Why is the 2nd date a Make it or Break it?

[Anonymous]

Even when the 1st date goes super great, then you meet for a 2nd date, most likely at a different time and place. I've found that I'm dealing with a whole different type of person, or something about them turns me off. Sometimes I believe its mutual for us both.

Was the 1st date chemistry just a show? lol even if you did not drink.

[RHK36]

It's not a thing. If it's a thing for you then it's the men you choose. In general most men figure out quickly what they want. Any guy that says he needs time is either lying or still too immature.

If it keeps happening to you then it might be you.

[Asker]

Please it is not ME! lol. I went on a 2nd hike date and they guy literally had an air mattress as a late 30 something, and no furniture. No its not me. Most 2nd dates, are a make it or break it because true colors are shown.

[NathanDavis]

perhaps... some people does pretend on a first date because of you know... first impressions

either put own a show, they try some things here and there... and maybe they don't actually have a pre-plan for the second but still give it a try, lol... maybe

[laly520]

for some it is

for others it takes longer to decide

[Sameone]

I don't know but i can't judge only after 8 to 10 dates

[MrDaveAPSI]

Because generally the 3rd date is known as the "sex date"