Bro the best advice I can give you as a man is to take into account a few things before you decide.
1 how good is your relationship?
2 Is she more attractive than a lot of the other girls you know?
3 are you a jealous guy?
4 How much pride do you have?
If your relationship is sh*t, she just gave you the reason you need to put her to the curb. If it's great consider the other 3 first.
If she is a hotty compared to the other girls you know, do you really want to let one kiss with another guy come in the way of you getting that ass? If she's not cuter than the girls you know, the other "pairs" walking around are looking damn good right now hopefully.
Are you a jealous guy? If so you might be paranoid all the time after this stunt she just pulled. If not you could probably make this work again with her.
Lastly an most important. If you have a lot of pride like every self loving mans' man should; disregard all the other options and drop that bitch asap!
You are a young guy with college, work and hopefully lots of Benjamin's ahead of you. Do you really think this one girl, who can't control herself enough to not kiss another guy, is gonna stop there. Next thing she is gonna accidentally fall on another guys d*** and you will have to deal with that sh*t.
You don't need the stress or anxiety, frustration or pain that this girl will likely bring. Drop her , play the field and live life until you can find a girl who thinks you are worth her time enough to be faithful to you.
Details and context are important, but here's what I can tell you. This happened to me nearly 15 years ago--but I didn't dump her and now I'm married to her. The commenter who talks about pride has it on the money. I was a young kid with low self esteem, and I forgave her and took her back. I should not have. My circumstances were egregious, so I can't say for sure you are in the same boat. But consider having pride. If she disrespects you like this now, she will disrespect you in other ways. Don't fall into the "it was just a kiss" trap. It's not about what base she went to. It's about basic respect getting into that situation in the first place.
Giving someone a second chance is providing them with an opportuinity and your permission to do it again. Why give her a second chance by trusting her... when she has already given you one good reason not trust her. I would never waste my my time with someone who wastes my faith and trust
It is your decision in the end whether you want to give her a second chance , but you never make a mistake twice because the second time is a choice. If someone lets you down once it's a warning...💜😊
I think that if they're willing to cheat once, they're probably willing to do it again. But if you think she's really sorry for what she did, and it was a one-time thing, and you want to give her a second chance, go for it. How do you feel about her now? Do what you feel is right, not what she's begging you to do.
If you want to be with her, be with her.
If you don't want to be with her, don't be with her.
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If she really loved you so much she wouldn't have kissed the guy in the first place. Once a cheater is always cheater. True love defeats temptations. I say just to move on.
You should say yeah I'll take you back, then have her come over and pull a prank on her, like pouring a bucket of cold water on her (only if it's a cold day) and tell her to beat it. Get it on camera too. Ha, payback's a bi*ch.
Everyone is human. And everyone makes mistakes. The same thing happened with me as my boyfriend, except he kissed another girl before I kissed another guy. It was a whole messed up situation but now we're slowly working on things because we both hurt each other the same way. It may not be the same situation but it took him some time to forgive me, but we're working on ways to make our relationship healthier.
did you ask her why she kissed him in the first place? do you know the guy?
you did exactly what I would do. I consider kissing cheating
I would not broke with her because a kiss.
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