Is it a red flag if a girl is touchy feely when she's with you?

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t-8900 · Accepted Answer

if she's pointing her body towards you, playing with her hair often, smiling, putting her hands on your arm, etc, she's totally into you. You asked if you know if she's done this with other guys or not. The answer is 95% likely she has because these are natural, instinctive, social queues. It's apart of the female mating strategy just like we men have our own social queues for our mating strategy. if you're expecting a virgin in the USA or you're expecting to find a young lady with a high moral standing matching your own, don't. I've been around long enough to know you will be sadly disappointed. Young girls are racking up the body counts around 5x higher then the men.

Its not unheard of these days for them to have 200+ sexual partners before they are 24. Many of them are participating in orgies with all walks of life. Some are openly willing to be prostitutes. And most have no idea how to get a man to stay because they have no idea what we want. A lot of guys would call these girls "practice girls". Basically you use them and kick them to the curb after you get tired of boning them. I am not one of those men and never will be because I have more respect than that for myself. I keep my integrity and I only respect those who do the same.

Personally as I said in another post I am not sticking around to watch western society unravel. There's no point in staying here anymore imho. If you're a man who actually WANTS a wife and kids who VALUES a life long comittment, gtfo of the USA, UK, Australia, Germany, Sweden, Canada, and New Zealand. There's literally nothing left for us here and a gynocentric culture is not worth saving or putting your tax dollars towards.

Pasiton5 · Accepted Answer

Hell no means she l is really digging the dude can't keep her hands off him what red flag is there for showing affection, I'm trying you stop reading these books about if a person does this it means that stop it go with it now if as she's touching feeling you up there appears out of nowhere a shiny thing sharp in her hands run she's a head hunter and wants to shrink your head make a coffee cup out if it, it's funny that's what they did back in ancient times funny as hell go over to visit a what the called barbarians house and they happily pull out a few heard they got from fighting turned them into a drinking cup got to love this guy's just don't get them mad or you will lose you head

btbc92 · Accepted Answer

Firstly, nobody should do that to just anybody and wothout your permission. It becomes a red flag because again they are like that with every guy the like physically. The thing is How she js displaying this? Does it make you feel uncomfortable? Do you sense your not the only guy? Do yoh get the feeling she wants somethijg out of this? You need to personally confront and ask her. It's not wise to ask this publically because most people will just say to do it because it's sexual. But if your not that type of guy, you need to make your boundaries clear. You don't just let every single body touch you like that at all. Because it becomes hard to not only trust people it's hard to trust yourself. Firstly who is this girl in the first place? Make sure she's not one of those types.

KEC203 · Accepted Answer

Why is that a red flag? If she is in a relationship with you that sounds fine. Touching is a way of showing affection for both genders. It sounds like she likes you. I myself express affection and feeling through physical touch. But if it makes you uncomfortable you should tell her.

AmandaYVR · Answer

Red flag for what? Most guys would like that. Means she likes you, is into you.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

It s a red flag ONLY if you don't want her to touch or feel you. Why would you be with the girl if you don't want her to touch or feel you?

Alyssa11 · Answer

It’s genuinely just a natural instinct. I’m a very touchy person and a lot of the time lol I touch guys on the first date, whether it’s playfully or just flirting. I’m also a virgin out of choice meaning I don’t have any other intentions when I do it. It happens subconsciously.

Somewhatfriendly · Answer

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Jaysonava · Answer

It tends to be a good sign.

But the phrasing of this question suggests that there is ANOTHER red flag.

Some crazy women touch and feel to manipulate. Because something is intrinsically wrong with them.

Such women are atypical. But you seem to be picking up on something else awry.

Blueeyes81 · Answer

Depends. 98% of the time no. The other 2% is unwanted. Meaning sometimes you ladies creep us out as well sometimes. I've encountered some weird touchy feely ladies that made me very uncomfortable.

The other 98% is welcomed or tolerated. I'm pretty dense in reading women's interest level so her being touchy feeling is one way I actually pick up on.

hahahmm · Answer

When I was your age it was a red flag if she started it... but back then we had a an easier time making the distinction between girls who got sexual with *everybody they saw* and the ones who were loyal types.

cloudspy · Answer

When she is with you and you are interested in each other then I'd say no, it's not a red flag. I would think it means she likes you. If she is touchy freely in general with everyone then I'd say yes, it's a red flag.

