this will ever become mainstream or normalized
I agree but still it happens. If it can happen to me, it can happen to anybody.
Yeah I was being sarcastic because I've always resented how excited this dynamic is but sadly can't do anything about it
I wrote letter about likening a guy but he end up rejecting me anyway. I another girl set me up with a guy that liked me and I also liked.
My ex told me that she had an interest in me before we started dating, so yeah I guess that counts.
nope never and never will! asking and pursing is a masculine man behavior, men who likes to be chased are more feminine and I don't like that at all, turn off
thank you for the opinion. I get it.
sure, you're welcome. I just asked a question I would appreciate a lot if you answered... thank you too :)
Yup, she tricked me and caught me totally by surprise.
It was fun while it lasted.
Last couple of times (15 fcking years ago) it happened naturally. We just start talking, mention food and a drink in natural conversation.
What 8s this dreamland you speak of? Women asking men out? But that's not their job lol.
It has happened to me on more than one occasion. All after I got married.
What is your secret? You a model? À doctor or something m
I am just a nice , married man. But right after I got married I had two girls ask me out. Then about ten years ago I had another one do it. If I wasn't married I definitely would have taken them up on the offer.
Now that I believe you. When you have someone, they all want you. When you have no one, not many want you lol. Well my experience anyways.
Exactly. I have asked that very same question and really got no definitive answer.
Yes but In a strange way. Latin women pulled up in her car and approached me with naked selfies. Nice melons. I’ve been asked out twice so far
Yes but In a strange way. Latin women pulled up in her car and approached me with naked selfies. Nice melons. I’ve been asked out twice so far
I did. Actually about half of the girls I dated asked me out.
Nope, never happened. At least not unless we allready know eachother.