It is not evident to at least one user on this site who keeps butting in and telling everyone that Asian is a type of food, not a race. And another, a blue anon, says "interracial only applies to whites and blacks."
yes its an interracial relationship because you are each from a different race. saddly if it was based off porn tagging it would not be viewed as such because most of the time, only black with white is deemed interracial.
I am white and had a relationship with a Japanese girl. Oddly enough many people didn't consider that to be an interracial relationship. I believe it was.
She is probably a younger woman trying to get in the country using a wife visa and you will be her sponsor or she thinks you have money. Yes it is a interracial relationship.
The definition of an interracial relationship is different races dating. You’re white, she’s Asian, therefore it’s interracial. But also who gives a fuck lol it’s your relationship, why should it be anyone else’s business
It's not a race and calling me stupid does not validate that. And google also says Asian is a food not race lol. By that logic Russian and German are also interracial relationships.
And you’re uneducated and it’s showing :) it’s common knowledge that Asians are not white. If they were, then where’s the privilege? And they were then why are we discriminated? Just because some of our skin tones resemble white people don’t make us white. Also Asians are from asia not from Europe like white people are. Did you fail geography? Aren’t you a grown woman? 🤡
Yes well I'm Chinese and interested in all kinds of races for dating so I'm all for it. Bring on the ladies haha jk but also kinda serious.
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Are you sure you don't have a yellow fever? Cause the fact you felt the need to say you don't tend to prove that you have it and the fact you're rude towards her (insulting her food and behavior) make me think you're racist. Yes, this is an international relationship and I don't think you're ready to be in one.
I mean if someone might have slightly stronger preference for Asian girls why is that a bad thing or yellow fever? :) In case of older and wiser from his past MyTake I do remember he's been in few relationships and they're not been just Asian, so clearly he doesn't have a preference just for Asian women.
@Oram52 Never said it was a bad things but then don't come and say you don't have any preference that's just hypocrisy. I prefer White guys and don't fear saying it, I just find hypocrite to be extremely annoying. But preferring one race to another in dating is totally ok.
I mean still wouldn't use words like yellow fever, you are right we all have preferences, nothing wrong with it. You Anonymous so would you mind me asking if you're Asian?
@Oram52 Yes and no depend how she grew up, if she grew up in her culture then she most likely would prefer Asian guys but if not, she would prefer others guys (White or Black depending on her interest in music and such) because they would feel closer to them in terms of culture (and White are usually more open minded usually).
On previous posts, I have mentioned dating a Chinese woman and got a few replies that I "must" have "yellow fever," and that expression bothers me, so I don't want to hear it. In my lifetime, I have dated two Filipinos, one Chinese woman, one Vietnamese woman, and an Indian woman. No, I don't have a preference for Asian women
If saying I DON'T have something proves that I DO have it, I suppose I would say that I am NOT handsome, charming, and brilliant. I also am NOT from Mars. :) :) :)
It's just weird to say it, when someone say stuff like that it's cause deep down there's some kind of true to it. If not they would not feel the need to say it.
I was just going for causation. You said saying I have preference for Asian girls is weird (at least that is my understanding). I'm saying why though? Me saying I prefer choc mint Ice Cream isn't weird. You said it yourself just acknowledge it, if me saying I prefer Asian girls is weird, wouldn't you saying I prefer white guys also be weird? :)
"the fact you're rude towards her (insulting her food and behavior) make me think you're racist."
LMAO Have you ever been in a relationship? In a FUN relationship there's a lot of teasing going on. I dated a Thai girl, and she ate the weirdest shit. Fish heads, fish eyes, grasshoppers, rotten duck eggs... I teased her about it all the time, and she just laughed. And she teased me about my culture, and I laughed. How is any of that racist? Oh, and of course she's difficult to understand. And to her, he's difficult to understand. That's pretty much how language works. I fail to see any racism in any of this. Maybe it's just because the media is now making racism such a popular thing, nowadays.
"and the fact you're rude towards her (insulting her food and behavior) make me think you're racist." Joking with her about eating chicken feet is not insulting. If the facts mean anything to your opinion, she has never once felt insulted by me.
"Yes, this is an international relationship and I don't think you're ready to be in one." Fortunately, 21 year old girls who have swallowed the koolaid are not in charge of my life.
