What do you primarily look for on a first date?

I realize that some of these answers could overlap as reasons, but what is the PRIMARY thing you're looking for on a first date?
Someone to take home for sex
Just to have a fun time regardless if sex or a second date is involved
Compatibility for a longer commitment beyond just casual dating
An ear to dump my life problems on
A free meal and drinks
First date? I can't even get someone to talk to me.
Other (explain in comments)
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What do you primarily look for on a first date?
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