What's the reason why you don't progress on to the 2nd date?

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TremorJay · Accepted Answer

I've had maybe 2 first dates in the last 3 years that I've been single. The first one was just painfully awkward. We didn't know each other and we didn't click well at all.

The last one was a wake up call. She came to my house and did-not-stop-talking for 2 hours straight. She was telling me all this stuff about her life. How's she's got a back injury and she's dependent on weed to reduce the pain. She said she was really anxious, so I figured okay, maybe we can smoke a little and she'll relax. Nope. I couldn't get more than a few words in here and there. She needed this expensive surgery that would put her in recovery for 6 months, but she doesn't know how to manage that when she has a kid. I didn't know she was a mom, and all this baggage was adding up really fast. I had to get rid of her, so I asked her to play a board game with me. She did, and then I walked her to her car. After learning virtually nothing about me, she tried to lean in for a kiss. When I stepped back, she said something like I can't take a hint. I had to tell her over text that I didn't have fun that night. The experience was so bad, it felt surreal, like I was having a bad dream.

Fireguy17 · Accepted Answer

usually it is a personality issues.
No sense of humor, just too into herself, self absorbed, always looking at her phone, Hello, I am over here!
Thinks she is gods gift to men, like playing games instead of just coming out and saying what she wants, things like that, sorry life is too short.
You can pick up on those traits right away.

Aimée__LJ · Accepted Answer

They don't reply to meThey say they had fun but we didn't vibeThey're mad I didn't put out on the first date.

Starwitch23 · Accepted Answer

I am scared to date. It seems like I don't want to date.

exitseven · Answer

I have had a few 1st dates that never went beyond that. I think it was just because there was no real feeling that there was no future in the relationship.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

I’ve always moved to 2nd and 3rd dates. I tend to do a lot of groundwork before asking (or being asked) on date

moviedude714 · Answer

Why does it seem most of the time it's women who lose interest after the first date then it is for men

Anonymous · Answer

i have been in a full relationship with 8 women besides my wife. I have dated hundreds, Only 9, including my wife made it past the first date. It was for a myriad of things. Trying too hard, Cell phone us, Lying to me, They were hiding the fact that she is a single mother, she's a feminist. She has no sense of humor. When out for dinner, her food cost more than mine.. Or she was just full of her self.

t-8900 · Answer

The energy she gives off on a first date tells me if we're going to hit it off I think.

Twalli · Answer

I never considered it a first date. Kind of why my second date with my girlfriend was 5 months after the first one. i didn't know the first one was a date.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

She either has zero personality or a shit personality, and/or her photos were wildly deceptive.

Shamiah02 · Answer

Usually the first date went horrible

IncognitoBandito · Answer

Lack of things in common.

noohair · Answer

Chemistry I would guess.

jimmy2 · Answer

No way on 2nd that saying we dont match

DaviRon · Answer

I sucked at first date.

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

No chemistry

Revna · Answer

Zero chemistry. Personality clashed.

Nachowedgie · Answer

Cuz I haven't had the first date yet lol

zagor · Answer

Lack of interest, usually mutual.

scooogy · Answer

When she sticks to her phone

Iron_Man · Answer

I do

SpaceGalaxy · Answer

when she talks more than she listens

CuriousAZ · Answer

can't stand them

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