Girls, what are you looking for when you are on a first date with a guy?

[OlderAndWiser]

A first date is like a casting call or an audition. We have some ideas of what we are looking for and want to see if our potential partner has those qualities. So, ladies, when you are on a first date, which of these factors is first and foremost when you are sharing that meal or strolling and talking to a new guy? If your answer is not one of these options, please explain in the comments.

Is he polite? Does he have good manners?

Does he appear to be intelligent?

Does he have a plan for his life? A path to success?

Is he cheap with his money?

Is he trying to impress me?

Would he be a good role model and a good father for my future children?

Does he have a good sense of humor?

[Ninani]

Is he comfortable with himself. Does he show genuine interest and make room for me in conversation. How does he react to me setting boundaries. How does he speak about other people and treat random people around us. How does he handle a debate - can he respond without the need to defend himself or attack me personally for sharing my point of view.

[annyasansiri]

it means he knows how to act and is aware of his surrounding. and a person who has awareness means he has some EQ. and eq is more important than status, job position and looks. it will be more peaceful to be with a guy that has some eq. less stress, more happy times, thus slightly more happy relationship

[Cynicaldreamer]

First and foremost, I want to see if he's a decent man that's genuinely interested in me... not just sex, but ME and who I am as a person. The other factors, such as intelligence, good manners, and personality, etc... are measured as well.
Though I'm the type of person that usually won't go out with a man without having some idea of what type of person he is before said date.

[jennifer_bloom]

I look for stability and trustworthiness - before I trust him - his good qualities do not matter.

[Sawyerblu]

I selected “is he trying to impress me?” Not because impressing me is important, but quite the opposite. If I can tell that he is putting on a front, it weirds me out. I had a guy whip out and try to nonchalantly flash a stack of 100 dollar bills as he went to pay for our breakfast. He took his sweet time laying it on the table and putting it back in his wallet. Money does not impress me so this was a turn off that he thought I was shallow enough to be impressed. I need a down to earth guy with a great sense of humor which is why I’m lucky to have my boyfriend ♥️

[purplepoppy]

I tend to know quite a bit about him before hand anyway. First dates more about if we get along together away from the usual social scene. It's not really about trying to impress me, just showing your not a weirdo

[Starrisunset]

Someone who is genuinely interested in what I have to say. Is he paying attention to what I'm saying? Is he easy to talk to? Am I attracted to him? Does he seem interested in me, is he asking me questions about myself?

[soulbabe]

The first is manner's because if your not willing to be polite on a first date what is your home life because everyone knows a first date personality is sugar coated

[Anonymous]

I'd hope that we share interests, but also have things that make us unique from each other. If I could see myself cuddled up and talking for hours with someone sweet and understanding, that's someone I'd want to date.

[SphynxUK]

None of those.
Simply, are we compatible/do we click.

[Neko911]

I've never actually really been on a date... mitchell never took me on any

[TrueConfection]

I chose A. If he's rude to people, none of the other things will matter.

2nd choice B.