My and my girlfriend had a fight after discussing our sex life. It turns out neither of us are satisfied. Recently she’s been refusing. Then she mentioned a bunch of other things she’s upset about. She’s apparently been unhappy with our relationship in general. When last week she was telling me she’s happy. Then she yelled at me to leave her place.
And how said she doesn’t wanna see me for 5 days. I’m wondering what she’s doing in the those 5 days. Is the screwing someone else. Should still go back to her?
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She doesn’t wanna see me for 5 days. Is it worth going back?
When a person says they don't want to see you in a certain amount of days after a fight means they need a break from that person and think about their relationship. I was in an exact problem with my last ex. My ex and I got into a nasty fight and we took a month long break from each other. During our "break" he told me he still likes me, but I was not sure what to say due to the nasty fight and how he treated me that day. So I gave him a chance. I think its best to talk to your girlfriend about your relationship and where it stands once she's cooled off. Seems like she does not want to be in the relationship anymore :(
Relationships are tough. When women withhold sex, they are often having sex with another person. I suggest re-evaluating what you want out of a relationship. Ten years from now, do you want a family (children and marriage) or do you just want sex? How does your girlfriend stack up? Is she honest? Do you have similar views on money? Could you have children with her, or would she do the Andrea Yates (woman who drowned her five kids to save them from the devil)?
Whatever you do, communicate from a position of strength. Few women like wimpy men. What I mean is text her that you are giving her the five days space she requested, but if she has sex with anyone during the break, the relationship is over. And mean it. You don't need to go into details. However, you don't want to get AIDS because she was an idiot or 8.5 months from now she delivers a baby - is it yours? You don't want a relationship with a woman who needs a DNA test when she gives birth.
Yep, fucking the janitor. LOL Tell us why you want to try to keep with a gal that hates you. I'm just not getting that. Somehow, magically or otherwise, she's just gonna turn 180 and worship you? Be in awe? Decide you're the greatest thing that's ever happened to her? Uh, no. NEVER.
The fact is, once a woman loses the vag-tingles for you, or if they never had them in the first place, THEY ARE NEVER COMING BACK. EVER. That's just how their little mind works.
If a woman wants to get with a man she'll break every rule to do it. If she doesn't, she'll make up a new rule every day why she can't.
If you truly love her then go back to her and resolve you issues If you have temper issues and prone to getting angry in the slightest bit then keep you cool as long as possible, support her and try to understand her point from her view hope it helps OO
No I you shouldn’t go back. Not because of the “5 days” thing, but because you weren’t happy with the amount of sex in the relationship. That wouldn’t be a good thing to go back to. And 5 days apart won’t make that issue any better. It’s best to leave it as a permanent break-up instead of just a temporary one.
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If a woman thinks she can tell you to stay away for 5 days, and thinks you will still be around when she's done ''doing'' whatever or ''who ever''... then she does not respect you and sees you as low value, with low to zero options. If a woman even thought of saying that to me, I'd laugh her out of the room!
As much as if she wanted to she could get another root for the five days I doubt that is what she is doing she is asking for space so you can both think about what's been said and how you actually feel for each other if you ready to throw it all away because you only think sex she must be so you will to. you only want sex from her you don't have respect or real feelings for her or you wouldn't be in this position
I would end it, man. Something similar happened to me. Not in the way you described... but it's a long story. Basically, my girlfriend was comfortable with telling me to leave her alone, because she had another man she was talking to.
If your girl is comfortable with losing you or comfortable with you leaving her alone, chances are she is talking to another dude. Don't make the same mistake I did. I would end this relationship before she does.
Only you Know if you Can---Trust her. I do NOT Trust this relationship. I feel you Should---Go, Joe. Tell her it is Over. It will be Hot and Cold. She has already Told you She is Not happy. xx
Either way you need a break to get your head right man, I'd say move on and if she wants you back she can come find you, but if you ask me this is just a bad relationship.
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I think it's safe to say that for the first 4 of those days she's completely naked and probably cumming more times per day than you can possible imagine. The last day is for her to clean up herself, get all the jizz off of the clothes, the furniture and the walls, and recompose herself before she sees you.
If she genuinely wants to work at the relationship together then it's worth it, but it sounds like she just listed a bunch of problems about you and wants you to fix it
When someone needs that long of a break from you then that’s just a red flag that they don’t really love and value you , so you are better off just ending it and moving on
Honestly, I would wait out the five days and re-evaluate things. Sometimes people in a relationship just need some to think. This does not necessarily mean they’re cheating. It means they want to reflect on where things are at.
Dude, she's already picked at least a couple of guys to bang. She's using this 5 days to set you up for future demise. No, you don't go back to a bitch that does this. Sleep with a couple of her friends.
Not worth the petty drama & all the stress , doesn't necessarily mean she is having sex with another man , just end it for your own peace of mind. The benefits of staying single often outweigh those of being in a relationship.
Whether you give it a chance or not is up to you, but I would be careful not to let her jerk you around. Your feelings, needs, and desires are just as important as hers.
Yeah there’s no reason to assume that’s what she’s doing that we know of. I wouldn’t be surprised if his suspicions nature was a part of the problem here. It could mean she’s within her right to sleep with other people if that was the terms she has set in place but it really depends on what it is she agreed to.
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