Is it a red flag if a girl is touchy feely when she's with you?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

[t-8900]

if she's pointing her body towards you, playing with her hair often, smiling, putting her hands on your arm, etc, she's totally into you. You asked if you know if she's done this with other guys or not. The answer is 95% likely she has because these are natural, instinctive, social queues. It's apart of the female mating strategy just like we men have our own social queues for our mating strategy. if you're expecting a virgin in the USA or you're expecting to find a young lady with a high moral standing matching your own, don't. I've been around long enough to know you will be sadly disappointed. Young girls are racking up the body counts around 5x higher then the men.

Its not unheard of these days for them to have 200+ sexual partners before they are 24. Many of them are participating in orgies with all walks of life. Some are openly willing to be prostitutes. And most have no idea how to get a man to stay because they have no idea what we want. A lot of guys would call these girls "practice girls". Basically you use them and kick them to the curb after you get tired of boning them. I am not one of those men and never will be because I have more respect than that for myself. I keep my integrity and I only respect those who do the same.

Personally as I said in another post I am not sticking around to watch western society unravel. There's no point in staying here anymore imho. If you're a man who actually WANTS a wife and kids who VALUES a life long comittment, gtfo of the USA, UK, Australia, Germany, Sweden, Canada, and New Zealand. There's literally nothing left for us here and a gynocentric culture is not worth saving or putting your tax dollars towards.

[Pasiton5]

Hell no means she l is really digging the dude can't keep her hands off him what red flag is there for showing affection, I'm trying you stop reading these books about if a person does this it means that stop it go with it now if as she's touching feeling you up there appears out of nowhere a shiny thing sharp in her hands run she's a head hunter and wants to shrink your head make a coffee cup out if it, it's funny that's what they did back in ancient times funny as hell go over to visit a what the called barbarians house and they happily pull out a few heard they got from fighting turned them into a drinking cup got to love this guy's just don't get them mad or you will lose you head

[btbc92]

Firstly, nobody should do that to just anybody and wothout your permission. It becomes a red flag because again they are like that with every guy the like physically. The thing is How she js displaying this? Does it make you feel uncomfortable? Do you sense your not the only guy? Do yoh get the feeling she wants somethijg out of this? You need to personally confront and ask her. It's not wise to ask this publically because most people will just say to do it because it's sexual. But if your not that type of guy, you need to make your boundaries clear. You don't just let every single body touch you like that at all. Because it becomes hard to not only trust people it's hard to trust yourself. Firstly who is this girl in the first place? Make sure she's not one of those types.

[Asker]

Well during an argument she said there are other guys that would treat her better..

[btbc92]

Are you kidding me? I would have told her that she can go to those guys. Why does she have to disrespect you? I mean, honestly. That is the type you leave alone. You have the right to decide if you do or do not want to be touched for whatever reasons. She is a red flag.

[KEC203]

Why is that a red flag? If she is in a relationship with you that sounds fine. Touching is a way of showing affection for both genders. It sounds like she likes you. I myself express affection and feeling through physical touch. But if it makes you uncomfortable you should tell her.

[AmandaYVR]

Red flag for what? Most guys would like that. Means she likes you, is into you.

[Asker]

How do I know she's not like this with every dude

[t-8900]

@Asker you don't. But thats the price/chance you have to take in our society these days. Unless you are willing to go overseas to find a wife you'll need to accept the reality of the situation here at home. I'm not going to give you advice on life because I dont consider myself an expert on anything. But based on my life experiences I'm glad I never got entangled with a woman in my 20's for more than a few months at a time. Personally I'm happier building up my fortune and just leaving when I have accumulated about 2 million dollars in my bank account. Im going to live as frugally as possible with only my car, repair, rent, and food expenses. I want to meet a traditional young early 20's girl in SE asia or Latin America and just live over there the rest of my life so I can trust my kids won't be mind F***ed by the SJW LGBT weirdos and I won't have to worry about divorce due to different culture and social norms. If you ask me the USA is a failed social experiment home for no one but corporate slaves.

[OlderAndWiser]

It s a red flag ONLY if you don't want her to touch or feel you. Why would you be with the girl if you don't want her to touch or feel you?

