“I didn’t think you were that type when we first met”
She ghosted me after 6 weeks of dating/hooking up/hanging out and it really hurts. Should I send her this?
“I didn’t think you were that type when we first met”
I think people should learn how to communicate and not leave people hanging.
But, honestly, her fading out might be more kind than her telling you what she really thinks of you.
I did vote "Send it." She can do whatever she wants, and you can do whatever you want. You both have free will. It's healthy to get closure, and to try and tie up loose ends.
But not all 'ghosting' is bad. Peoples' expectations, and desires, and wishes, are all different. Just because you want to continue, doesn't mean that she needs to. All relationships take two.
She's already replaced you. If you respond at all she'll think of you as a joke. She might even bait you in, knowing that you're so lacking for self-respect. Why reach out to someone who'd not even offered you the bare minimum of human decency? Just forget she existed and move on, and remember that every time someone treats you inhumanely. Eventually that feeling will scar over. From then on, no one can lock you into another one-way commitment.
I know this must hurt. Sorry to hear that.
No point in sending that - or anything else. Its very cold and nasty to just ghost someone like that. Don’t give her another second of your attention. Not worth it. She won’t read it and won’t care. Let it go.
Look at it this way - you were not meant to be with her. This is clearing the way for you to meet the person you are supposed to meet.
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She probably left because she saw you were getting attached and had to sever the cord, so to speak. That romantic lovesick idiot in you wants to throw a snowball into hell and see if it doesn't melt, but the only purpose it would serve is to assure her that she made the right choice. She wasn't looking for love, you were.
Usually I don’t condone replying after you’ve been ghosted, but there’s something about that response that just hits so hard. I’d send it and disappear
You know very well you don't want such a person in your life these ghosters have no morals etc. Probably you're running by your emotions because it's just new shit happen to you once you're less emotional you will think logically then you will realize you won when you lost such a shit. Don't message her you will get nothing except manipulation and sadness and she will suck the hell out of you. To win the game you should quit the game
she's now emotionally in your head, ID meet anther girl, make her suffer if she's that type.. She could be a narcist. If so, shell be. back for supply. Stay away from emotions they feed on suffering. Nows the time to learn who she really is, morals, when things go south. Also, say hi to every. girl. You might find better. What choice you got? she's sounds immature. Red flag, Google. your question you'll get best results, I did and I flipped the situation.
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I don't think u need to send anything and show her that u are hurted, if she treated you like a fool then u should treat her like a bitch.
No don’t. Just don’t text her again.
Since you’re a girl, do you think not responding to her ghosting me would make her think about me?
If that gives you the closure you need, sure
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