@JimBeams haha. I am chinese American myself, born in US, have chinese parents. So I know both cultures extremely well. US and Asian cultures are completely different and quite honestly opposite in almost in every way. Both cultures have absolutely nothing in common. So if you want me to be honest, you shouldn't be looking for someone you can relate to on a cultural level , if you're looking to date an immigrant from an Asian country. You're much more likely to have thing is in common with an Asian girl who speaks fluent English and is born / raised in the US.
Asian immigrants do not tend to like to date outside their race at all. Very few immigrants would do that. Asians tend to be very narrow minded and cliquey in general.,
But anything is possible. I have seen white men have relationships with Asian women who speak broken English. Everyone is different.
I read your reply about 5 times, and I'm at a loss as to why you're telling me this. I was just sticking up for the author of the question, because someone called him a racist. Not wanting to eat chicken feet does NOT make you a racist. It's just the way it is.
My Asian girlfriend thought that mashed potatoes were disgusting! What the fuck? What kind of a total monster would you have to be to denounce mashed potatoes and gravy? Anyway, if Wiser says he doesn't have "yellow fever" I have to take that at face vallue, because how the fuck would I know if that's true. I, on the other hand, did have yellow fever. I thought that Thai women were the most beautiful women on the planet.
And it's not likely that anyone would take my advice, but I'm going to just throw it out there.
DO NOT DATE/MARRY A PERSON WHO IS NOT FLUENT IN YOUR LANGUAGE!
And for those who don't know this..."fluent" ONLY means you can get by with the language.
If you ever want to teach English as a second language, they are ONLY looking for "native" speakers. "Fluent" won't get you in the door. Fluent is crap.
So, since men are from Mars, and women are from Venus, the last thing you need is a layer of language barrier on top of that.
@JimBeams listen dude I am Chinese American myself. I am aware that American men have absolutely nothing in common with Asian immigrants. The only reason why any American would marry an Asian immigrant fresh off the boat who speaks broken English is because he likes her physically
You can’t sit here and lie to me that you got with an Asian immigrant That you have nothing in common with , just because you were Attracted to other things.
Around 85-90 % of the time , Any American gets with an Asian immigrant especially if she is fresh off the boat , can’t really speak good English , he has yellow fever. Because there is no other reason why he would be with someone like that
It’s ok to have an Asian fetish. But as someone who is thoroughly knowledgeable of both cultures , there are things that I know that you aren’t aware of
@JimBeams the same reason why it’s so shocking to see an Asian woman ear chicken feet or fish eyes is the same reason why I stress the immense differences between both cultures. Both cultures have absolutely nothing in common : food, parenting , educationally, sleep/ wake patterns, Desired temperature of drinking water eating habits, cooking habits , marriage ideals etc.
Lemme edit this *you're miserable, aren't you? BLOCKED * We all figure that when he says Asian he is indicating someone that might be a Mongoloid or that doesn't share his race because of the interracial question. When you check off a racial category from a government form Asian is one of them. No one is going deep, I hate when people know what's going on and what is meant but want to act like a know it all's when no one asked for their input. Not every time someone is in the mood for the bs.
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You are white.
She is Chinese.
That is self-evidently an inter-racial relationship.
It is not evident to at least one user on this site who keeps butting in and telling everyone that Asian is a type of food, not a race. And another, a blue anon, says "interracial only applies to whites and blacks."
yes its an interracial relationship because you are each from a different race. saddly if it was based off porn tagging it would not be viewed as such because most of the time, only black with white is deemed interracial.
I am white and had a relationship with a Japanese girl. Oddly enough many people didn't consider that to be an interracial relationship. I believe it was.
Not that it matters either way but yes it is interracial
(most) Chinese are Mongoliod and (most) White people are Caucasoid
They both came from each other. The caves.
She is probably a younger woman trying to get in the country using a wife visa and you will be her sponsor or she thinks you have money. Yes it is a interracial relationship.
She has been here since 1991 and has been a US citizen since 2006.
Technically yes because you are from different races but who gives a fuck enjoy each other and embrace your differences
Just wondering, what kind of people accuse you of having "yellow fever," @olderandwiser? Is it in real life?
I'm curious to figure out if they're the same kind of fucktards who accuse me of having YF too. 😆
No, it is the people of G@G!
The definition of an interracial relationship is different races dating. You’re white, she’s Asian, therefore it’s interracial. But also who gives a fuck lol it’s your relationship, why should it be anyone else’s business
Asian is a food not a race.