[Alyssa11]

It’s genuinely just a natural instinct. I’m a very touchy person and a lot of the time lol I touch guys on the first date, whether it’s playfully or just flirting. I’m also a virgin out of choice meaning I don’t have any other intentions when I do it. It happens subconsciously.

[TonyMetal___86]

I'm sure that the guy wants to touch miss alyssa rapunzel too... but where? OFC HER MAGICAL HAIR 😂

[Interstate]

I can't remember the last time I heard a Woman say she chooses to KEEP her virginity! 👍 🤗

[TonyMetal___86]

@Interstate she's a wonderful lady

[Alyssa11]

Aww thanks both!!

[TonyMetal___86]

Your welcome 😌

[Interstate]

@alyssa11 Certainly. You should check out my recent MyTake on Responsibility. You might like it!

[Somewhatfriendly]

Yes it also depends on what kind of women it is in our society people there have been a lot of men that have had sex changes. This is very offensive to men and women that want to start family life. If you are really interested in making a family go on the net and Google search small test to prove your gender. This 8s called genocide it's a crime and can lead to many more crimes that confuse normal people like men and women. This is the story of life. Very sad to us normally it not a happy thing being in the company of homosexuals 5they are the most popular known for major spreads of deadly diseases known to humans so be on the look friends it not nice masterbating on if you have to balk so be it. Porn sites have some good videos

[Jaysonava]

It tends to be a good sign.

But the phrasing of this question suggests that there is ANOTHER red flag.

Some crazy women touch and feel to manipulate. Because something is intrinsically wrong with them.

Such women are atypical. But you seem to be picking up on something else awry.

[Blueeyes81]

Depends. 98% of the time no. The other 2% is unwanted. Meaning sometimes you ladies creep us out as well sometimes. I've encountered some weird touchy feely ladies that made me very uncomfortable.

The other 98% is welcomed or tolerated. I'm pretty dense in reading women's interest level so her being touchy feeling is one way I actually pick up on.

[hahahmm]

When I was your age it was a red flag if she started it... but back then we had a an easier time making the distinction between girls who got sexual with *everybody they saw* and the ones who were loyal types.

[hahahmm]

I should add: you never know what you're dealing with till they earn your trust tho. Lots of people appear to be something they aren't. Many guys rush into things...

[cloudspy]

When she is with you and you are interested in each other then I'd say no, it's not a red flag. I would think it means she likes you. If she is touchy freely in general with everyone then I'd say yes, it's a red flag.

[Wester1967]

A female assistant manager at my store felt my ass. If I’d done it to her I’d be in jail right now.

[serious]

The answer is both yes and no. If the woman is touchy feely with every guy then it is a big red flag but if she is that way only with the man she loves then it is completely fine.

[Jake99999]

There is not context to this question so there is not good way to answer.

[Mofunfour20]

If i just met her fk yeah, NEVER AGAIN! if youve talked and have rapport nope. She's asking for your reward 🍆

[rcljr]

Hell no, means she’s into you, if she’s with a friend or 2 and she keeps glancing at you, see which way her feet are pointed, if her feet are pointed at you, that’s an invitation to talk

[BigManSAB]

You need to be more specific. Are you talking about a girl that you’re dating acting touchy with other guys? Or a girl who’s just touchy in general? If it’s a girl you’re dating being touchy with other dudes then it’s a serious red flag🚩

[anniisa97]

Unless she's in a relationship or married, it is definitely not a red flag of any kind.

[Browneye57]

Tell us why you don't want your woman to touch you. We're dying to know.

[Asker]

Well during an argument she said there are other guys that would treat her better..

[Browneye57]

A couple of things come to mind...
1. The arguing is a giant fail. Her for doing it, and you for keeping it going. Amateurs. LOL
2. If other guys 'would treat her better', give her to them. That's right, dump her ass. Why are you wasting your time? She must be some piece of ass.

[Interstate]

Yes! It is generally a red flag for she is affectionate.

[Ninani]

Depends on what you mean by that. Explain yourself, please.

[LisaRaven]

I would need more information. Touchy Feely as with you or touching feeling other people?

[Birdlegs]

That’s the opposite of a red flag but you’d have to see if she’s like that with everybody first