Wester1967 · Answer

A female assistant manager at my store felt my ass. If I’d done it to her I’d be in jail right now.

serious · Answer

The answer is both yes and no. If the woman is touchy feely with every guy then it is a big red flag but if she is that way only with the man she loves then it is completely fine.

Jake99999 · Answer

There is not context to this question so there is not good way to answer.

Mofunfour20 · Answer

If i just met her fk yeah, NEVER AGAIN! if youve talked and have rapport nope. She's asking for your reward 🍆

rcljr · Answer

Hell no, means she’s into you, if she’s with a friend or 2 and she keeps glancing at you, see which way her feet are pointed, if her feet are pointed at you, that’s an invitation to talk

BigManSAB · Answer

You need to be more specific. Are you talking about a girl that you’re dating acting touchy with other guys? Or a girl who’s just touchy in general? If it’s a girl you’re dating being touchy with other dudes then it’s a serious red flag🚩

anniisa97 · Answer

Unless she's in a relationship or married, it is definitely not a red flag of any kind.

Browneye57 · Answer

Tell us why you don't want your woman to touch you. We're dying to know.

Interstate · Answer

Yes! It is generally a red flag for she is affectionate.

Ninani · Answer

Depends on what you mean by that. Explain yourself, please.

LisaRaven · Answer

I would need more information. Touchy Feely as with you or touching feeling other people?

Birdlegs · Answer

That’s the opposite of a red flag but you’d have to see if she’s like that with everybody first

PRoche21 · Answer

It means she wants you bro. If her wanting you is a red flag. Like if she's your friends girlfriend then obviously yeah. But otherwise your in the clear.

daisy191 · Answer

Seems to me like she’s just into you she likes you I don’t consider it a red flag

Exterminatore · Answer

If you’re gay I guess.

noohair · Answer

It is, I have found, more a cultural thing. If you are uncomfortable, it is not acceptable in your culture. If she is the one, embrace the new culture.

JosyJosy · Answer

If it's only you, then no

Flower7 · Answer

Only if you don’t like her and don’t have feelings for her.

Iron_Man · Answer

If she doesn’t grab your dick that’s OK too much of that is like a wild stripper. And how many guys has she done that with

Fukaroo · Answer

Hey back off of my magical mountain dew you mother fucker.. and yasss.

Massageman · Answer

AS long as I am reasonably sure there isn't an ulterior motive, I certainly wouldn't stop her. ;- )

Clarke498 · Answer

Depends. If it goes on for months and she refuses to say why or even hint there's a reason why, then yes.

Anonymous · Answer

For real? If you or other guys don't like cuddly girls, leave them for me. I'll cuddle up these ladies all day and all night long.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

As long as i'm comfortable with her than i don't mind

CharlieDuos · Answer

It's usually an indicator someone likes you if they touch you.

Better_off_here · Answer

so your against a woman showing you how she cares and to me, if a woman can't keep her hands off me it is a good sign :)

Ryfyle · Answer

What are you, Gay? If so, don't live a lie for any reason, its more problems than its worth.

que746 · Answer

It really depends on the person. They could naturally be a flirt.

coupleofquestions · Answer

If she asks for something with a price tag after then yes.

slatyb · Answer

No, that's a good sign. I love it.

DonkeyDan · Answer

How would that be a reg flag?

Tiptoetamm · Answer

No it means she likes you

NicoletteXO · Answer

No, it's a green flag, you nincompoop 😂

Inexpensivefurniture · Answer

Only if you tell her not to and she does it anyway

Redstang88 · Answer

Ummmm, why would that be a red flag?

exitseven · Answer

It would work for me.

Fuentes · Answer

Nah imma smash her

loveslongnails · Answer

Only if you don't want that in your girl.

Andres77 · Answer

Red flag or green light. It depends.

ToastyOats · Answer

No, are you retarded.

pleasestopthis · Answer

Why would it be a red flag?

moviedude714 · Answer

I believe that means she's attracted to you

EyesOfGod · Answer

Its a green flag for sex

FreeOhSeven · Answer

It’s a red flag that she’s horny

Hanmakevi · Answer

Yes it means her attraction is mostly physical

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

On a 1 or 2 date then maybe

boggboss · Answer

Wtf u talking about

MAKO31 · Answer

experienced is all you need to know!

Anonymous · Answer

Why would that be a red flag?

alance99 · Answer

Its a turn on for me

MountAverage · Answer

Huh? How so?

OddBeMe · Answer

Sure if you’re gay.

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