It's not a race and calling me stupid does not validate that. And google also says Asian is a food not race lol. By that logic Russian and German are also interracial relationships.
There are 5 main races, Asian is one of them. If Asian isn’t a race, then what are Chinese people? Are they white? Because they definitely aren’t.
They are white. They came from the same place white people came from. You are under 18 and it's showing.
And you’re uneducated and it’s showing :) it’s common knowledge that Asians are not white. If they were, then where’s the privilege? And they were then why are we discriminated? Just because some of our skin tones resemble white people don’t make us white. Also Asians are from asia not from Europe like white people are. Did you fail geography? Aren’t you a grown woman? 🤡
Yeap. But that’s just because it’s between two races. That’s it. Love is love
Technically yes, but it makes absolutely no difference at all. My SO is French... and... so what?
It doesn't bother me at all. There is a hidden agenda with this question.
As long as she has a cunt and it's good then what's the problem?
I never suggested that there was a problem. She's great!
Yes it is. She's Asian and you're White. Those relationships are common and fine to me.
It doesn’t really matter either way but in technical terms, yes it’s an interracial relationship
Well yes, but who fucking cares? You like who you like.
Yes well I'm Chinese and interested in all kinds of races for dating so I'm all for it. Bring on the ladies haha jk but also kinda serious.
Are you sure you don't have a yellow fever? Cause the fact you felt the need to say you don't tend to prove that you have it and the fact you're rude towards her (insulting her food and behavior) make me think you're racist.
Yes, this is an international relationship and I don't think you're ready to be in one.
I mean if someone might have slightly stronger preference for Asian girls why is that a bad thing or yellow fever? :)
In case of older and wiser from his past MyTake I do remember he's been in few relationships and they're not been just Asian, so clearly he doesn't have a preference just for Asian women.
@Oram52 Never said it was a bad things but then don't come and say you don't have any preference that's just hypocrisy.
I prefer White guys and don't fear saying it, I just find hypocrite to be extremely annoying.
But preferring one race to another in dating is totally ok.
I mean still wouldn't use words like yellow fever, you are right we all have preferences, nothing wrong with it. You Anonymous so would you mind me asking if you're Asian?
@Oram52 I'm Mixed, White / Asian
Would you say there is any truth to the stereotype, that Asian girls prefer white guys?
@Oram52 Yes and no depend how she grew up, if she grew up in her culture then she most likely would prefer Asian guys but if not, she would prefer others guys (White or Black depending on her interest in music and such) because they would feel closer to them in terms of culture (and White are usually more open minded usually).
On previous posts, I have mentioned dating a Chinese woman and got a few replies that I "must" have "yellow fever," and that expression bothers me, so I don't want to hear it. In my lifetime, I have dated two Filipinos, one Chinese woman, one Vietnamese woman, and an Indian woman. No, I don't have a preference for Asian women
If saying I DON'T have something proves that I DO have it, I suppose I would say that I am NOT handsome, charming, and brilliant. I also am NOT from Mars. :) :) :)
It's just weird to say it, when someone say stuff like that it's cause deep down there's some kind of true to it. If not they would not feel the need to say it.
Not really :) what would make it weird? Hey I like chocolate mint ice cream, is that weird?
@Oram52 What? That doesn't make any sense
I was just going for causation. You said saying I have preference for Asian girls is weird (at least that is my understanding). I'm saying why though? Me saying I prefer choc mint Ice Cream isn't weird. You said it yourself just acknowledge it, if me saying I prefer Asian girls is weird, wouldn't you saying I prefer white guys also be weird? :)
" If not they would not feel the need to say it." So there is only ONE possible reason for me to say "I don't have Asian fever?"
"the fact you're rude towards her (insulting her food and behavior) make me think you're racist."
LMAO Have you ever been in a relationship? In a FUN relationship there's a lot of teasing going on. I dated a Thai girl, and she ate the weirdest shit. Fish heads, fish eyes, grasshoppers, rotten duck eggs...
I teased her about it all the time, and she just laughed. And she teased me about my culture, and I laughed. How is any of that racist? Oh, and of course she's difficult to understand. And to her, he's difficult to understand. That's pretty much how language works. I fail to see any racism in any of this.
Maybe it's just because the media is now making racism such a popular thing, nowadays.
"and the fact you're rude towards her (insulting her food and behavior) make me think you're racist." Joking with her about eating chicken feet is not insulting. If the facts mean anything to your opinion, she has never once felt insulted by me.
