What's the reason why you don't progress on to the 2nd date?

[Anonymous]

[TremorJay]

I've had maybe 2 first dates in the last 3 years that I've been single. The first one was just painfully awkward. We didn't know each other and we didn't click well at all.

The last one was a wake up call. She came to my house and did-not-stop-talking for 2 hours straight. She was telling me all this stuff about her life. How's she's got a back injury and she's dependent on weed to reduce the pain. She said she was really anxious, so I figured okay, maybe we can smoke a little and she'll relax. Nope. I couldn't get more than a few words in here and there. She needed this expensive surgery that would put her in recovery for 6 months, but she doesn't know how to manage that when she has a kid. I didn't know she was a mom, and all this baggage was adding up really fast. I had to get rid of her, so I asked her to play a board game with me. She did, and then I walked her to her car. After learning virtually nothing about me, she tried to lean in for a kiss. When I stepped back, she said something like I can't take a hint. I had to tell her over text that I didn't have fun that night. The experience was so bad, it felt surreal, like I was having a bad dream.

[t-8900]

Just reading this was painful

[yofuknutz]

Was she a score material?

[TremorJay]

I'd say yes, but nothing too impressive

[Fireguy17]

usually it is a personality issues.
No sense of humor, just too into herself, self absorbed, always looking at her phone, Hello, I am over here!
Thinks she is gods gift to men, like playing games instead of just coming out and saying what she wants, things like that, sorry life is too short.
You can pick up on those traits right away.

[Aimée__LJ]

They don't reply to meThey say they had fun but we didn't vibeThey're mad I didn't put out on the first date.

[poneglyphs]

Guys get at you for not putting out on the first date?

Why do these type of guys expect that from you?

@Aimée__LJ

[Aimée__LJ]

@poneglyphs I wish I knew

[poneglyphs]

@Aimée__LJ damm wish I would go on date and show you an amazing time and not expect sex cuz I will be too nervous 😅😅

[Aimée__LJ]

@poneglyphs lmao yeah I have some really bad luck. Kinda given up lately 🤣

[poneglyphs]

@Aimée__LJ damm that sucks wanna talk more in private 🥺🥺

[Starwitch23]

I am scared to date. It seems like I don't want to date.

[ChrisMaster69]

I’ve always moved to 2nd and 3rd dates.

I tend to do a lot of groundwork before asking (or being asked) on date

[Anonymous]

i have been in a full relationship with 8 women besides my wife. I have dated hundreds, Only 9, including my wife made it past the first date. It was for a myriad of things. Trying too hard, Cell phone us, Lying to me, They were hiding the fact that she is a single mother, she's a feminist. She has no sense of humor. When out for dinner, her food cost more than mine.. Or she was just full of her self.

[yofuknutz]

Now that's the elephant the room her food cost more than yours that's going to be one hell of a bill she's got to pay at the end of the date. Lol 😆 I like that that's one hell of a pick up line

[exitseven]

I have had a few 1st dates that never went beyond that. I think it was just because there was no real feeling that there was no future in the relationship.

[t-8900]

The energy she gives off on a first date tells me if we're going to hit it off I think.

[Twalli]

I never considered it a first date. Kind of why my second date with my girlfriend was 5 months after the first one. i didn't know the first one was a date.

[Twalli]

If we were there alone then I may have guessed because we weren't good friends beforehand. Yet her friend found her there before I got there and she wouldn't leave. Probably because her friend found me attractive too. My girlfriend told me her friend said after the meeting "if you don't want him I'll take him".

[yofuknutz]

I'm glad it worked out for you that's pretty cool one choice or another totally awesome brother.

[Twalli]

@yofuknutz her friend wasn't attractive

[yofuknutz]

Neither was my previous and her friend but you know what made them both attractive they were both on birth control have fun and nut away

[Twalli]

@yofuknutz I got a vascetomy so birth control doesn't matter

[yofuknutz]

When women hear that you had a vasectomy does that make them want to sleep with you more or less you know I'm asking for a friend

[Twalli]

@yofuknutz it depends on their goal. If she isn't seeking kids thrm we go for it raw as soon as the STD results are back. Otherwise she won't date me. I don't mind kids and would adopt, I just don't want to father any. Nobody should have my genetic makeup. I have a way to prevent anyone else from getting it.

[moviedude714]

Why does it seem most of the time it's women who lose interest after the first date then it is for men

[KrakenAttackin]

She either has zero personality or a shit personality, and/or her photos were wildly deceptive.

[Shamiah02]

Usually the first date went horrible

[DaviRon]

I sucked at first date.

[Revna]

Zero chemistry. Personality clashed.

[Nachowedgie]

Cuz I haven't had the first date yet lol

[zagor]

Lack of interest, usually mutual.

[IncognitoBandito]

Lack of things in common.

[scooogy]

When she sticks to her phone

[noohair]

Chemistry I would guess.

[SpaceGalaxy]

when she talks more than she listens

[jimmy2]

No way on 2nd that saying we dont match

[Anonymous]

First read my mind filled it in as second grade 😂

[Gwenhwyfar]

No chemistry

[Iron_Man]

I do