"Yes, this is an international relationship and I don't think you're ready to be in one." Fortunately, 21 year old girls who have swallowed the koolaid are not in charge of my life.
@JimBeams haha. I am chinese American myself, born in US, have chinese parents. So I know both cultures extremely well. US and Asian cultures are completely different and quite honestly opposite in almost in every way. Both cultures have absolutely nothing in common. So if you want me to be honest, you shouldn't be looking for someone you can relate to on a cultural level , if you're looking to date an immigrant from an Asian country. You're much more likely to have thing is in common with an Asian girl who speaks fluent English and is born / raised in the US.
Asian immigrants do not tend to like to date outside their race at all. Very few immigrants would do that. Asians tend to be very narrow minded and cliquey in general.,
But anything is possible. I have seen white men have relationships with Asian women who speak broken English. Everyone is different.
@Arabella_Rose
I read your reply about 5 times, and I'm at a loss as to why you're telling me this. I was just sticking up for the author of the question, because someone called him a racist. Not wanting to eat chicken feet does NOT make you a racist. It's just the way it is.
My Asian girlfriend thought that mashed potatoes were disgusting! What the fuck? What kind of a total monster would you have to be to denounce mashed potatoes and gravy?
Anyway, if Wiser says he doesn't have "yellow fever" I have to take that at face vallue, because how the fuck would I know if that's true.
I, on the other hand, did have yellow fever. I thought that Thai women were the most beautiful women on the planet.
And it's not likely that anyone would take my advice, but I'm going to just throw it out there.
DO NOT DATE/MARRY A PERSON WHO IS NOT FLUENT IN YOUR LANGUAGE!
And for those who don't know this..."fluent" ONLY means you can get by with the language.
If you ever want to teach English as a second language, they are ONLY looking for "native" speakers.
"Fluent" won't get you in the door. Fluent is crap.
So, since men are from Mars, and women are from Venus, the last thing you need is a layer of language barrier on top of that.
It's a trainwreck waiting to happen.
@JimBeams listen dude I am Chinese American myself. I am aware that American men have absolutely nothing in common with Asian immigrants. The only reason why any American would marry an Asian immigrant fresh off the boat who speaks broken English is because he likes her physically
You can’t sit here and lie to me that you got with an Asian immigrant That you have nothing in common with , just because you were Attracted to other things.
Around 85-90 % of the time , Any American gets with an Asian immigrant especially if she is fresh off the boat , can’t really speak good English , he has yellow fever. Because there is no other reason why he would be with someone like that
It’s ok to have an Asian fetish. But as someone who is thoroughly knowledgeable of both cultures , there are things that I know that you aren’t aware of
@JimBeams the same reason why it’s so shocking to see an Asian woman ear chicken feet or fish eyes is the same reason why I stress the immense differences between both cultures. Both cultures have absolutely nothing in common : food, parenting , educationally, sleep/ wake patterns, Desired temperature of drinking water eating habits, cooking habits , marriage ideals etc.
the list goes on
@Arabella_Rose
Is all of this because you need for him to have yellow fever? LMAO
Caucasian Man always have a big dick. I do not know why but it is very good. Also it should not be a problem...
Yes, it is defined as an interracial relationship. People of not the same race in an intimate relationship or whatever.
Asian is a culture../
It's considered a racial category, for example, Japanese is a culture../ but I am not here for an argument
Good cause I can go all night and you will lose. And for the people in the back. It's not a race.
Girl gtfo your miserable aren't blocked
For those who aren't miserable like that piece of 💩 who wants to fight www.iowadatacenter.org/.../raceclassification
You're*
Lemme edit this *you're miserable, aren't you? BLOCKED *
We all figure that when he says Asian he is indicating someone that might be a Mongoloid or that doesn't share his race because of the interracial question. When you check off a racial category from a government form Asian is one of them. No one is going deep, I hate when people know what's going on and what is meant but want to act like a know it all's when no one asked for their input. Not every time someone is in the mood for the bs.
If you're both human, that's all that matters, IMHO. Besides, I used to be married to a Vietnamese lady.
What happened “ used to be “ ?
@TessCasie We divorced due to career paths diverging (mine) to different parts of the country. Still good friends though.
Yes it is
by the way how old is she?
Asian is not a race. So no.
@Isawthelight huh 🤔
She is 57 years old.